Before you'd had sex or under any circumstance got a really good look at the other kind of genitals, what was your most all-encompassing nagging specific curiosity? For me it was how someone with a vulva pee'd. Like, specifically where did it come out of and what did it look like? But that was part of a more general curiosity about what the vagina actually was? Because when you see a nude woman standing up straight, you can't see their vagina. Especially if they have pubes. It just looks like a crotch with nothing there. Even after I saw the crease between a woman's outer labia, I didn't really get how that was the vagina. Mostly due to the fact that it isn't. But at the time, my confusion was because I'd been told a vagina was a hole and I didn't see no hole. Moreover, the way the crease between the labia blended seamlessly into a woman's butt cheeks made it even more bemusing.
I remember being very curious as to how a woman peed, even when as kids a friend showed me, you didn't see where it came from, but was still really a turn on, another was how did a penis fit in a vagina as it didn't seem to be big enough. Another curiosity I had was that a cousin was circumcised, and I found it odd how different it looked from my uncut one. Latter on in my teens I was shocked by how big my friends penis was even soft
I remember the first couple times I saw a girl/woman pee and I felt so cheated because I was so excited. Like "Oh my gosh... I'm finally gonna find out!" But as you said, I couldn't actually see where it was coming out of, which only worsened the nagging mystery of it all. I finally found out in two phases. First in freshman year of HS health class the teacher passed out a diagram of all the parts to the vulva. It was obviously a confusion she'd heard every semester her whole career because she pointed out the urethra and emphatically announced to the class "a woman does NOT... I repeat, does NOT pee out her vagina!" I was stunned! A year later, I searched for pictures of women peeing on the internet on a total whim. I had no idea it was a sexual predilection and that there was a vast archive of pornography dedicated to just that. This was late-mid '90s dial up internet. I was just working off the whole sales pitch of the "world wide web" that you could learn about anything. I thought I'd find medical images. Or stuff teaching girls about their bodies. Boy was I surprised when I saw what came up. Pages and pages and pages of it...
I remember in biology class when seeing the diagram of a womans anatomy, one boy in the class shouted out, women have three holes? oh yeah i was the same never imagined how much porn there was related to women peeing, or how extreme, id seen a few girls\ women peeing by then, but the first time a gf of mine peed for me opening her labia was such a turn on to actually see it for real
Oh dude. When I saw that first porn photo of a brunette woman with a bob haircut and a coctail dress peeing in an alley with a red brick wall behind her (yes I remember the photo vividly) I immediately said in my brain "Ohhhhh, okayyyyy... this is NOT just a curiosity." I was already stroking my penis. First time seeing a girl pee was my sister on a family camping trip. I was... I don't fucking remember.. 8? She was maybe 12??? Who gives two fucks? We walked into the thicket together to pee. I was so goddamn excited to solve the mystery. By the way, the mystery fucking started at the doctor's office with my sister when I was 5 years old and she was having trouble peeing into the sample cup and it was the first time I'd ever considered that I did not actually have a tangible understanding of where it comes out of and how girls do it. We reached an OK spot to pee and I pee'd first and she watched. Then she pulled down her shorts and squatted and I couldn't see anything other than a crotch smushed between two thighs. I whined that it "wasn't fair" because I didn't get to really see her pee like she got to see me pee!" She called me a stupid brat. And that was that. Until I was 11 years old and was showering with my mom. And I asked if I could see her pee. She asked why I wanted to see that. I said because I was curious. I didn't get it. She pee'd in front of me standing straight up. It was neat. I still didn't get it though. But whatevs. Live to fight another day, right? In all due respect and acknowledgement to my mom, she did eventually show me all the parts on herself when I was 14 all wound up needing to know all the details about this unforeseen hard left I'd just learned about the female urinary system. She also taught me about the clitoris and condoms. A commendable parent in every way. She let me masturbate as much as I want. Never said a word about my wet dreams. Raised a fine 2nd wave feminist genderqueer clever (also known as mean) motherfucker who eats pussy like a dynamo. I raise a glass to Ms. Sandbook!
