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Did becoming homosexual/bisexual change you?

Discussion in 'Other Sex Discussions' started by musicfreak9000, Oct 9, 2009.

  1. KDaddy23

    KDaddy23 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Cool but how has this open-mindedness changed you? Or do you believe that you are unchanged?
     
  2. spankablebob

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    Well, becoming bisexual just opened my eyes to how wonderful sex with another man can be. It was also a revelation that I could be sexually as well as mentally satisfied with either gender. Ultimately, I realized I had been missing out on a lot by not experiencing physical intimacy with men.
     
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  3. soulpoker

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    I hope this is something I realize personally soon! I can't wait to have my first sexual pleasure with a man!
     
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  4. KDaddy23

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    You'll never look at sex the same way again. You will likely kick your own ass and ask, "Why didn't I do this before now?" You will also probably think about any or all times you could've done it already... and you didn't. Getting hooked on it is quite possible.
     
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  5. soulpoker

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    Well if I get hooked I hope I have plenty of male lovers to keep me "supplied!"
     
  6. Desiplayer

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    It has made me better person internally and externally…to enjoy both sex freely with support of wife and more dominating gay has made me realize how great life is to enjoy endless cock opportunities that are easily available out there …knowing how much I want mm …I have become bold in opening up and making the move.

    in addition I stay fit/bult and have nice sexy body for my hook ups…I focused on my ass /glutes when I work out, so my peachy ass stand out in my tight cloths I dress
    Being with many sexy fit guys has helped me motivated to be fit and sexy ….

    I love being smooth ….making sure my lovers get what they want as much as I love smooth hunks.

    I feel my sense of confidence past three years knowing how I feel internally know how much gay I am and how sexy I look appealing has strengthened my life as whole
     
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  7. Oldernow

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    Now that I’ve opened up to being bi and have had sex with men I notice guys a lot more like checking them out like I do with girls
     
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  8. LowHangers

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    It just opened up more opportunities to enjoy sex with more partners. For twenty years I restricted my sexual activities to only women, then around age 36 I expanded those activities to begin having oral activities with men and boy was I glad I did. I quickly came to realize that a man's cock and balls provided just as much sexual satisfaction that a woman's pussy and breasts did, in many cases a man's cock provided more with me much more satisfaction.
     
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  9. BiGuySW

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    I've been pan sexual for a long time. The most satisfying outcome is learning how important it is to listen and be sensitive to people of all gender orientations.

    This is the "common denominator" that makes it so much easier to meet people and make new friends.
     
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  10. KDaddy23

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    I know that I had almost instantly realized that everything I'd been told about sex... wasn't the whole truth. Sex with boys was a sin but it was amazing - who knew? I would learn why it's a sin and would see that getting introduced to dick that day opened up a world of stuff about sex and sexuality that I'd also see that a lot of people acted like it didn't exist... and it shouldn't.

    Didn't change the fact that it did, though. At the point where I would be introducing guys to this kind of sexual intimacy, I'd tell them that if they do this, it's going to change their life. Forever. Eyes opened really wide. Proof that what you thought you knew about this was a lie and a lie of omission. Open to learn about sex, sexuality, and themselves. Whew - who the fuck knew how deep this rabbit hole can be? Gay people? Not the evil monsters they'd been portrayed and reported to be - but through sex, you learn some shit about people and did I mention how deep the rabbit hole can be?

    It changed me. For the better and in a great many ways.
     
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  11. Hornymike66

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    Exactly! Took the words right out of my mouth. It is a wonderful thing and something I wish I had discovered many years prior to my first experience.
     
  12. Traveler386

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    It definitely changed me. It was a really long process though. One I’m probably not quite finished with. When I was younger I liked masturbation. A lot. I would do about anything for a really good orgasm and I wasn’t afraid of a finger in my ass or my cum in my mouth. Basically one day I figured out I wanted the real thing but I had no romantic interest in guys. At all. I danced around that through my 20s and part of my 30s. Watch gay porn…chat with guys. Cum. Feel guilty. Most of the internet said I was just in denial. That I was really just gay. I finally figured it out over time after taking to and reading about so many guys just like myself. It’s become more widely accepted now and that’s good. Just 2 days ago I masturbated twice one evening. Once was to some really gay sex and the other time was to some really straight sex. I’m much more accepting of myself now. No confusion. The only problem I have now is I’m married. No sex in almost a decade but I hate to cheat. But I’d love to have a “friend” on the side for some m/m fun occasionally.
     
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    Being bisexual hasn’t changed me, but I’ve always been this way. And honestly never gave it much thought in terms of when it occurred.
     
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    Becoming bisexual definitely changed me. Before I could take a shower or change in a locker room and never got hard. Now I see a naked dick and start getting hard immediately.
     
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  15. soulpoker

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    I hope it leads to another guy getting hard, and other things.
     
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  16. Longzi

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    You may make friends that way :p
     
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  17. JeffT

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    I've always been bisexual. I've never given any thought when "it" occurred. I just started out this way.
     
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  18. Barefoot Rick

    Barefoot Rick I love my dirty bare feet

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    I have been bisexual since I can remember and I love it .
     
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