I wouldn't call myself a sleezebag, but I did make the suggestion that she should try messing around with another woman? I was hopefully wishing that I would be able to get in the mix somehow. I was thrown for a loop when she suggested that I suck a cock and said how it would really turn her on. That was long before it actually happened. At first I thought she just said that because I said I would like to see her, but she was sincere about the idea and told me that it was a secret turn on for her. She use to like looking a Playgirl magazine, as much as I liked Porno mags. I really didn't believe her until the advent of computers and porn. It didnt take her long to find gay/bi porn, which she wanted me to see with her. If she never introduced me to the idea, I'd probably be stroking it by myself
Now former wife, towards the end of our marriage, told me about one of her friends she went on girls weekend with. Super cute, smart, successful, petite with huge boobs.(Likely enhanced, but big to begin with.) She admitted she wanted to have sex with her. I think she already had done it and wanted to gauge my reaction. She is small chested. Before we got married, we were driving and went past a strip club. She really wanted to go in, but didn’t have her fake ID. After that, I figured out that she was intrigued by big boobs and likely bi-curious or possibly bisexual.(She partied in college, and had some gf’s that were pretty promiscuous. She might have been too but would never discuss it.) I never pushed her for details but for the first time in our marriage, felt very close to her since she trusted me enough to tell me something to personal and deep.
My wife suggested that I try having a guy fuck me since I enjoyed having a dildo in my ass. She said it would feel better and it did.
My long distance female kink buddy/sex play pal has a long standing fantasy to watch one guy sucking off another guy and a guy fucking another guy. None of her former sex playmates have conceded to it. Because of my thrill seeking SPH fetish I have volunteered to potentially tick both those boxes for her when she visits next time ( long distance as we live on different continents) I will be the suck-er and the bottom. We already have an eager candidate to fulfill the other role. He is bi and I have engaged with him involving a former girlfriend but not directly interacting with him as she was the center of our attention.
My wife and I had been married just a couple of months when she mentioned she thought it would be hot to have another girl join us. She eventually told me she had the desire to have sex with women...which she later fulfilled. I thought it was super erotic and encouraged her to be with women sexually if that's what she wanted...
As to wanting to watch me suck a cock, the wife's never mentioned it, she has told me though, that she would love to watch a guy suck mine....and possibly us fucking each other....