Quitting for a loved one?

Discussion in 'Stoners Lounge' started by headymoechick, Mar 24, 2005.

  1. chrondo

    chrondo Member

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    haha i gotta say i would. not to quote dave chappelle, but i love weed. i LOVE IT. but not as much as i love pussy
     
  2. StonerBill

    StonerBill Learn

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    isnt a partner a luxury as much as anything else is?
    you can survive without it. you might go crazy...
    i can survive without weed but i go crazy...
     
  3. MagicSwhirlingShip

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    ahahahaha the girl i like......... i cant even go into this.......


    its so serious i feel as though i cant die because my emotions towards her are so strong they connect me to this place.
     
  4. jo_k_er_man

    jo_k_er_man TBD

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    How many of you would quit smoking if your girlfriend/ boyfriend really wanted you to? Once.... then i said screw it from then on.... if someone cant like me for who i am then screw them.. i dont need people like that in my life

    Could you have a relationship in which the other partner didn't smoke?
    Sure.. as long as they dont have any problems with it... and understand that marijuana aint a bad plant.... but alot of people that dont smoke are so close minded about it that i dont think it would really work out too well....

    What if they were ok with it, but didn't want to do it with you, would you still want to be with them? Thats their problem... i am who i am... love it or leave it

    Would you lie?
    Been there.. done that... but i dont hide the fact that i smoke weed anymore... im very clearly open about it..

    Would you choose pot over a person?
    Depends... probably wouldnt go any further than my family though.... they're the only ones i care enough about that i would quit if there was som serious reason i had to to help my family...
     
  5. jennifericous

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    if you make someone quit smoking pot for you it puts a huge amount of pressure on the relationship, you essentially have to fill the void that was being filled my weed. you'll have to be the most fun person in the world... or worse, listen and help them with all their problems that were being forgotten because of the weed. been there done that, not so fun! so now i smoke a shitload more so that his moaning doesn't annoy me so much.... does that make me a bad person? lol i dont care
     
  6. StonerBill

    StonerBill Learn

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    yer you suck, so do your partners
     
  7. dmgreen

    dmgreen ~Hugz 4 All~

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    HELL NO!!!! I wouldn't quit for anyone. First of all if I met a guy or girl that liked me when they met me then they shouldn't try to change me! Second crondo said that he loves pussy so much that he would quit for a lady......WTF!!!!!????? There are a million girls in the world you might as well try to hook up with one who respects you for you, not for who they want you to be!!!
    Never quit for anyone but yourself!
     
  8. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    my man got caught sneaking a few hits behind my back. No big deal. But then he LIED about it! GRR!!

    So now, it's a battle. pot head vs. girl pot head. I'm going to smoke so much without him now!! fuck it. I won't lie like he does. that's mean and i can't be a hypocrite. But I CAN make him know how it feels to be busting ass at work and come home to find out your girl is ripped.
     
  9. StonerBill

    StonerBill Learn

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    i dont understand, you both smoke, why would he have to lie about it? why would you care if he smoked lol, you do to?
     
  10. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    THANK YOU!!! I was trying to tell him this before. I don't give a shit that he took a few hits. But when I asked, he lied by omission. and I asked a few times "what did you do when you were home?"

    I just wanted him to be honest. I think he felt bad, because he knew I was working while he was getting stoned. He felt guilty. And he should!! Like I said, it's no big deal, but it IS half my bag.

    I just wanted him to tell me the truth, ya know? this is an ongoing issue because he was unemployed for 6 months, while I was working 50-60 hour weeks to support us and our habit. He would sit at home and get baked, and then lie about it because he felt guilty.
     
  11. MagicSwhirlingShip

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    ^thats pretty shallow.

    i never wanna be like that
     
  12. Ryoto

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    Couldn't say it better my brotha.
     
  13. Ryoto

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    Ahhaha, True that, truuuuuue that.
     
  14. StonerBill

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    well i wouldnt want to sit around for 6 months unemployed either. im sure i could get some sort of job jees i dont see how people do it. isnt having a shitty paying job better than having no job at all? how can people not have a job for 6 months? theres always fast food places or restraunts or janitorial positions.
     
  15. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    who's pretty shallow? Me or my boyfriend?

    And I allowed him to sit for 6 months with no job because he could collect unemployment. I would never 100% support us right now. Not until i'm married and have a baby will I support anyone else by myself. I think he should have gotten a job that pays less instead of just laying around getting stoned all the time. We argued about it a lot.

    But everything is ok now. I told him I'm going to smoke whenever I please and I'll at least have the decency to tell him the truth afterwards, instead of lying like he did.
     
  16. jo_k_er_man

    jo_k_er_man TBD

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    i miss headymoechick.. she was hawt
     

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