ego-driven self-inflicted pain (maybe im full of shit)

you kno wat sucks is when ppl are all like ...oh im fat... or im ugly... or im dumb... when they know they're not at all. they just want you to say oh youre beautiful i love you so much...

so next time your friend says she feels bad about herself and you know she lies... or claims to have traits (ugly, fat, stupid) that you both know she dont say something like

"Life is what you make it. I'll always support you. so if you've decided you are overweight then I'll call you lardass because I love you THAT MUCH!"


(not actaully reccommended)



***of course there are exceptions... not every self-attack and self-esteem problem is ego-driven... when they are not always encourage people... blah blah blah i dont think i need to explain.

***by the way... im sooo guilty of this. Myself was the first person i ever noticed really doing it and then i began to see it in everybody. so im a hypocrite .... thats why this post is under the bullshit forum!!!!

 

This drives me fucken crazy!

And makes me feel like shit because if they think they are ugly fat ect... I must look like a fucking deformed dogs arse.

I don’t say it because im freaked out people will say yep you’re an ugly dog. Or just say nothing…