Any exhibitionists out there?

I’ve seen her, and other women, trying clothing on and looking at themselves in many poses, from all angles. I assumed it was to evaluate not only the overall look, but to see what could be seen, and if it was appropriate for the occasion…

 

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That’s the “I’m on vacation and no one knows me” mind set. It allows the bad girl side to come out of hiding.
(So erotic for other men to enjoy views our wives breasts or even better…all of her!)

 

I would love to have sex in front of strangers, that could be bery erotic, but not worth getting arrested.

 

I've watched strangers have sex in front of me. It was exciting for all of us and I'd do it again in a heartbeat.

 

love to expose myself online on webcam and also like to masturbate in semi-public places (car in parking lot, changing rooms in clothing shops) or in nature (woods, beach, fields).
It's sometimes hard to find a balance between the excitement seeking and staying out of trouble.

 

I enjoy going to nude beaches, I also enjoy going to adult theaters and video booths and getting partially naked and jacking off. I’ve had my cock sucked and I’ve watched other guys sucking cock and I was jacking off watching them. I’ve also jacked off for numerous female coworkers, they liked watching me and it would make them horny. I would be totally naked…. I love being naked
I’ve also drove naked in my car while I’m jacking off hoping to be seen

 

Don't feel totally comfortable with men seeing you . There are some who'd turn you in but your odds are much better with men seeing you .

 

I have always been a jealous type but seeing other guys getting erections while checking out my lady was pretty stirring to say the least.
having her tease a little helps push the boundaries.

I have also had a couple practice tantra sex next to me on a nude beach. Holding eye contact with a naked stranger while she is slowly teased and penetrated before my eyes was a unexpected pleasure as well. For us all it seemed.

 

I've never really considered myself an exhibitionist per se, because when I am nude at a nude beach or hot spring, I don't care so much that I am being looked at, as I am certainly voyeuristic, but I also love that my partner is being looked at and appreciated. What would you call that---a co-exhibitionist, or a exhibitionist supporter (LMAO). On the other hand, I do enjoy having sex in front of others as well, I guess that is exhibitionist, but as far as just being nude myself in front of others, I have no problem with it, unless I was the only one--that would be weird.

When my first wife came to the states as a student (we met and married in Japan), and subsequent trips over, she enjoyed showing her body off to others. She would wear sheer tops with no bra, which turned me on, along with the thought that it was turning other guys on too. We had sex on the hotel balcony multiple nights, and she stepped out on the balcony during the day, and posed for a guy with a fancy equipment in the next hotel who's room was eye level with ours. Her younger sister was also very exhibitionistic with me, my first wife said that it is because she sees me as her brother-in-law. But yeah, there is nothing I have not seen of her sister's body multiples times, and usually when her husband was not around.

My current wife, a Filipina, is also happy to show off her body. She has sunbathed nude in our backyard, I got stories to tell. One time when she first came to Japan she was staying with a Filipina friend who was married to a Japanese guy. She heard them having sex in the shower multiple times and it would always turn her on. So one time we had just arrived in Tokyo and did not have a place to stay, so we spent a few days at the place of another Filipina friend who was living with a Japanese boyfriend. It was a one room place, and two of the nights we were there, not long after they had gone to bed, she initiated sex in our futon. They may have heard us, or they may have been asleep. But she was really turned on. Another time she wanted to have sex in a not so private changing room on a beach in the Philippines, People could have walked underneath it as it was on stilts, and looked right up at us doing it. Then there was a hot spring one night. There was a young guy on the bench, who looked to be sleeping. We took off our robes and hung them near him, hopped in the hot spring, and after a bit of soaking she got horny and wanted me inside her. After having sex, we climbed out of the hot spring, and as we reached for the towel, the guy said, where are you guys from?

On a regular beach or at a pool she hardly ever has a bikini top and often uses black panties as a bikini bottom. For her top she will wrap a scarf around her, usually sheer. She rarely wears a bra either. Her nipples are typically pressing against her shirts or tshirts.

 

Foreign women are more apt to show skin than American women. I think our culture is a deterrent to simple nudity in appropriate places such as beaches, saunas, hot springs and such. One such story I have is when one of my daughters invited a foreign classmate from France over on a Saturday. I had the boys and neighbor kids playing backyard whiffle ball. Out of the house the two came and pulled up loungers by the pool. Immediately off came the French girls top as she laid back. The game came to abrupt halt as the boys just stood there gawking. My wife interrupted and the girl covered herself. I found out from my daughter that when she went to their home at the pool it was nudity all around. It's just a different culture in other parts of the world.

 

Yes, and it was not uncommon for Japanese families to bathe together in times past and of course, at a traditional hot springs today it would be odd to wear a bathing suit. But it was odd to me that in the 1980's Japanese women were always wearing bras, and that there was no problem with bra straps showing or bras showing under clothing, where as in America back then a girl would seem self-conscious of allowing their bra to be seen, even if they would happily go around bra-less. Yet on the other hand, there was no problem showing nipples on prime time TV, even if it was overly-gratuitous, like a popular cop show (seibu Keisatsu (West District Police--referring to Tokyo's West District)), where a female cop changes her clothes, for no apparent reason, while talking to her colleagues with the locker room door open, including, for some reason, changing her bra----I loved it, but it was so gratuitous I had to laugh.

