Question for Men about Erections

I can easily achieve an erection at age 47. I can either be with my husband, thinking about something or just touching my penis and he’ll respond very quickly! He’s always quick to have an erection and hasn’t lost any of his ability. I make sure to have at least one erection per day to exercise his abilities and keep him in shape…

 

In my sixties now and when I am tending my garden, nude, I do tend to become erect. I usually read the hip forums after gardening, perhaps my penis has become conditioned to know that soon after gardening I will be reading these posts. Good times.

 

It's more challenging now than it was when I was younger. But, two of my friends are also getting older and it takes longer to get them aroused than it did before. So, the foreplay is longer which is fun. And they are all open than ever before to trying new things which is great. It all works out.

 

It sucks getting old/older. When I first discovered what my penis would do when I was 12/13ish, I could get hard at the drop of a hat, Either with somebody or solo, it did not matter. In my late 30s, I am married a woman that I felt was my sexual soulmate. We had sex all the time up into our 50s, And I had consistent Solo sessions when I traveled. One way or the other it seemed like every night was a good night. The last few years have been a drought/famine. I experienced a couple of significant injuries, and subsequent surgery. I think the last two times I had sex with my wife. I fought through the pain long enough for her to get off a couple times, but I could not finish. It just hurt too much. Throw in that, and her “change”, and sex stopped. 5-6 years now. Even now with solo sessions, it takes a bit of mental or visual stimulation to get me going. Can’t remember the last time I had a REAL hard on. Yeah, hard enough to get the job done, but somewhat disappointing. Age health are big factors.

 

Golden years aren't so Golden. Wife has lost interest, and my lack of sex adds to my softer erections, not being what they used to be. I try to be thankful for other thing. I still have fond memories of our sex together, and with others.

 

Yeah, memories are what can usually get me going. Like you said, those of us together, or of us having our MFMs with our special “friend”. The one thing that always seems to work is the memories of the first time she guided him into her! I was like OMG she is actually doing it. BARE! Her multiple orgasms, him coming in her a couple times each session. me going down on her for tasty cream pies while us guys recovered. Gawd I miss those carefree days/nights! Just thinking about it now has me at about half staff. Maybe I should take advantage of it and get some lube.
I need a Time Machine to go back to those days. Absolutely no problem getting a raging hard on. My 40s and 50s were the best sex of my life.

 

That is a fond memory for me also. I remember her looking over at me and smiling as he buried his dick deep inside her.

 

My friend hasn't failed me yet. I do take some L-Arginine as part of my daily regimen ... earlier, it was touted as the poor man's Viagra since it aids in nitric oxide production, a vasodilator. Not sure if it really has that effect, but I'm not willing try and find out either....

 

Depends on my mood, health, stress level, etc. But generally speaking, I probably get boned up at least 5-8. Obviously it happens when I’m thinking about something sexual, but it can also happen naturally from morning wood, a pee semi-boner, or something accidentally rubbing against it. If my phone is sitting in my lap and I get a text that vibrates against my dick, it’s probably going to get hard, .

 

My body and my beautiful penis are getting older and my health is not the best (47) and my penis is definitely showing his age but I can have an erection any time I want and can ejaculate easily when I choose to take my time and masturbate.

I definitely take the time to exercise my aging sexual abilities and achieve at least one nice erection each day.

 

If I'm horny or I see a woman I think is very sexy I can get hard in seconds and it often lasts a while, very often at home I'll think about my partner doing something and me going up behind her and I'm fully hard before I finish the thought. It's even worse when she has small shorts on that reveal a lot when she is bent over.