With me it was a friend, she wanted to see how a boy peed and in return I got to see her, we were about 7, she lifted her dress pulled down her knickers and went, I dropped my shorts to my knees as she wanted a proper look, and went, she was also the first girl to see me masturbate properly and I got to see her, my cock got so hard watching her. I remember watching vids on the internet by glimpse British extreme and several other companies had me stroking my cock so quickly. It was so cool of your mum to show you stuff like that, my dad showed me how to masturbate and all about using condoms etc.
Right now, I think that my biggest curiosity is seeing what Jenna looks like, nude, in real life! (Jenna, I hope you're not offended. I fantasize about you a lot!)
I'm sure every child grows up with an incessant curiosity about the differences between boys and girls. Which turned into disappointment for me during my first game of "I'll show you mine if you show me yours". After proudly, but hesitantly dropping my pants and showing her what I had to offer and joyfully basking in her surprise, I was eagerly awaiting an equally surprising reveal. To my great disappointment she had nothing to show!!!! There was nothing to touch or examine. There was no dangling appendage, just a boring slit between her legs. We did spend time "examining" each other. She touched, examined and fondled my "goods" which was very enjoyable to me, but I don't think she got much out of me "examining" her because there was nothing to fondle!!!
A trip behind the evergreens with my friend Marnie when we were 5 or 6 was the start of my curiosity. I let her touch it and hold it while I peed. In exchange I got to take a closer look and touch hers as well. She did let me see her pee and we were besties for years often in consultation if we needed clarification on anatomy mysteries. We decided we should really try things out together once when we were teens, so I kissed her long and hard and she said - that was weird, like kissing my brother! I said ya kinda - so friends it remained.
My little sister was "playing doctor" with a neighborhood boy before she entered third grade. Before long, she'd left that behind and was constantly badgering her big brother (me) to pet her. As long as it was quid pro quo, I was completely on board with that. In no time flat, we were playing with each others nude bodies as often as we could find some place private. By the time we were both in high school, there was almost nothing that we weren't doing for/to each other (almost nothing.) I was finger-fucking her to orgasm all the time and she was sucking my cock until I came in her mouth! The only thing we never did together was actually fuck. We desperately wanted to, but were terrified of getting her pregnant. I know that, if we could have had access to some form of bullet-proof contraception, we would have been fucking daily.
The neighborhood tom boy, Sammie, and I were in my treehouse. I looked at her and blurted out that she was a girl. It was like I finally figured that out. Of course she said yea. We played a bit more and then she asked if I wanted to see. I was hesitant and gave her the 'if you want' option. She did and dropped her shorts and panties down. There in front of me was the first bare pussy I had ever seen. I became captivated by the sight. She finally popped me on the head and asked if I had heard her. She wanted to see mine now. Being she was 2 or 3 years older than me and bigger I decided it best to do as she said. I dropped my shorts and scooby do briefs. Sammie immediately took my little cock in hand and started inspecting it. I just stood there and let her. No erection as I has no inclination to produce one. We then pulled our shorts back up and went about our play. A few days later she asked if she could see it again. This time I went first and let her inspect me again. She then let me inspect what she had. Over the remaining summer days we inspected each other every now and then in the treehouse. By the end of the summer I knew all about the female bits but never went any further than touching and moving her labia so I could see better. We didn't get any more chances in the treehouse once school started because Sammie was off to middle school. Now she was too old to be playing with us boys anymore.
By middle school Sammie likely found the erection she was looking for and likely figured Out just what to do with it. I had a friend Michelle was very similar at about the same age. Short hair, jean jacket, could spit…! Haha My buddies big brother dragged her off me one time thinking it was a guy and gave me shit till he realized I was playing with her little tits… lol Then apologized to us both. We had been “checking each other for ticks” for a little while when her Dad caught us. I got away clean and she took the whooping of her life for not giving up my name. It was a life Lesson alright but more on a darker side than we had been aiming for. He’d a killed me if he ever saw me again… Felt horrified for Michelle going home to that daily.
