When did your "desires" begin to shift more towards males?

Not so much off topic because guys who are feeling their desires starting to shift toward males need to know what they may have to face. Once I learned about the bullshit, yeah, I was resentful. Defiant and even one might say rebellious. And I had to ask myself, "Why am I feeling like this when it doesn't change anything?" Just because the world is morally stuck in biblical times doesn't mean that I have to be stuck there with them. I understand why they did what they did but that was then. This is 2026. And the things you can be resentful about shouldn't stop you from doing what you need to do because if it stops you... they win.

 

I will admit that, in all honesty, I have a deep resentment concerning so many aspects of today's totally screwed up, totally sick society.

It's fucking frustrating as all hell when you see lowlife cretins who, literally, get away with murder, because they have made themselves ABOVE the law, knowing that too many of our elected officials are to lily-livered and spineless to uphold justice for the American people.

It is also frustrating and agonizing as hell to feel so entirely powerless in the face of prejudice, homophobia, anti-Semitism, and racism.....when will the lies, deceit, insanity, intolerance, and hatred end?

What ever happened to a country where HONESTY and HARD WORK were our cornerstones?

Whatever happened to a Government FOR the PEOPLE, BY the PEOPLE, and OF the People?

Welcome to the harsh realities of 2026.......and Heaven help us all, regardless of color, race, orientation, or religious beliefs.....this is NOT the AMERICA I knew, respected and loved....the country once known as "The Land of The Free"..........even darker days, I fear, lie in wait for us all........

 

That's what they say people like us are, that homo- and bisexuality are crimes against nature.

 

What happened to it? A whole lot of shit happened to it. As much as we'd love it, we cannot go back to the way things used to be... although we have a sitting president trying to do just that. Now, how would all this energy it takes to moan and groan be best used? I don't like this shit any more than anyone else does but I have better things to do than to piss and moan about something that I can't do anything about - and I didn't vote for the motherfuckers who fucked shit up. This is what's really wrong, that we men and women who choose not to be straight keep letting this social shit fuck with our heads and make us not be the way we want to be.

Do you feel the shift? The idea of sucking cock starting to appeal to you? Bad enough society has been so fucked up in the head that they can't recognize the truth when it's staring them in the face and... that's society's problem. When I say that life is too short, I'm not parroting that which is obvious because I died a couple of years ago and I'm so very happy to not be dead but when I do die, I won't be pissing and moaning about the state of the world stopping me from what I loved, from what I wanted and needed to do: Be bisexual. Suck cock and eat pussy; fuck and be fucked.

Your time and energy would be better spent working toward being able to do this... while you can still do it. Don't let these motherfuckers steal your joy.

 

JD23:

Thankfully, you beat the odds, and are still alive and able to do WHAT you want to do and what turns YOU on!

It takes a REAL survivor to defeat the "Big C".........and I am sure we here are ALL glad that YOU were the one that was the victor in this wearying battle!

Too many these days denounce truth as "fake news", and far too many try to force-feed the gullible with their sugar-coated lies, brainwashing them in the process.

If you don't mind me saying so, you obviously have the INNER STRENGTH and the FORTITUDE to FIGHT iff all the bullshit and negativity, and, for that, I most certainly commend you!

We could use MORE than a "few good men" like yourself down DC way............

 

There was no real 'shift' for me. Ever since I became sexually aware I have been attracted to men and women

 

As with anything else, it is ALWAYS a PLUS when you get a "head start" on things!

 

Very big difference when you're young and "discover" sex with guys versus being much older and getting blindsided by feelings you probably never wanted to have. Guys who "experimented" when young but gave it up for girls slide into the sexual role that we're all supposed to be in but as many guys have experienced, they get "down the road a piece" and... getting a blowjob for a guy sounds like a excellent idea but, wait - where the fuck did that come from? Harder for guys to get older, married, in a relationship to adjust or readjust to thoughts and feelings that they're not supposed to have... which never, ever changes the fact that they have them and no matter why they do.

This isn't to say or suggest that there aren't guys who feel the shift and have zero problem making the transition. The "problem" with male bisexuality isn't the sex - that's the easy part; it's having to deal and cope with religious and social norms and the ever-present angst toward anyone who isn't fully heterosexual. What would family and friends say/do? What if I get an STD?

I've said that the "advantage" I've had in these things - and starting young - isn't having mad crazy sex: It's having time to process the new feelings and sensations as well as what they all mean in the face of being told that if you're male, you are only supposed to have sex with females. I've said that by the time I was 16, I had a lot of the bullshit squared away in my head because I wanted to know all about guys wanting to have sex with guys, why a guy could have sex with a guy and it's the greatest thing since sliced bread or one's worst nightmare and, as I've said time and time again, needing to get the answer to a question: How can something everyone says is so bad feel so good?

I'm quite sure that a lot of guys who started early sorted all of the bullshit out of their system so that they found that being "bad" can feel pretty fucking good.

 

KD23:

I truly believe that, for so many men who discovered their "bi side" early on, that they simply knew it "felt fucking awesome" and continued indulging their needs and desires for M2M sex through their "formative" years, totally ignoring all of the prejudicial and negative bullshit put forth by society.

