You don't want to kiss your friend, but you will suck his cock

I'm really curious now, so here's a question for all you "I'll suck your cock and drink your come like it's my morning coffee, but we ain't kissing" guys. (And I'm one of you.)

Suppose...

You're with a transwoman.
She's beautiful and has a rockin' body.
She's got legs for the gods, and great implants.
She's fun and she's passable.

Would you kiss her?

I'm pretty sure I would.

 

If you want to get past your Cum phobia, I told my wife, after giving her oral and eating her pussy and ass from behind, that I wanted to jerk off and cum on her sweet pucker as she held her cheeks wide open. I didn't just cum all over her ass cheeks, I gave her a full blast dead center on asshole. As she was still holding her ass cheeks open I admired my handywork as the cum all pooled over her asshole. I told her it looked so incredibly hot, I had to eat it. Still holding her cheeks apart, she told me Im too chicken . Without hesitation, I dove right in and slurped that cum up as my tongue probed into her hot asshole. Since then I have licked up every drop of my cum, off of her body, off my own fingers. She even had me cum on her strapon and suck it. It was the best move on my part, because it always got her going.

 

Its still a dude. I couldn't .

 

I'd have to say "maybe." A kiss doesn't necessarily mean romantic intent and kissing someone we're about to have sex with can just be an act of passion. The "problem" is a multi-faceted one: First, the friend I'm sucking is a guy; second, the rumor that guys are lousy, inept kissers isn't a lie - and I know because I've kissed a lot of guys and wish that I hadn't - and it changed the way I kiss women, by the way. Third, kissing someone, in my opinion, isn't based upon what they look like; fourth, maybe I want to lip lock my friend... but he might not be agreeable because, as I've heard so many people say, kissing is too intimate, um, we're both guys, it can be deemed to be too gay (which is hilarious because we are sucking each other's dicks, right? Right.) Fifth - and "historically" - bros sucking each other off has almost always been a sex-only thing and with the presumption that no other emotions can be involved, should be involved, or aren't allowed to show up; now, you can feel the way you're going to feel but it does not mean that you have to do something about those feelings, oh, like slipping your bro the tongue before you go down on him and, really, if you want to kiss him, ya might want to ask him how he might feel about that.

I've only had sex with one person who, in today's terms, would be a transwoman. We weren't friends but we gave each other a nice case of being horny, got back to her place and got naked and... she's got a dick. Well, didn't see that coming but I'm bisexual so I know a little something about dicks. She kissed me and it was a very nice kiss even though, in my head, I'm kissing a guy - and liking it - and we went on to have a great night of sex... without any more kissing. So, honestly, I wouldn't say that I wouldn't kiss a transwoman - you just never, ever, say never - but maybe I would, not because of the way she looked but because of (a) any lust I'm feeling for her and/or (b) how deep our friendship is.

The last guy I was friends with, and we were having sex, kissing never happened nor did either of us attempt to kiss. Does him being male - and my transwoman friend isn't so much - make a difference? Not really because I've had sex with women and haven't kissed them as a matter of course and even if I wanted to kiss them, they didn't want to be kissed... because it's too intimate which, again, is crazy because if kissing is too intimate, what do we call me having my face plastered to her pussy?

We can be quite "weird" about this. Guys kissing guys has, historically, been strictly within the gay purview; bi guys have, historically, drawn a line between having sex with men and being intimate with women and, I think, because being intimate with a man is considered to be gay. What I know is that one can develop deep feelings for a friend that they're having sex with that could be displayed by a kiss; I know that some guys are used to kissing their sex partner at some point and/or they like to kiss and it can get interesting trying to kiss a guy who doesn't want to be kissed by another guy; you can put your lips anywhere else on him except his lips. Topper said, "Its still a dude. I couldn't." and there are many who wouldn't disagree with him if they're of a mind that guys aren't supposed to kiss each other so being a MTF transgender might get that dick sucked if they kept it... ain't gonna get them kissed and the status of our friendship has nothing to do with it.

 

With my ass proper up against the headboard, My wife will jerk me off while fucking my ass with a dildo. She says she wants to get it right in my mouth , like the waterpistol balloon game at the carnival, but she makes the biggest mess all over my face.
She takes her finger and wipes my face , then finger fucks the cum into my mouth. If it makes her happy, I'm cool with it. Any orgasm is a good orgasm, or two.

 

I'll never look at that game the same.

 

LMAO!

 

If I connect with an affectionate person in a state of bliss and mutual respect, there is a good chance we will kiss. Their gender orientation does not matter to me.

I know that men who feel this way are in the minority, but it is wonderful when I connect with one.

 

No. As I said earlier, for me kissing is about love, sex is about lust. If I am with someone for sex, I won't kiss. That does not depend on their gender.

 

In my experience a lot of bi guy won’t kiss but the goal is there cock and cum to begin with the rest will follow trust me. Chat if you like?9

 

Like your reply, I’m the same on that score and make sure you both have fun.