But this was a country where I never saw women's nipples in public, and there was no pubic hair or pubic region displayed at that time. Old ladies would literally scratch out the pubic hair and any genitals in Playboy and Penthouse magazines imported from the US before they were sold, and comic books had a blank spot where genitals or pubic hair should be even if it was showing two people having sex. And there were plenty of comic books that incorporated sex. One that was popular with teenagers was called Machiko Sensei (Teacher Machiko) and in each story this very beautiful teacher would somehow end up naked or with nothing but panties on. Often times it was by the trick of one of her male students who would often touch her boobs or wherever with the phrase, "Touch!" For example, they go to the beach in one story, and he gets her a new bikini, which she gullibly wears, but it is made of paper which quickly dissolves in the ocean.

When I say never saw nipples in public, I do have to add, except in traditional hot springs where they do not divide the pools by gender, and one time a Japanese friend took me out on a boat to do some fishing and we came across some Ama (pearl divers) who were all topless.

I could say that when you make out with a Japanese girl, it does not take long to get into her bra, but being that I am a blonde haired foreigner, which made me popular by default, my experience may not be typical.

But Japan, when I was a student there, was a country where many college girls are still waiting for, and excited for, their 'first kiss.' In fact, I am fairly confident that I can look at a picture of young Japanese women, for example at a coming of age celebration when they turn 21, and identify which ones are experienced and which ones are still virgins. Now, I haven't proved this empirically but my experience tells me that I may be pretty accurate. Regardless though, experience tells me more strongly that, if I was single, I can walk into a room of Asian women in Asia, and by looks, body language, and pruning and other actions, identify which ones I could take out and get lucky with. When my son was a teenager, and shy, I embarrassed him several times by telling him, do you want a girlfriend or penpal,' when encountering a large group of Filipina High School students in the Philippines, and proceeded to hook him up with girls that were very eager to be with him.

Japan does not have the puritanical or Christo-Judean sexual oppression that you have in the West. But I think Western morality has been pushed upon them creating these odd contradictions. And it plays out in some interesting ways. I went with an American friend to a traditional hot springs, and there were some young high school or college girls that had no problem with their nudity until they saw us, two foreign guys---and then suddenly they were trying to be more modest.

The Philippines is even more exaggerated. You have this strong oppressive catholicism that is everywhere, even in the government. There is no nudity on TV, though when Aquino's presidency was ending, it seemed like there was a bit of a free-for-all. Newspapers had full-frontal nudity spread around them, when normally they did not have any. There is no abortions, nor divorce. But with the tropical heat, a lot of women went without bras. And breastfeeding babies was not uncommon in public. I spent some time with the Aeta and some other tribal people who were topless. But for most of the Philippines there was this strict catholic morality that demanded some sense of modesty.

But the Philippines, in my opinion, was a country of massive sexual tension. As a foreigner I found girls aggressively trying for my attention, and it didn't seem to be the kind of, 'let's date for a few times, and if I like you, you'll get lucky' kind of trying for my attention. It was more like, 'Let's have dinner and then I want you inside me.' And as I've said elsewhere, in over 5 years of being in the Philippines, I know of only two people that I could say, this person has not cheated on his spouse or significant other. Infidelity, mistresses, lovers, that is the norm there.

I believe that this is because there is a natural south pacific sexual morality there. It is free and liberal, which was typical across the Pacific (among other indigneous places), but with this oppressive overlay of Western morality forced upon them, it turned what was normal into a clandestine or immoral yet still very normalized activity just under the surface of this veneer of righteousness.

 

This is so me!

 

My wife was raised in a very religious environment. When we were first married, she was exceptionally uncomfortable concerning nudity. After a couple of years of wearing smaller and smaller bikinis, dozens of encouraging body positive conversations, and finding a couple of isolated beaches where no one else was around she went topless. It was so new to her and we just hung out there for a while. Being in Florida, there were many opportunities to do this. A few months later we visited Playalinda Beach and she took off her top after she saw so many naked people laying in the sun. About 30 minutes later she wanted to go into the ocean. She took off her bottoms and ran into the water. Fast forward several years and being nude outdoors, around the house, in the car, in our pool, and other various places became 2nd nature for her. We have been to several nudist resorts and loved the freedom. We have lived in our house for a few decades and know our neighbors fairly well. At some point, many of them have seen her naked. Both of the couples who live on each side of us have seen her in the back yard with nothing on as she lays out on our deck. When she is working in her butterfly or vegetable garden she wears a long flowing sheer cover up.
A decade or so ago she discovered her body went into hypersexual drive if she knew we were being watched having sex. I wanted to be sure she felt this way so encouraged her to test her hypothesis as much as possible. This led to many adventures where her clothing was left behind. Her journey from being an uptight young lady to a true exhibitionist has been an exciting adventure for both of us

 

Congratulations on setting her free !

 

Let's fucking do it!

 

It depends on where you are and at what time. In broad daylight its a terrible idea but you can get away with it late at night or really early in the morning depending on the area.