58 mwm bi male in Spring Hill Kansas

Hello everyone,
I have been bi all my life and have had many bi encounters with other men. I am on my 3rd marriage and my new wife of almost 10 years and her kids know that I am bi and accepted it. My biological kids from my other marriage do not know. I have tried many different acts and enjoyed most. I have a few regulars that I keep in contact with.
I always felt that I am living a lie but I love my wife and opposite sex as well. I feel like I want to talk to my current wife and see if she would be okay for me to have an occasional encounter. If we didn't have teenagers still at the house still, I think she would be okay with it.
Well overall I am an easy going male with a good caring heart and enjoys helping people out, especially veterans since I am one as well.

 

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In a way we alll live a lie to some extent. There are always hidden secrets. I often wonder what my wife is not telling me

 

I wish I didn't have to keep this secret but I have already been judged by so many in my life. I now fear that my image, reputation and life will be affected very negatively. I will be judged by my sexual preferences instead of my actions. I will take my peace when I get it.

 

Welcome!

 

Hello and welcome!!!

 

Gijoeks,
Welcome.
Regarding judgement of your sexuality: always remember; those who matter don't mind and those who mind, don't matter.

Your current wife accepts that you're bi. Would she be into nudism? If youre going to be alone together, and nude, perhaps you could invite a mutually agreeable guy or couple to join you and let it play? Just be prepared for your wife to experiment with one or both of them.

 

Welcome, from a 65 yo Bi wm in St Pete, FL

 

Hey, welcome to the forum, 31 yo, Gay, Mississauga Ontario

 

She probably would be okay with that because she has said that she is bi also. The problem still is that there are still teenagers in the house all the time plus she has been having medical issues lately. At one time she knew a guy that would join us and he is bi as well. I am hoping to figure something out this year and finally have our threesome. Thanks for the reply.