first time I make a women cry :( read plz

and now I feel bad, but let me explain!

ok, if you read my last post, you'll see how much I can love her and everything. I gave her my trust blindly. I learned 2 days ago that she have a new boyfriend. that fact is not important itself because during 5 days she knew how I feel and look me in the eyes without telling me that information. I learned it from another person. now I'm so frustrated. I mean. I saw her 2 time and talk to her on the phone (having important conversations about love and that shit) 3 time and all this time she was with that guy!!!

anyways, yesterday I talked to her for the first time since I learned and I told her that she had totally lost myconfiance and my respect for not having the guts to tell me and been able to look me in the eyes and thenshe starts to cry for like 10 mins. I was wounded really.

but am I not the one suppose to be sad in the story? the one suppose to cry because I feel like I lost my soulmate. because I'll see her with that guy and I'll have to smile and be nice, because that's how I am.

I mean, in the world of Evil, we can all agree that it is a good thing to kill a murderer but how are we supose to agree to see or hear a women crying

sorry my english is bad, but it's my third language, so try to be comprehensible

 

Do not feel bad. It is her fault for not being mature enough to tell you the truth. Don't take pity on her. She deserves to feel like crap. Find someone who is nice enough to not play head games. I wouldn't feel bad for her or shower her with attention because it sounds like she is just playing with your feelings. Tell her to take her tears to someone she hasn't lied to.

 

It is her fault!!! She should be an adult and tell you about something like that! There is nothing worse than being lyed to! And you have the right to mad and sad and not be able to trust her ever again! I know that it will take time to heal your wond but if you can just let her go; forget about her. Find someone who is trustworthy and who will respect you! You seem like a very nice guy and you don't deserve to be treated like shit!
Good luck and keep you head up!

 

they will meet their old emotionless friend again! it's the only rational thing to do I guess.

 

People like that can't be your soulmate. Your soulmate wouldn't be such fuck tard. They don't deserve your trust or respect AT ALL.

 

wow...and know she feel hurt because I told her she lost my respect.


should I insist on the fact that I though before that that I was really loving her? I dont want to keep a friendship with her if it hurt me everytime she talks to me.

I used to be good at destroying a friendship or a relationship with people I know, seems it's not working with her

anyways, i'll survive I guess.

 

good call

 

wow, that' like a punch in the face. you are so right.

 

Michael, everything you're saying is sooo true...I needed to hear all of that really bad - so thanks!!!

CommunistO, I'm really sorry you're going through this, but take Michael's advice and I hope things work out for you~

 

wow third language....i'm impressed

 

you are truly a post whore