do you think you can run out of passion? i think i have. out of love and passion, out of any kind of soul. i loved someone so hard. my hardest, in fact. almost a year later, i have a new boyfriend. hes alright. well, great. awesome. but i dont even want to touch him, let alone love him. and im attracted to him and all. and i THOUGHT i was a hopeless romantic. i dunno. its a messed up world. i wonder if it is possible though to run out of these things, phewww. this stuff is over my head. yeaahh thats right. everyones got their kinky, sexual, exciting posts and im still writin lame old posts about love. silly me. i know.
maybe you have had your heart broken? i loved someone with all my heart and no one has ever hurt me so badly...after him i lost the desire for anyone else, sexually or otherwise (im hoping this is temporary), and i am a very passionate person. i dont know anything about your previous relationship, but depending on how things were btwn you and how things ended, your body/mind/heart is not ready to move onto another person, no matter how great they are.
Maybe he's just not the right guy for you, or maybe you're still mending a broken heart. Maybe you're afraid to really open yourself up out of fear of being rejected or abandoned, or maybe you're harboring deep rooted feelings for your ex? Don't worry sweetie, I'm sure when the right guy comes along, you'll feel that passion again. Big ol' hugs for you...
smiling hugely for the advice hoping I don't end up the crazy-one-toothed-cat-lady i fear. im afraid i think i am harbouring certain deep rooted feelings for a certain stupid boy i try to forget too much to forget. bleghghgh. If i was attracted to girls, Id be a lesbian. (no offence to any one toothed cat ladys on here )
If you don't love him then you shouldn't be going out with him. If you do love him but just don't want to give him lovin' then that should be fine. Just wait until you are ready again.
