Ok, I really need some advice. i've been with my boyfirend for 4 months and i'm debating splitting up with him. We' very different in how we expet a r'ship to be. He's very clingy and takes things very personal, I like my own space and I'm not a very open person. i like him loads, but i don't no whether i like him in the way I should. He's told me he loves me and that he doesn't want me to leave him, we get on so well it's great and I don't want to lose him as a friend. I don't find him that sexually attractive either and I find it hard to act like I do. I feel so bad about being with him and I feel so bad about leaving him. I just don't know what to do, so ive asked him to give me some space to sort my head out. Is it ok to be with someone if you feel so differently about each other, I like him, he loves me type thing?
i don't think it's very FAIR to the other person. if you aren't feeling it, you should end it with him. he'll be hurt now, but he'll be much less hurt now than if you break it off later. it's my belief that if you don't fall in love with someone in the beginning part, you're not ever going to fall in love with them. if he's in love with you and you aren't in love with him and don't see yourself feeling that way, let it go. save this boy from a world of hurt and heartbreak, and save yourself from feeling trapped.
I don't think its fair... If you dont feel the same way about him that he does about you... You need to let him go to find someone who will give him that... If you ever loved him... could you be in a rut... Or are you sure these are your feelings? I say think about it... But If you feel that you dont love him then let him go...
From someone that has been there...remember each day is one closer to your last. If you are with someone make it someone that you would feel fufilled with as if it was your last day. Don't let days pass you by because you are afraid to do what feels right to you
If you've only been with him 4 months and you're debating breaking up....you should listen to your instincts. You don't want to waste both of your time on something that isn't going to work.
