Blowjob from a guy

I don't understand your response. I was describing a fantasy, not a real event. How can I lie about my own fantasy. My wife and her brother are real but we never had sex together.

 

I am bi and I ve been on my knees for 4 decades, but even the first time I was more excited than anxious.

 

Yes, me too. When my buddy and I advanced to cock suckjng, I was already thinking about it. I was afraid to broach the subject with him. He was always a step ahead of me. So, when he said he wanted to feel my cock in his mouth I was instantly super excited. I remember cumming very fast and so did he after I clamped my lips around his hard cock. We giggled like little school girls afterwards. We couldn't stop. After that first time, I think we sucked each other off for a month straight. It was the longest time before we masturbated together again.

 

Same, I was very happy.
I'm glad that others managed to be happy too.

 

My philosophy with my friends was, "Why should we jerk off when we can give each other a nice blowjob?" As I seem to recall, any guy who I started out just masturbating together forgot all about it once we started sucking each other off. Besides, I recent read somewhere that a blowjob is just masturbating someone with your mouth and... I am seriously okay with that.

 

You "spoke from my heart"...

 

We loved sucking but it was fun changing it up too. A lot of it depended where we were, how much time we had, etc. Being open to it all kept it fun.

 

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I am fortunate to have a wife fwb fb and a few others. Weekly there are three local guys who come over (not all three each week) to suck and swallow. All of us are married and they don’t look for reciprocity just enjoy sucking cock and swallowing. I do produce a substantial load and most of the time they contact me to check on my schedule around the same time I check on their schedule. I’m 63 5’9 160 toned and smooth 6”. They are all in their 50s also smooth toned bodies. It’s mutually enjoyable.

 

I got blowjobs from guys during my pre puberty years, but I chalk that up to innocent childhood experimentation and exploration. It was many years later and well into adulthood before I let another man suck my cock. It was a very frightening, shocking and subconsciously exciting encounter. I had undressed in front of boys/men before during Phys Ed in school, at the YMCA, at the doctor and at public pools, but I had never undressed in front of a guy for the purpose of sexual gratification. Taking my shirt, shoes and socks off were nothing, but when kit came time to drop the pants and expose my cock I was very hesitant. He was watching me because he wanted my cock, but it just didn't seem right having a guy "eyeballing" me with desire while I was getting naked. I was shy and afraid and I finally convinced him to turn his head until I was naked. I wanted him to blow me, but I was embarrassed because I wasn't hard and knew that it wasn't going to be easy for me to get hard. It wasn't because he was ugly or disgusting, but nothing about men aroused me. If he would have bee a woman my cock would have been at full attention!!! I apologized for not being able to get hard. He comforted me by telling me it happens to a lot of "first timer" straight men and that he liked feeling a cock grow in his mouth. He made some comments about my naked, hairy body and told me that he loved the size and appearance of my soft cock. He told me to sit down, lean back, close my eyes and he would take care of everything else. Once I sat down and leaned back he knelt between my legs. All of a sudden I felt my soft cock slip between his warm, wet lips. It was really weird, a man had my cock in his mouth!!! I went through stages of just trying to enjoy the blowjob, but the fact that it was a man sucking my cock kept entering my mind. I would feel my cock "plumping up", but then it would drain again because I would remember that it was a man sucking my cock. Eventually, after what seemed like forever I felt my excitement starting to grow. All of a sudden my cock started growing and managed to reach it's full hardness seconds before I started to cum. I shot my full load in his mouth and he gulped it down as the blood quickly drained from my cock. Once he was done I thanked him and apologized again for not being able to get hard.
So, your first experience may be frightening, embarrassing and/or shocking. All you can do is try and conquer your fears and let it happen. If you're like me and you can't get hard, all you can do is explain your feeling to him and see where it goes. If he really wants to suck your cock he'll help you deal with it. I wish you luck and hopefully you'll find an understanding person to help ease your fears!!!

 

I wonder how many guys I've told to sit down, lean back, and close their eyes and I'll take care of things? Getting that first blowjob from a guy can be very damned scary and even confusing because he wants to do something to you that you've had women do to you but it's not a woman. I understand. Just kick back, relax, breathe and let me do this and, remember: At any time and for any reason, you can tell me to stop and I'll stop. Don't worry about not having an erection right away, okay? If you've told me that you can't cum from a blowjob, don't worry about it and, in fact, don't even think about that and, besides, I've heard it before and I've made the guy(s) cum.

Just settle down and let me do what I know how to do - it'll be okay. I learned that a lot of guys have this anxiety because they're not thinking about what's about to happen - they're thinking about who's about to do it and, yep, that damned social conditioning says that men don't have sex with men but only explains gay men as being godless heathens that are evil, pedophiles, I'm sure you've heard all of this before. Just put it out of your mind; whatever you were told to believe is a lie and, trust me, please - I know it's a lie because if it wasn't, I wouldn't be here talking to you about this and trying to get you to relax so I can suck you off.

If you have it in your head before anything gets started that you're not going to like it, um, you're very likely not going to like it and it's not the guy's fault who's trying to give you a very decent blowjob; in this, your worst enemy lives inside your own skull. Don't worry about it taking a long time, okay? I know I have to be patient and take it easy on you so you can relax and once you do, I'm not worried - you'll get into it soon enough. Now, close those eyes for me...

Am I surprised to peek up and see that he's watching me? Nope! I know they see me sucking them and their traitorous brain can't process what his eyes are seeing - which is why I asked you to close your eyes. Some guys find this "startling" thing to see exciting and, um, sometimes, so exciting that they pop their cork really fast. Not to worry - it happens and, um, the whole purpose of this was to get you to cum, right? Yes... some guys see me doing their cock and the traitor that lives in their head is strongly against it and he can't get hard or he's only partially hard and, okay, please - stop thinking and watching me because you're not making this easy on yourself.

Sit down. Lean or lie back. Get comfortable. Close your eyes. It'll be fine.

I have never failed to get a guy off as his first time; I've failed to get more 'experienced' guys to cum which used to fuck with me but, nah, not so much anymore.

 

I wish I had a buddy like that growing up! Or now!

 

I wish I had one now too!!

 

That sounds hot I would love to touch your cock

 

I've never sucked cock but given the right size I might

 

Would I!
No!

 

????

 

Can anybody help me

 

I have no curiosity or interest or desire in exchanging any form of sex with men
Other than talking about it with a trusted friend

 

I started out very tentative, but once I got a full erection with my first male sex partner, he encouraged me to get on top and fuck his mouth while he laid back on his couch. I was soon more than willing to do that.

He used one hand and his mouth to receive the entire length of my cock for thrust after thrust, increasing in intensity and speed until I erupted explosively in his mouth.

I have been actively pan sexual ever since that memorable orgasm.