 

Chat if you want? Soon going to beach for fun

 

I'm in that tiny minority of bi guys, or perhaps now that majority of gay guys, that love to kiss. It took me a long time to finally accept that I was bi, even after sucking hundreds of cocks (for 21 years I identified as bi-confused). And it took a long time after that, 10 years, to reach the conclusion that actually I'm mostly gay, having found myself in a place a few years ago where I no longer had any interest in having sex with a woman again, though I still find them attractive and desirable.

For me it was the act of fucking another man for the first time at that 21 year mark I mentioned that gave me the feeling of enough intimacy and closeness to him, and all guys since then, to enjoy kissing (with tongue), though I haven't yet had that full-on passionate French kissing kind of making out with a guy. So having another man's cock in my mouth wasn't intimate enough for kissing for me, like so many guys here. But for me anyway, it was having my cock actually inside another man's ass that made me "love" him like I "love" women (or used to love women) enough to feel that passionate desire to kiss and lick each other's tongues. I mean, it rocked my world to its foundation to have my cock inside another man's asshole. I feel so close to a guy I'm having anal sex with. Of course I want to kiss him. We're making love for Christ's sake!

It's funny, now even with my closest platonic gay friends who I hang out with at gay meetups, we would actually kiss (without tongue) when saying goodbye. It feels 100% natural. I think it's that unique gay bond that we men-who-love-other-men in this repressed, homophobic society have that makes us want to kiss each other, even if we've never had sex. And, surprise to me, it doesn't feel weird at all.

 

That would be me. I have no interest in getting into a romantic relationship with a male, but being FWBs would be fine with me. The sexual benefits would be us just sucking each other's cocks and nothing else, but we could be regular friends and do other things together.

 

Yo, we are swapping more than spit. Whats the problem?

 

Funny enough, last week I met a guy in my hotel room. He shot his load in my mouth and over my face, and then started to kiss, stirring his tongue through his own cum. I loved it. Probably because it was pure lust that made him do that. I just finished a story based on that meeting. PM me if you like to read it.

 

I find this post quite interesting as I have always considered myself weird because I love sucking and playing with a cock, but have zero interest in kissing a man. I also am not interested in anal play in either direction. That makes me doubly weird I guess, because I love anal and kissing with a woman.

I have posted personals on websites before and I always make my boundaries quite clear, but it seems that is not enough. I have had to reiterate myself more than once when it comes down to the nitty gritty. The last guy that I met up with asked, “So how do you want to start this, some kissing?”. Next he wanted to know who was going to give up his ass, him or me? I had a good time swapping hand jobs and blow jobs, but I think that he left disappointed.

I am very, very honest when I post. I even state my likes/dislikes once again when we email or phone each other. I guess that some just think I will change my mind. That will never happen. I’m an old guy who knows exactly what I do want and don’t want. I do want my hands all over your cock, followed by my mouth swallowing your cock and finally to feel you release that load down my throat. That’s it, that is what I am interested in, nothing more. Yeah, I’m weird I guess.

 

I agree 99.5% because I won't even do anal with women.

I've experienced this quite often myself. It appears that either they don't read the criteria on my profile, ignore what I write, can't read period or like you said think that they might change my mind. I generally set forth a very specific criteria and some will just completely ignore all of it and want me to do things that are a complete opposite of what I was hoping for and asked for!!

 

I wouldn't say that you were weird because I knew, know, and I'm one of those guys who doesn't like kissing men. I've done it at times, and I can really leave it more than take it because I don't find it exciting... but I came up in a time where if you were known to kiss boys, that meant you were a faggot and fudge-packing queer. I've been online and guys hitting me up talking about how they want to kiss and cuddle with me and, ugh, I'm just not feeling that at all but, historically, I have been known to change my mind about a lot of things even though, as a primary kind of thing, I just want to suck your dick and get mine sucked. Is that weird? I would suppose that, to some guys, it is weird and there seems to be a "thing" going around that says if you have sex with guys, you have to kiss them and I've maintained that (1) it is not mandatory, (2) it's really personal preference and (3) just because you want to play kissy face with a guy doesn't mean that the other guy will want to, which I'm sure creates some great disparities and causes a lot of deals to be broken or not even beginning so they can be broken the moment kissing comes up.

Sure, there are guys who, as JS420 says, can't seem to be bothered with reading a profile or they just ignore it and figure that they're gonna "make you" do some shit your profile says you're not interested in and I have had guys try to kiss me after I've told them that I don't like kissing men (or some women) and, thanks for fucking up what could have been a really hot time... where are my pants? I've sucked the cock of many a friend in my time and maybe - maybe - kissed two or three of them, not because I was into it or needed but it was what the moment called for and if you can understand what that's like. But with those friends, it was like, damn, I wish I could get my dick sucked and me being horny and liking him enough to say, "I can do that for you..." and they get sucked off and, surprisingly, they've returned the favor by sucking or jerking me off and with nuts nicely busted, um, what were we doing or talking about?

Weird? I would say no, it isn't and that it echoes the thoughts and feelings of a lot of guys: I won't kiss you but I will suck your dick and not think twice about it.

 

I'm not into the romantic stuff of sex. No kissing cuddling or anything of that nature.

I've only touched lips with one guy. Friend of mine that been sucking off for eons. Only then just to swap cum which was thrilling but not the actual kissing part.