Who is the closest person you had mm encounters with …my best friend and my cousin …few of my top mm encounters both have slept with my wife. My cousine is a relationship in with my wife at the moment …he has become cohusband in our relationship.
My closest MM relationship by far was with my same-aged best friend from across the street from ages 8-13. Even before we even heard the word "sex" or seen any pictures of a guy or girl, let alone two guys, having sex, he and I instinctively knew and enjoyed every gay sexual act that 2 guys can do together. I've yet to find a close friend with benefits, let alone a romantic relationship, with another guy since, but I'm not without hope in still finding that as a now fully accepting gay man of 62, after a lifetime of denying my homosexuality and trying to be bisexual.
I experimented with a neighbor a couple of times while in that same age range. Looking back, I really wish it became a regular thing.
Back when I was 8 my older brother coerced me into stroking his cock. He let me do it for about 10 minutes and then he got disgusted and finished himself. He said I wasn't doing it right and it didn't feel very good. Also about that time I had a good friend that loved to suck my cock. He would suck me whenever I wanted and I would let him whenever he wanted. He never wanted any reciprocation. He just loved sucking my cock.
I remember one night (like 5 years ago)....my gay best friend and straight brother were bith over at my place jus chillin', token, having a couple beers and good times. Anyways, we ran out of beer, so my bf offered to drive us for some more. No brainer. We get back, crack a few, and decide to play a game of pool in my basement. By now, we had all lost our shirts, and str8 bro's pants were sagging bad, definitely could tell he was freeballing. Keep in mind I've got the absolute BIGGEST crush on this guy and my beliefs (his brother) knows it. My next lucid memory is of my bf asking if I wanted to fool around..I don't really remember my muffled response, but my eyes shot open when my crush dropped his pants faster than anything. I remember being lead to the adjoining bedroom and having, to this day, the most amazing sexual experience I've ever had. I didn't think 3 guys could cum so much!
I remember one night (like 5 years ago)....my gay best friend and straight brother were bith over at my place jus chillin', token, having a couple beers and good times. Anyways, we ran out of beer, so my bf offered to drive us for some more. No brainer. We get back, crack a few, and decide to play a game of pool in my basement. By now, we had all lost our shirts, and str8 bro's pants were sagging bad, definitely could tell he was freeballing. Keep in mind I've got the absolute BIGGEST crush on this guy and my beliefs (his brother) knows it. My next lucid memory is of my bf asking if I wanted to fool around..I don't really remember my muffled response, but my eyes shot open when my crush dropped his pants faster than anything. I remember being lead to the adjoining bedroom and having, to this day, the most amazing sexual experience I've ever had. I didn't think 3 guys could cum so much!
My cousin and I started playing "touchy-feely" with one another one night at his house. I was probably 12 or so, and he is two years younger than me. All I knew was that it felt good and I was leaking some sort of substance I'd never had come out of my cock before - what the heck was this gooey substance? I think back on my utter innocence and total lack of anything sexual at that age... clueless. Well, it seemed we were both enjoying the experience until my older cousin walked in on us and told us to stop it.
A friend of mine 2 years younger would get together for sleep overs and hanging out.Well we both talked about sex and jacking off a lot.I used to jerk off with him watching me every time we got together.I never did see him naked or jerk off.He had a girlfriend so his dick had a good place to go.He is in heaven now,i really miss just shooting the shit with him.He was a true friend.
I remember as a kid my brother and I kind of pseudo wrestling naked together. He was 3 1/2 years younger than me, so I don't even know if he remembers it. But I loved the feeling so much of rubbing our crotches together, and rubbing my cock over his bare ass. I especially loved when I would be on my back with my legs apart and my knees bent, and he would lie on top of me between my legs and have his cock on my cock and all of his weight pressing down on it: OMG, did it ever feel good. But one time our grandmother caught us doing it in the basement when she was babysitting: I remember telling her that we were just playing African jungle boys, but I don't know if she bought it; she had a disgusted look on her face. I definitely knew that we were doing something wrong, which is why I gave that excuse; but it felt so good! I can't remember if I had had already started having regular sex with my best male friend from across the street by then, which started when we were both 8, and went until we were 13. It probably was around the same time. I think back or dream often of those wonderful 6 years with my childhood boyfriend, and the countless times we had sex, and how super fun it always was. In hindsight I can say that my bisexuality started very young, though I never thought of it as bisexual at the time. But it did evolve into homosexuality by the time I hit 60, three years ago.
it seems so sad how early we start learning "sex is bad".. then "sinful".. then which types of sexual enjoyment are "more sinful".. I'm glad you didn't settle for something other than your 'self'..