when you peeps have sex do you usually talk or anything. i have had sex just not with a boyfriend, had sex with guys who i thought were going to be something but then played me, i was stupid at the time, so i didnt talk or anything during it, maybe because in my mind i knew it wasnt the real love thing but i dont know does anyone here get embarrassed to talk duriing sex or do u just have sex or make love
It's not polite to talk with your mouth full. But when they aren't, we plan menus and talk about organic gardening, sometimes we debate God as the uncaused first cause... Or Nietzche vs. Kant... which would win a knife fight. Oh yeah, and we take turns moaning.
I think its completely normal to talk during sex as long as both people are comfortable with it...saying some dirty things to eachother can spice up the sex life. I would avoid saying "I love you" during sex...unless you have been with the person a long time. Usually early in a relationship if the first time they tell you that they love you is during sex...its because you are making them feel oh so good and they interperet that as feeling in love...which really its lust...which can be a great feeling. But yeah...try it...let them know what you like... tell him to smack your ass if you want him to...talk dirty or talk all lovey...what ever gets the two of you off without offending eachother