through most of our marriage she has been totally silent. I get a few groans from her these days. she always wants me to cum in her pussy. An exception was once when she was masturbating for me. She wanted me to cum on her pussy as she was working that clit…. I guess cum made a lube for her little clit…lol!
My partner is mostly silent during a blow job. When we are having sex, and he is near the point of cumming, his face is so pleasant to look at, and he makes low moans that are almost inaudible, but his face shows the pleasure his body is experiencing, and that's all I need. I wish he'd be more vocal during oral sex, but that's how he is - we arean't all the same. I make too much noise.