Has MJ affected your love life?

Well... I had an epiphany about if I didn't smoke, would it be easier to meet girls and that kind of thing? I normally am a kind of an introverted person that doesn't meet too mant new people, although I'm up for it. I haven't had a relationship in my dreary 19 (almost 20) years of existance, which I know, is quite sad. I was just wondering other people's take on this...

 

smoking lets me meet more people. the bigger the pothead, the bigger the phonebook

 

and as for the love life and such, pot makes me horny, so i've slept around too

 

I thought we were talkig about MJ Michael Jackson. He has not affected my love life.

 

he he I though you meant Michael Jackson... I say do what you think will get you the results your looking for. I kinda like guys that smoke, but some of my friends hate it. Iif you change and are not happy you can change back
Happy Trails

 

There is just as large a smoking community as non smoking, maybe you should work on being more socialy aggresive?

 

marijuana cant affect something that doesnt exist.

 

A guy my age can FUCK longer. At least, I can.

 

You know if you stop smoking you will talk more. Atleast I do. For some reason I think that if I stop smoking I will make less mistakes then if I were stoned, because Im paying more attention. I smoke every day, all day, Ive gotten so used to it that being stoned is normal for me, and being normal is wierd as fuck for me. When I dont smoke I have more energy, I sorta enjoy talking (i hardly talk when Im stoned), and ... well thats a huge part of "girl getting"... isnt it?

 

I was gonna say the exact same thing!!!

I think it all depends on the type of people you want to meet...all the chicks I meet that smoke are either really sexy and outgoing or really dumb and annoying...same for guys too....

If it has done anything for me it has made mine better...I love smoking then going to fuck in the corner

yeah..I just realized how useless my post was...

 

Yeah, totally depends on who you want to meet and how marijuana affects YOU as an individual... you shouldn't need advice if you KNOW that marijuana makes you more nervous around people or makes you more introverted than you already are. Luckily my girlfriend smoked pot when i met her so i didn't feel like i had to not smoke for any reason. Ever since being young i had decided that a relationship with a girl that didn't smoke probably wasn't my thing, because marijuana is such a big part of my life and is important to me, it's nice to find someone that can share that with you... but if you're only objective is to get laid... then do whatever is necessary!!
As far as marijuanas effects on love-making, i'm able to last much longer when i'm stoned and my g/f gets very wet when she's gets turned on under the influence. Two people making love on marijuana can be a very dreamy and surreal experience (as long as you're not overcome with nervousness and anxiety). Same goes for mushrooms (although more than a gram or two and you might find your 'member' un-cooperative or 'trippy' ), but you'd both better be VERY comfortable with each other, mushrooms can help if you're into tantric love-making.

 

Yeah it's true that I have met a lot more people ever since I started smoking, but the girls that I meet that smoke are not the kind of girls I would want to be around a lot... I guess you could say I'm picky, but I just don't want to have anything to do with crazy girls that cut their wrists and shit like that...


And what the hell do you mean rhastapenguin?
That's not a very nice thing to say....

 

awww...poor baby..is he being mean to you?

seriously...I know what you mean...I do know a lot of girls who are all angsty and shit like that but not ALL of them are...hell I mean I was like that (and outgrew it) WAY before I started smoking...

Are these girls you know your own age? Most girls I know kind of outgrow that stuff by 19

 

the best is smoking like 4 bongs and 3 bowls, then putting on some pink floyd and fucking while watching that one trippy ass screen saver

 

*sigh*....

 

lol yah..but love goes a litte more deeper then that buddy, but good 4 you on that! its wierd girls will like you but when they find out you smoke or something they act like its a huge deal and want you to stop. the trick is to find a girl that is at the same level socially and smokes AS MUCH as you do. if y ou dont smoke then you will be with someone who does not smoke, if you smoke then chances are if youre in a working relationship the partner will be smoking also.

 

It actually helped me with girls, my confidence raised a ton since before I smoked and I care alot less about what people think of me so I'm more open and I don't hide myself behind fake pleasentries. Girls seem to like that.

 

yeah i know but when you're one true love hates you, you'll settle for the best lay in town

 

Most of the ladies around here like to DRINK alot, seems the height of social activity here is going to the bar with crappy music and stale peanuts so it kind of sucks for a pothead. But there's a couple, we get along.......

 

its hindered me in that i cant be fucked talking to girls about stuff i dont want to know, i just want to get in their pants.

I talk less because I dont really want to talk to most people unless its meaningful or humorous.

I dont want a relationship. i just want a fuck. If it turned into a relationship then all the better but all the effort and money required to have a relationship with most people sucks.

the worst part is that most of the girls who i can talk with and stuff best are the ones who think drugs are bad. Most of the full stoner chicks i know are dumb or boring or ugly.

but i keep perservering!

i just gotta find more things to talk about with these human things