I think there are quite a few who turn a blind eye and enjoying having their wives knowing another man has had her.
While I have loved pushing my wife’s boundaries, I like that I’m the only one who has fucked her pussy or been in her mouth. Maybe that makes me insecure in our relationship. Maybe I would feel differently if she had been with 10 guys before me. IDK OTOH, we have gone to a nude beach a few times and I’m in heaven seeing my naked wife admired by guys and talking to nude men. How far would my kink go? We had a couples massage once. She had a male therapist and I had I female. I’ve had many fantasies around the thought of the therapist’s hands traveling too far…first boobs but later pussy and giving her a happy ending. If the massage fantasy happened IRL, I don’t think it would make me jealous or feel insecure. I think I would absolutely love it! But someone fucking her….nope
You like pushing her boundaries. What would you say if she told you she would like to be with another man?
I'm divorced but I must say that I never imagined my wife getting plowed by someone else. If she fucked some other guy, I'd never touch her again.