Asking your wife to wear something revealing in public

Just wondering if anyone else ask thier wife to wear something that's revealing in public.
I love to see my wife wear a loose fitting low cut blouse that easily shows side boob when she lifts her arm, or whole boob if she bends forward.
Or a thin semi see-thru shirt that reveals the outline and texture of her nipples.

Now, I don't normally ask my wife to wear anything and let her dress however she wants. But every once in a while usually during the summer months I'll ask her to wear something that's daring out in public.

If I'm out in public alone and come across a lady wearing something as I described I have a very hard time not looking at her and trying to catch a glimpse of her nipples. Sometimes I'll discreetly follow her around waiting for that moment of opportunity to get a good look.

When I do get my wife to wear something revealing which usually requires me having to practically beg her to wear it, I like to watch her walk around with a scowl look on her face and her arms crossed over her boobs. Then after a little while she begins to forget what she's wearing and let's her guard down. That's when the fun begins. It's a complete turn-on to see her boobs totally exposed in the market, home repair center, a restaurant or anywhere in public when she moves a certain way. After she's let her guard down sometimes I'll tell I have forgotten something at the other end of the store and distance myself from her and watch to see if any guys move in to try to catch a glance. On a rare occasion some do.

It certainly can turn a mundane trip to the store into a fun sexually charged adventure.
Just don't forget to make a list before you go. It's very easy to forget what you went there for with the distraction.

Anyhow, I was just wondering if anyone else brings this type of behavior into thier relationship?

 

Yes, My wife and I are home nudist and most of the year in south Texas it’s warm to very hot here. My wife has vivacious natural boob and a confident woman. Since she rarely wears a bra in public, men will take notice. She doesn’t flaunt herself. She is just being herself.
Take your wife to a clothing optional resort or campground. This will empower and boost her confidence.

 

Jack, we've gone to nudist resorts and beaches. Those experiences were great. Although if you ask her she'll tell you she didn't like going to these places and only went for me.
She also has very nice boobs and rarley wears a bra.

 

I’ve tried to get my wife to go braless in public, it’s a big no go. That being said she wears bras than enhance her boobs by two cup sizes. Some of the bras she would wear would make her boobs look ridiculously huge.

She also had bras with prints on them from VS pink collection. She would ask me if I could see her bra through her shirt, I would say na not really, which of course I could.

I would say 90% of the time her shirts were tight fitting so she still turned heads.

 

Keep bringing her to the clothing optional places. We were on a nude cruise last year and it had 3000 naked people on board. The older women were well
maintained and they rocked.

 

The nude places we used to frequent we'll probably never get back to them. Maybe the nude beach at Lake Tahoe but she really doesn't like hiking too far any more. She's always complaining about something hurting that keeps her from being able to go to the places we used to go. When ever were nude outdoors now days were always alone. Mostly our back yard around our pool. Getting her to go out anywhere now days requires much effort on my part. I'd like to think she's got some more adventures in her future but she's becoming a person who doesn't want to leave her comfort zone.
Her mind and ways are growing old before mine.
She does have very nice large perky boobs for a woman her age though. And I do love for her to show them off in public.

 

I've never asked her to do this sort of thing, but she has good judgment about when and where she wants to be a tease. Every now and then on a beach or cruise ship she'll wear a thin top with no bra. She's a 34C I think. I get a kick out of guys staring at her tits and perky nipples when they think she won't notice.

Girls notice a LOT.

 

I’ve asked once over the years. She wasn’t comfortable so I never asked again. Wore a short skirt no panties and silk top no bra. I was incredibly turned on the entire time.

 

It was all about freedom,daring, teasing, reactions. My wife could get away with things that I would get locked up for. I dared her to wear a top where her tits were half out and another time braless in a t-shirt.I followed and recorded men and women checking her out. It was Fun and Hot. We fucked like rabbits after we got back to the boat and watched the video.

 

I wish I was there to see those.

 

There you go, that's exactly what I'm talking about.

 

My wife had a favourite one piece swimming costume that she often wore on holiday. She loved the cut of it and the colours of the fabric. One time on a Greek beach, I photographed her playing in the sea with the kids. When she came out, I snapped her as she walked up the beach towards me.

For first time, I noticed that her favourite costume had gone slightly transparent in the water. It wasn't totally outrageous, but I could make out her nipples and bush. I was not imagining this because I still have the photos to prove it.

Thinking that she wasn't aware how revealing the costume was, I told her what I could see. She didn't seem at all bothered by this. She carried on wearing it, even when we were with friends. It remained her favourite costume for a number of years.

In those days, she never went online so she'd ask me to order stuff for her. On one occasion, she asked me to source a couple of swimming costumes with high cut legs for an upcoming trip to France without the kids. I found what she wanted and also noticed that the company did an unlined version that was guaranteed to go completely sheer when wet.

Thinking of her risque favourite swimming costume, I asked if she'd like a couple of the sheer ones as well. She said sure, so I ordered a white one and a pale yellow one.

She wore them on a busy beach in Nice. There was no pressure on her from me to go in the sea while wearing one, but that's exactly what she did.

The sheer when wet costume worked spectacularly well. She was as good as naked when she came out of the water. Undeterred by this, we walked back from the swimming platform to our places past a long row of people on sun beds with her showing them absolutely everything she'd got.

