What is your wifes opinion about bi sex? I brought up the topic by telling her that I wouldn't object if she played around with another woman. She believed that I would only want that with the hopes of being involved and responded by saying how she would love to see me sucking a cock and taking a messy load of cum in my mouth. It was years later when that option presented itself. Unfortuately for me, I never got to be involved with her and other woman, but she has watched me with a friend many times and has expressed her pleasure about it. Does your wife know and approve of your bi encounters:
I was very fortunate in that my wife wasn’t shy about her sexual interest in women, there is a reason why most men want to see two women together, it is great. But my wife’s main interest was having two men ravish and share her. That also worked out well for me, being bi long before we met. She loved directing the action after she felt satisfied.
My wife was supportive but we have not gone outside our marriage if we did it would be to share some one
Not sure we will I think she likes the fantasy but when it gets a little to real it gets clear she is not ready. It’s not a big deal would be fun but Is what it is
My wonderful wife is good with it, we have gone to parties where there is a lot of bi stuff going on, she has tried it, but not her thing, she’s watched guys suck me and me them, and then there’s our 3sum friend, that we suck each other during our 3 sums with my wonderful wife, all is fun and messy.
She knows I'm Bi, and thinks I need cock to be sexually fulfilled. The subtext is that she hasn't the time, interest, or energy to do it herself. She disapproves of me simply having a fuck buddy; wanting me instead to have some sort of deep meaningful spiritual bond (but not too deep; she knows I tend towards being heteroromantic; female playmates are strictly forbidden), and wants it to be someone in the community, whose comings and goings won't attract the attention of the Condo Karens. So far, that's been an unattainably high standard. As much as I'd like a deep friendship, I'd be happy with an activity partner; I consider everyone in my Tai chi group "friends", we're very kind to one another, but the only thing we do together is Tai chi; then we go our separate ways.
Wow, she set the bar pretty high for you! I've had women try to put me on lockdown like this and I guess it's better than nothing but it really does limit what you can do and who you can do it with. I hope this works out for you!
I am extremely lucky with my wife. She understands that my friend gives me something that she can't and is not upset about it. She was the one who suggested that I try having sex with another guy. I would be divorced in a heartbeat if I were to have sex with another woman though. My friend is usually over at least once a week. Sometimes besides having sex we might watch some sports or auto racing, especially IRL, and have a beer or two. It is just sex with a friend. We don't kiss or cuddle, I do that with the wife. She has met him but she doesn't want to be there when we are having sex. With our work schedules I usually have 2 or 3 hours a day where he can over. My wife sometimes asks me questions about it. What position do we use, how long we last, etc. She did ask me once to take a video of him fucking me. I did and when she watched it she asked a few questions. My wife and I still have sex several times a week and we both enjoy it. She has stated that she has no desire to have sex with another woman, so I'm the only bi person in our marriage.
My wife admitted years ago if it weren't for me she would probably be in a relationship with a woman. We often compare women we see when we are out. We have common thoughts on how we would like to have sex with. But she's only been with men and I with women since we've been married. I suspect that if I were not around she would find a woman to love.
My wife was a "trooper" from day one. One evening after having sex we were lying in each other's arms as I was trying to catch my breath. Earlier that evening I'd confessed to her that I enjoy sucking dick and have given many guys blow jobs over the years, so she wanted to elaborate on the subject. She'd asked me, what made you want to suck another man's dick? I replied, my ex-wife would regularly hold out sex which led me to get blowjobs from other guys which then led me to eventually start sucking dick. Why dick babe? Why not another woman? I told her I didn't want the "drama" of another woman, with a guy we just got down to business and once we were both satisfied, we would part ways. She seemed to be very intrigued with me sucking another man's dick but not disgusted by it. She then asked, "When was the last time you sucked a dick?" I told her that I've had a "suck buddy" for the past 10 years and we just sucked each other off three days ago. She didn't seem to mind finding out that I was still sucking dick while dating her. She then asked if she would ever get the opportunity to see the two of us in action, she said it sounds hot, and had never saw two guys sucking each other in person. It was arranged a few days later and she was so turned on watching the two of us going at it that she asked the two of us to do her from both ends. A trooper from the beginning. She had tried bisexual sex with his wife, but it really wasn't for her. However, she loves the fact that I enjoy sucking cock and had a regular guy to have fun with. She understood but did ask, "Do you wish I had a cock?" No, I want you as a woman babe with those big tits and juicy pussy, I just enjoy sucking his cock from time to time as well and hope that knowing this now it won't change anything between the two of us. She said, "You two guys suck each other all you want, just don't cut me out of the loop". She followed up with "I'm not going to be able to suck your cock as often as you want me to" so it's nice that you guys have each other to pick up the slack.
