He sees the world black and white. I don't I am very openminded he isn't I like to rescue animals, i'm a vegetrian, i love to walk barefoot , or being nude at home. he thinks it's not the way people should behave. and so on and so on ... Is this a healthy relationship? I mean we love eachother but i get the feeling sometimes that I 'm not being me, becaus he doens't like it. I listen to his iterest, but he doesn't. Is this fair?
its not fair that you listen to his interests but he doesnt do the same if he accepts you for who you are then i say stick with it if he does not accept who you are in time then maybe you might need to have a talk with him and re-think the relationship opposites do attract (sometimes) but you must have respect for each other and their beliefs
as long as you guys are supportive of each other and he shows that he cares about you then why does it matter if your different. how he treats you is much more important then differences. oh but be yourself you always have to be yourself or else your picking a guy over yourself and thats never cool especially since youre just dating.
always, always, always be yourself. tell him that if he really cares about you, he will let you be yourself without ridiculing you. it's not fair if he makes you feel bad for being yourself. that is what we call one-sided. give him an ultimatum. tell him that you need to be free to be yourself without him making you feel bad about it. tell him he needs to stop making you feel bad, or you're out. if he loves you, he will try. but if he doesn't change and start letting you be YOU without make you feel bad, end it. there are many good men in the world, most of which would let you be who you are without making you feel bad.
that must be hard. I hate to say it, but as much you you two can have love for each other, if you aren't on the same path of life, sharing a life together will be very hard. Just because he is different and conforms doesn't make him a bad person, as long as he's not trying to change you into that person. You could, possibly, accept and love each other for who you are, but sharing a life together will bring up many disputes, as you view the world so differently. Think about that. You will be able to overcome your differences, or look at each other and say you are just too different and wish each other luck.
Exactly... You could make it work beinmg that different but It would be very hard... People easily become resentful in situtations like that... And It can cause major problems.. It would be onething if he accepted you for who you are and him the same.. But if he cant understand and accept the way you are.. Its gonna be a rough road
Thank you sweet people, for your love and support. I should take your advice, and see how it ends. It's may going to be a hard road.But i better take the hard , right road, then the easy, wrong one. peace dear people