We never talked about her never to be repeated act of wanton exhibitionism in a see through swimming costume. I hope she got a thrill out of it. I know I did. Probably, a few other guys did too.

 

Little old wine drinker;

Could you please go into more detail regarding the thrill you say you felt if you don't mind?

 

That's an interesting but difficult question. I am not sure exactly what makes candaulism so appealing, but I'll try to explain. It's a bitter sweet feeling - a mixture of pleasure and pain.

First off, I think it's connected to exhibitionism. I do have tendencies in that direction myself. I have only acted on these occasionally and consensually over the decades with girls and women whom I was sure would not be offended. I once asked a therapist if seeing men naked during treatment bothered her. She said. 'Oh no! I like it. I go home and tell my husband all about it." It's scary thing to expose myself in that way to a woman who is not my partner. Yet, I am drawn to it. I enjoy overcoming the fear in the pit of my stomach and the palpable sense of relief that follows when it meets with the lady's approval. I love the fascinated look on their faces and the amused tone of their voices afterwards. It can be much the same if anyone sees my wife naked either by accident or design. However, she has a sense of fun about it and is less obsessive than me. I admire that about her.

A year or so after we were married, she walked out of our bedroom stark naked to check the baby and had a bizarre encounter with an older man who was doing some minor building work for us. She delighted in telling me all about it later. I guess that she was trying exorcise her embarrassment that the guy had seen her naked. We both thought it was hilarious and joked about the incident for a long time after. Although she didn't laugh nearly as much as the time when the same thing happened with her brother.

At the same time, I couldn't help wondering how the older guy felt about seeing his posh young lady client in the nude. I felt proud that he might have admired and enjoyed seeing her body, although he was probably more embarrassed about it than she was. Did he go home and tell his wife about it? Did it give their sex life a boost? I am as old as him now and can imagine what it would have like for him. Also, I took pride in the dignified way she handled the situation. It had been a complete accident, but I think she still enjoyed having a much older man see her in the buff. Her reaction was much the same when her parent's elderly peeping Tom neighbour spied on her through the window when she was naked after her shower.

Once, we got drunk with a couple of close friends and all streaked in the garden. Afterwards, my wife raised her arms in the air, made she eye contact with me and did a naked 360 degree twirl. I was blown away completely. It was a magical moment. I couldn't believe that she could revel in showing off her body to us all. I am not actually sure if our friends were watching too because I was so entranced. I guess it was sign of how much she likes our friends. It was one of those times when I felt so deeply in love with her. It was like other people seeing that way her validated my attraction to her. Curiously, I really didn't care that this was also a unique opportunity to see her best friend naked. Our friends still mention that night sometimes.

I am not sure this gets me any nearer how it is such a thrill for me. Strangely, when I ask her about incidents like these, she usually say something like "Oh! I can't remember. It's clearly more important for you than me." Yet she can remember draping herself naked across a chaise lounge to surprise me at an old fashioned up market hotel on my birthday. At the time, I was just wondering how likely it was that any of the hotel staff would walk in and see her completely exposed and spread out like a centrefold at the age of 41. God, I wish I'd had the presence of mind to take a photo.

Later most people we knew got to see her naked in photos when she posed for a good cause. That was incredible because some weren't shy in saying how great she looked and what effect it had on them. Also, there was a spectacular ENF incident during her shoot. It was quite a trip for both of us, but too long to go into here. For me the best part was that it was a shared experience that brought us even closer together.

That's more than enough speculation for now. Message me if you want to know more.

 

My gf has lifted up her skirt to show her panties and stocking tops sitting next to me in the car. Especially if she lies back. Truckers love it when they look down. A few times I’ve been fingering her as well.

 

Thanks for the reply wine drinker. So in short you feel a sense of anxiety then overcoming it when your naked in front of others. And a similar feeling when your wife is seen by others with a sense of pride added.

I get it, with the commitment we've made to these women it's almost like an extension of ourselves (the better looking part) that gets exposed for another to take pleasure in seeing her female parts exposed.
I guess I too have exhibinitionist tendencies, but more through her.
Like you I have many memories of her being seen naked by others but more of being naked at outdoor places.
But when she wears revealing clothing with the purpose of drawing attention to herself at my request, that always turns a regular outing into an adventure with an exciting sexual vibe.
I love it.

 

long ago... during our early years of marriage, VPL was quite the topic of the time (Visible Panty Line). My young wife was slender from the waist up and had a rather curvy and full figure butt to go along with it. Early on, she'd wear tight fitting slacks to work and semi-bikini panties underneath. I'd comment on the fact that I could clearly see her 'panty line', and being the fashionista that she was, she made the choice to go from wearing panties underneath those tight (and sometimes semi-transparent) slacks to donning seamless panty hose. Worked great. Pantyline gone, and confidence level up.

 

Key words, long ago. Boy how the fashion has changed. From visible panty lines to what's fashionable today, especially what the young female artist wear, or don't.

 

My fwb will wear tight tank tops to show her massive 36dds tits and love watching men go nuts. My fb will wear daisy dukes showing her long legs and also tight tank tops with no bra. When they wear revealing clothes I love getting a blow job because it is so hot with their clothes on and then I get to take them off and fuck then till they are totally satisfied

 

On a funny note after I wrote the above post my wife came into the room wearing tight jeans and a tight black T-shirt with her 36d’s that made my cock so hard I asked her to suck me off. She is wonderful. Spontaneous fast and she swallowed lol