No denial, no questioning "why?", just going "full steam ahead"...............

 

....I've always found it pretty damn sad when society dictates to individuals HOW to live their lives, and what NOT to do, sexual-wise.

Like, who REALLY cares about WHAT the sexual habits are of the guy next door, the guy at work, or the guy at the bar?

I know I could care less.

Get a grip on the TRUTH, people, and maybe even educate yourself in the process.........

 

Society cares; otherwise, it wouldn't be an issue. Every active bisexual that I've ever known made the decision to not play by society's rules when it comes to their sexual pleasure and it's obvious that gay people long ago told societies all over the world to go shit up a stick, leave them alone, and mind their own fucking business.

Those who believe in the way things are supposed to be cares. Those who believe in maintaining the status quo cares. The morally righteous cares. The devoutly religious cares. Those whose job it is to maintain societal order cares. Everyone who cannot accept the obvious truths that are right the fuck in front of them cares.

 

KD23:

Well said, my friend!

 

When a bi guy is right in the middle of fucking a guy or being fucked by one, and he's about to bust a HUGE nut, do you think he is even THINKING about society's narrow-minded shit?

Hell, He's right where he WANTS to be, and FUCK all the naysayers and assholes..........

 

I'm on a bit of a roll. Every time I've had my mouth around a man's cock (except the very first time), I have heard a "voice" in my head telling me that what I'm doing is wrong and that I'm going to die and go to hell because God is going to put me to death. Every time I've been under a man, his hardness thrusting into me until he spurts his seed into me, something tells me that I shouldn't be doing this, shouldn't be enjoying it. Every time I've fucked a woman who I wasn't married to, I've never felt bad about it although I did have a bad moment the first time I fucked another man's wife... but she made a good case for why I should by giving me a blowjob I will never forget.

I realized that if I fornicated, eh, no one would really give me a bunch of shit about it other than my parents; I had realized that I could fuck another man's wife and some would poo-poo me for doing it but they understand that it takes two to tango; if I suck another man's cock, all holy hell gets raised and it doesn't make sense because it has been known for the longest time that men suck cock. Society would give me shit about all of this and, obviously, I'm not giving any fucks about society's misplaced POV on sex and sexuality. They're not going to make their problem my problem, and I would suggest to any man here who is feeling their desires starting to shift to not give any fucks toward society's bullshit.

 

Kd23:

Excellent response, and indeed "telling it like it is", NO bullshit added!

One thinks of how religious beliefs (no matter how out of touch with reality they really are), negative parenting, peer pressure, and overall negativity denouncing M2M sex....is it small wonder why so many bi males feel such intense guilt and self-loathing, for feeling as they do?

I am MORE than certain that many "shrinks" must have a field day dealing with this bullshit, especially if they are "conservative" by nature, and try to"cure"the gay away from a male patient that they believe is exhibiting "abnormal" sexual desores.

Right, like a lot of these "shrinks" don't have skeletons in their OWN closets(!!)

How's that old saying go again....."do as I SAY, not as I DO......"?

Talk about an unending clusterfuck...........

 

It's only an unending clusterfuck if you allow it to be. Ignore the clusterfuck since it got started by narrow-minded people who don't understand what life can really be like without those rules that takes away our ability to enjoy sex in all of its forms. If any of you reading this are thinking about the clusterfuck GG57 mentions, you're paying attention to the wrong thing.

 

KD23:

Actially, ALL THE WORLD is a CLUSTERFUCK these days; IGNORE IT ALL, and live life for YOURSELF, enjoy it ALL, and get the MOST out of it, and FUCK the naysayers who don't know shit, anyway.............

 

Might make for interesting reading for some.

Always interesting to read other views, whether we agree or not..........

Bisexuality - Wikipedia

 

I am just now reminded of part of an online article I read years back; baically, the question posed was:

".....how do I come to terms with my bisexuality......"

My answer:

ACCEPT the fact that you want to have sex with both MEN and WOMEN, BE YOURSELF, and ENJOY (utilizing your common sense and discretion) and EMBRACE your sexuality, with NO APOLOGIES to ANYONE....again, it's YOUR life!!

 

As I've said, having the sex is easy. Coming to terms with these new and sometimes unwanted feelings is different. That's really an understatement because it can be a problem for some guys or it's not. You accept that this is how you're thinking and feeling and, importantly, do not lie to yourself. A dear friend, who died a few years ago from liver cancer, and I were having a rather deep conversation about something and he had said, "You can lie to other people but there's only so much lying you can do to yourself..." and he was right about that. Understand that just because you're thinking and feeling this way does not mean you have to do anything about it, although I know and understand that there's a... compulsion that tells you to get out there and get some dick and you needed to do it yesterday and what are you waiting for?

Some guys can resist the compulsion to act and... some can't. No shame in not being able to resist it - the compulsion can be very damned powerful. Understanding that while you may feel like you're the only one having this moment, trust me - you aren't and you were never alone because there are untold millions of us who have gone through this very same thing and in differing ways. Doing something about it? Yet another critter that might be easy to accomplish or, usually, not so much. Every last one of us who've felt the urges to have sex with a man has had to figure out how to get it done so, again, you're not alone in trying to figure this part out.