A good acquaintance of mine still claims that he is strictly a GETHERO and the fact that he gladly sucks my dick is a request from my beloved and an opportunity to participate in our games.... But I basically and did not insist on the contrary and did not ask for excuses ))))
Have had a few experiences with wife watching and being in control and had a great time First was at Adult Theater and second was at home when she played "Mistress"
I don't really consider myself as anything among the list of labels. I'm married 22 years to the same woman and love her dearly, and most anyone would assume me to be extremely straight looking at the whole picture of me. And while I have no attraction to men or interest in a romantic relationship with men, or anyone else other than my wife for that matter, I do crave to try cock. I want to suck it to completion as well as be a bottom. I'm particularly attracted to trans women. How I love a female form with a nice cock! And I say that with the utmost in respect. So, my lifestyle is straight, but I do crave trying cock. I definitely don't see myself as gay... Somewhat bi perhaps.. but more so in the sense of lustfully bi, rather than romantically bi.
As evidenced by so many here, actually being romantically or even physically attracted to another man has nothing to do with our desires for various sexual acts with another guy.
Yes, indeedy-do...I love and crave women and pussy, but....being 98% hetero, I absolutely do leave that mystery 2%, for a nice hard cock! I was trying to set up a 3some with my married suck buddy, and this Thai hottie...this past week, for some serious fuck-licking! But sometimes it's like herding cats...although I sucked and licked this womans pussy for over 2 hours, it was sans my suck buddy's cock in it. However, 2 days later he and I did get together to blow one another. I will post pics on Forever Wild, a great sub-forum where one can post photos...via Quora....as soon as it does take place! It'll be the one fantasy left on my bucket list. The absolute BEST of, both worlds!
You know...that kind of blunt question reminds me of the D.I. scene from Full Metal Jacket -------------------------- HARTMAN: Holy dogshit! Texas! Only steers and queers come from Texas, Private Cowboy! And you don't look much like a steer to me, so that kinda narrows it down! Do you suck dicks! COWBOY: Sir, no, sir! HARTMAN: Are you a peter-puffer? COWBOY: Sir, no, sir! HARTMAN: I'll bet you're the kind of guy that would fuck a person in the ass and not even have the goddamn common courtesy to give him a reach- around! I'll be watching you!
Society teaches teens some of the worst things about sex and sexuality. It does take time to clean your mind from all of that brainwashing.
It's easy to see how young folks can get all fucked up in the head over this. Socioreligious norms say that if a man sucks another man's penis and/or they engage in sodomy with each other, then both of them are homosexual aka gay and this is immoral. Hence, guys wind up thinking that sucking a guy's prick is gay - but they "usually" don't think it's gay to have a guy suck his dick and even then, often making the assumption that the guy blowing them is gay - and he might not be. What winds up confusing the fuck out of guys is eventually winding up sucking cock with a guy and with the certain and innate understanding that they are not gay. Yet and still, we consider the act itself to be gay because of the long-standing association with homosexual men. It takes time to get this crap out of one's head and see it for what it really is: Just one of the many ways someone can have sex and I'll keep saying it until I can't say it anymore: You don't have to be attracted to a guy and like gay men are attracted to guys (or even be in some kind of relationship with a guy) or like you'd be attracted to a woman; you just have to like him enough to want to have sex with him. Women and gay men are not the owners of cocksucking because, duh, anyone can do it... if they want to. Cocksucking isn't a fetish, by the way, but I can see how someone would or could think that it is when two married guys who aren't gay spend a lot of time sucking each other off. That's like saying that bisexuality or even homosexuality is a phase and one that someone is expected to grow out of - or never go there in the first place.
When you realize that in Ancient Greece, homosexuality was common, it really makes you understand how religion has controlled society since then. It seems like every monotheistic religion forbids same sex relations. The Bible is a collection of stories written by men. So, at some point individual men decided that homosexuality, sodomy and masturbation were a sin. A ton of people jumped on that band wagon over the centuries and here we are in 2024 with elected officials, and appointed judges, STILL condemning same sex relationships. We have centuries of ignorance to undue. Individuals must regain control of the narrative.
Once you know that the taboo is some man-made bullshit that was designed for the express purpose of us making babies - and to control our proclivities to have sex - you put all that shit behind you and... suck a dick; you get a guy to give you a blowjob that will, most likely, curl your toes the first time and will blow your mind as well. There's a reason why I've heard so many guys say, after sucking my dick, it all felt normal, natural, and oh, so right.
Yeah it is, But met Ermey. He was one of the nicest guys you could want to meet. Kubrick originally didn't want him to play the part of Hartman. But seeing that ERmey actually was a D.I. he gave him a lot of leeway. So Ermey improvised and gave a totally over the top performance that gelled with Kubricks way of movie making.
Damn, it feels good to finally share this part of my secret life! This must be what that, coming-out-of-the-closet, feels like...I love sharing it with like minded souls. However...that part will still be well shielded from those that know me. Old schooler in me likes it that way.
There's a lot to be said for that. A LOT! Read Sex at Dawn by Ryan and Jetha for an explanation of why female and male sex drives synch up with that balance.