Wife had affair but instead of getting mad I was turned on.

When my girlfriend (later wife) told me of her fling it opened up a new world for me.

 

My wife has had at least 3 boyfriends that I am aware of since we have been married. For me it is quite the turn on to know she has been out and fucked senseless coming home with cum filled panties. I have made love to her afterwards knowing she is full of another guys cum.

 

All I will say is that when a long term girlfriend confessed to playing around the hurt, anger and extreme disappointment was superceded by an unexpected massive arousal. We stayed together and enjoyed an expansively new sexual side to our relationship.

 

Same here…forever changed our lifestyle, we opened up our marriage and we had various forms and inter-connected lifestyles , from being a hotwife to cuckhold .,and even poly ..on top of that me being bi/gay leaning more gay ..

 

Part of the expansive new sex lifestyle was fueled by the realization that I had the SPH fetish ( small penis humiliation) and that also led me into not only cuck things but some bi activity or interests I had not had before. One of which I have not actually engaged in before ( nor even had on my radar). I want to at least give it a go and if it doesnt live up to my fantasy imagination I take it off my list or put it on a shelf. I want to suck the cock of whichever guy fucks my girlfriend while she or any other female watches me do it. It is humiliation / subjegation to the 'superior' man and his bigger/better cock.

 

Not all bigger cock's are better and definitely not superior, however I agree to the humiliation by being watched by others. We all like to think we are at least in the average bracket and it does matter how you develop other skills to compensate for your lack of size during sex. From other comments and answers really big cocks eventually suffer from Erectile Disfunction which I belief becomes an issue to those players that are high users. So women don't always enjoy anything but the visual delight of their partners big cock flopping about.

 

It takes more than a big dick, my wife would admit liking a big one once in a while but had a few big ones that were lousy in bed. She never cheated we agreed to an open relationship and was free to have anyone she wanted, but if he didn't please her, she never seen him again. One thing is most swinging couples we knew when it came to threesomes they wanted bigger men. My wife said the same was true of the married women who cheated on their husband liked bigger dicks.

 

Many years ago, my wife of 15 yrs and I seperated for over a year. Our jobs put us in unique positions that allowed us to sexually thrive . We didn't really talk about things in detail until 30 yrs later. It revealed some pretty hot and funny stories.

 

We played with various sex toys and I had fucked my wife with one of our larger realistic cocks. I could see the pleasure that she was gettting as I fucked her to a very strong orgasm. There was no denying that she enjoyed a big one. We lived a don't ask, don't tell if we messed around on each other. Decades later it morphed into yet another sexual phase that suited our age and health.

 

Way before I had developed my sph fetish I was about to have sex with a woman and I happened to see a dildo I assumed she used while she was freshening up in the bathroom. It was definitely on the huge side of large. My tiny dick looked like thumb compared it. Despite my extra trepidation over my ability to live up to her standards the enlogated foreplay seemed to float her boat alright but I am pretty certain my little thing didnt.

 

For us she enjoyed big didoes when she played with her girlfriends. Maybe that's what made her want to try a big dick. Not long after getting the real thing a few times we went to adult toy store and got her a life like toy which was big but smaller than sone of her girlfriends.

 

A few years ago my wife and I were on along drive and the topic of sex came out. who fucked her 5 times in on day.I asked her about the best sex she had ever had. She told me of a guy. Talking about this made me very horny. She also casually mentioned that he lived in the same town and nearby. We later often chatted about this and she gave me the details over a few glasses of wine. I could tell that she really enjoyed her times with him. She mentioned that she had met him a month or so before and had some great sex in the back of his pickup.
Not sure but the fact that this fellow could get it up 5 times made me very horny. There was a craft show in our town and my wife was showing her crafts. This fellow happened to come to the show and saw my wife. They chatted ,he made a sexual inference and she said maybe... She told him that I got horny when she told me about him. A few nights later and some wine, I asked her about him. You could tell she wasn't saying everything. I bluntly asked her if she wanted to fuck him again. I could see her squirm and melt. I knew from her body language that she would love too. We had some more wine and everything came out. I told her I would not be against it, but would like to have it happen in a 3sum situation.
The three of us met at a coffee shop a week or so later. We would be happy to have him as our FWB buddy. Meetings for sex only.

We all thought the first encounter would be best for both of them to reacquaint themselves and she met him at his place a few days later.
She came home after he fucked her three times over several hours.

The next FWB meeting a few months later was a threesome, with me mostly caressing my wife.
This fellow was amazing, he fucked her for 45 min . I am 73, so I don't have that ability anymore. The wife loved it. I went down on my wife and couldn't believe how hot (well above 98.6) and moist she was . This really turned me on. I ended eating his mixed cum and her ample cum filled pussy.
He fucked her again , this time lasting 30 min. I then put my cock in her and enjoyed the heat and moisture of my wife. This session lasted for several hours.

We have since had many FWB 3sums every 2-3 months.
Tonight my wife is over there visiting again.
I can hardly wait till she returns home and I fuck her and maybe even eat her well fucked creampie. mmmmm

 

agreed

 

Cheating connotes deceit, and the breaking of trust in a relationship. if any of my LTRs had cheated on me behind my back, there would be no way that it would turn me on. I would feel hurt and betrayed, and that probably would have been the end of our relationship.

That being said, there is a huge difference between cheating and a mutual agreement to opening up the relationship for her. When I had been married to my first wife for a couple of years, I develop a real desire/fantasy of her becoming a Hot Wife, and I finally got the nerve to confess that with her. She told me she could not understand why I would want to share her. After all we were married, monogamous, and had a very good sex life. But some night we would role-play around her, taking a lover, or a MFM. Anyway, one day she came home from the gym and asked if I was serious about sharing her. She told me her trainer at the gym had hit on her. GULP! I said YES! So that started a frequent-six month fling with him. After a couple of their hook ups, I asked her to suggest a MFM or letting me watch. HE said no. Not his groove. so they kept hooking up a lone/a lot. it really turned me on while I waited at home or was out of town, knowing that she is getting laid and filled. I could not wait for her to get home and have my go. he eventually broke it off with her because my wife was getting a little too attached to him, and he probably moved onto another woman from the gym.

a little different scenario with my current wife of 25+ years. When we were first living together, we had the usual confessional of fantasies. Come to find out one of hers was having a MFM. BINGO! LSS when a good old college friend came to town, he fit the bill. First time was just amazing, as were the subsequent adventures. Unfortunately, he lived a couple of hundred miles away, So we only hooked up a handful of times…… all good fun! All good things must come to an end, Wife decided that she had a conscience, and MFMs Or something that a proper wife and mother should be doing. So that was that!

 

I am not married but have a partner (casual) and I love hearing stories from his past. They are such a turn on! I love hearing them. Just my 2 cents

 

exactly hot as hell!