You're gonna have to do it on your own, as underwhelming as that may seem. Hopefully, you'll find some way to spice it up and enhance the experience.
That sounds disappointing. I hope a little more time and patience leads to a change in attitude for the better.
Oh DJ, you have us all wanting to help you Out. I am sure you could find plenty of willing 2nds to enjoy a mutual round with you. I know I for one am in a similar situation where the opportunity to share has been met with disinterest as of late… it’s a shame we can’t form a support group for those of us aching to share with no one there… I think it’s a sensible approach to manage our sex drive imbalances.
The OP is much too young for me to find her sexually arousing and wanting to help, but I do find her openness about the subject refreshing because there are so few women posting in this section.
I don’t put it down, but putting my own way of thinking, maybe he prefers doing it to each other instead of both of you to your ownselves Wondering …