How Did You Start Exploring Bisexuality?

First me, I did some light experimenting with a childhood friend in the playground. Nothing serious. Then I explored forget through porn. It's progressed over the years and my curiosity continues to grow.

 

Never downplay youthful experimenting because it's at the root of adult cravings for cock. Most of the guys I know were having sex with friends when young gave it up as an adult - to chase women and all that expected stuff - and... they got back to having sex with men. It galls me to see guys wave youthful experimentation off like it doesn't mean anything when, in fact, it does...

 

Yes my good friend at 16. I got and kept my admiration for hard veiny cocks by pulling his and catching his load of come in my hand and standing holding my waist band open as he went to work on my cock. How stiff I was then. So much hot come I shot out. I still remember his thick rubbery foreskin moving over the hard veiny shaft in my hand, and his fat red cock head. Ahh it's good to remember it as I pull off.

 

My mom and stepdad were both actively bi and did not hide it from us, so bisexuality was just something I always saw as normal. When I started getting obvious erections they let me know that it was OK to experiment as much as I needed to. For me it started with masturbating with my cousin one summer, and a few years later that led to mutual masturbation and sex with my college roommate. After that I knew I was bi and just accepted it.

 

For me, it was being a nudist first. I just began to notice guys dicks a lot and that made me curious and then i explored and found I really enjoyed being with a guy

 

I've often wonder if nudism can get guys interested in having sex with other guys...

 

Mine has been fantasizing, furtive peeking and otherwise suppression until, now in my 40s, I am starting to accept who I am. Too scared to do anything with anyone else at the moment, so just experimenting on my own and occasionally talking to my loving wife about what it all might mean.

 

I suppose it may do but, for me, it didn't.
One evening my GF and I were with two married couples.
We and one couple only knew each other vaguely and it was the other couple who had organised it because they were friends of all of us.
There's no chance that the three of us guys would have been naked without their wives having planned and arranged it.
We played a board-game; all ended up nude, me first, and they kept playing the game until we all were nude.
I noticed much more distinctly, the bodies of the ladies and they were good
Different from my ideal, for one reason or another but they were female and still very appealing.

I saw the cock of one of the guys.
It was hard and uncircumcised and his knob protruded fully from his foreskin so it was fully exposed.
I had no interest in playing with it or touching it.
It was just a hard cock, though it was nice to feel adequate in the size department, once I saw it.
His knob was slightly pointy (though not as pointy as the nose of a rocket) compared with mine which is rounded and slightly bulbous.
I didn't even look at the other guys cock and I actually can't visualise him there at all, although he was.

As the game progressed, I could sit back and watch and I was checking out the ladies
And one checked me out and leaned down and sucked me. I was seated between the two women because no-one was allowed to be beside their own partner.
The other wife, to my left, she whispered that the other one wanted me to fuck her and if not 'tonight' then sometime on our own later.
So, there was no manplay and I had no interest in it.
Even now, with my desire to find a wank (and possibly suck) buddy, that guy's cock doesn't appeal to me.
It did appeal to my GF who was seated beside him.
He wasn't interested in her because she was doing stuff to him, that he didn't like and which actually turned hm off. (Running her nails over his back and such things).

On another occasion, we were with another couple and we all got nude.
The plan (though it wasn't explained to me beforehand), was that I fuck the other woman because they hadn't had sex properly in several months.
Apparently, he had lost interest or was screwing his ex wife. Who knows?!
Anyway, when she saw my cock, she let out a wow! and her eyes really lit up.
I was semi-hard, as good as full size, but not sticking out straight. Her comment made him jump a little and I went hard when she wrapped her fingers around it.

His cock was smaller than mine, uncircumcised and rounded knob.
The thought of playing with his never crossed my mind.
That may have been because two lovely women were there, naked and that one of them wanted to fuck me.
It may have been because during our board-game we played forfeits, two of which we had written ourselves.
Unbeknown to each other we guys (me) wrote one and the girls (my gf) wrote the other with a giggle from her friend.
They were the same. lol
The person receiving the card was to go down on the person of opp sex who was not their partner.
As we played the game, me just going with the flow, the first two cards produced were on my go and they were both the hand-written ones.
Clearly a fix; it was also clear that my GF (and actually both women) wanted me to play with the other one and so, knowing my GF that should include fucking.
So the other woman wanted sex with me.
Well, they both did but my GF wanted me to fuck the other one first.
She took the other guy off to the bathroom, which, were I to have realised the plan, would have seen me fuck my GFs friend.
I had thought we would all be in the room together for that.
Oral it was and it was lovely.
She asked me please to fuck her and I said I would but I wanted my GF there too.
Anyway, back to the topic, Not just nudism but sexual activity and arousal, when with other guys, didn't get me interested in playing with a cock.

I guess that it's now, because I'm in a sexless relationship, that I want to feel someone anyone wank me and suck me but I need to like, really like, the look of his cock.
For me; man-play would only be about the cock and orgasms.

 

Well, there's being naked with other guys and then there's being a nudist - but you seemed to have gotten lots of pussy out of those situations. So, why choose man-play at this point?

 

Is that question, to me, KDaddy?
Those occasions were many years back. My sex life was very active then with my (then) GF.
Lately, and for a long time, it has been dormant and masturbation isn't really enough to satisfy me, even 3 and 4 times daily.
That, combined with when a prev FB, about 7 yrs back, wanted a bi 3sum because she wanted to watch two guys wanking and sucking each other and so, she spent time persuading me until I agreed.
And then my own curiosity grew until where it is now; that I want to try it with a guy. So far it's only bee swapping videos with guys but I'd like to do it for real, wanking and sucking.

 

Is anything stopping you?

 

I think I need to get out from under my shell and seek a guy out None I know would be up for it and likely they wouldn't keep my secret a secret.

 

Kind of my situation too. I need to figure out how to find the right guys.
I hope you get the knowledge, and the nerve, to start looking! I think it would be fun for you, and another guy.

 

Yes, I was asking you the question - and thank you for answering it!

 

It sure does seem to help. At every nudist resort I've been too, and there have been many, i've always managed to find one or two or more guys there that are bi

 

There are few situations when, for me, I can be nude with another guy. Pretty much none.
If there were such an occasion, I would seek out any opportunity to discuss our bodies with very tentative steps, to see if we both might feel sufficiently at ease that we would watch each other playing or play with each other.

I'd nearly need to know he was up for it before he'd have any idea that I might be.

So; to answer the question; I think nudism can get guys interested. They may be interested already, in principle, but nudism can get them interested actually in doing something about it

 

It also helped me a lot to see naked boys when I was a child.

 

It defintely made me more interested in doing 'something' about it.

 

When I was in junior high, I had a friend that wanted to suck cock every time he was around me. I don't know what it was about me or my cock, but he loved sucking it.

 

When I was around 10 years old a friend of mine and I did 69…. We didn’t cum but it felt good being sucked and sucking a cock