Masturbating with Panties (Men & Women)

Male Married Age 73 Masturbating since I was 13

The question of ethics and masturbation and several posts I've read since joining this forum raises the popular practice of masturbating with women's undies. Some of the posts bother me because guys admit (often boastfully) to masturbating with or into the underwear of women without their knowledge or permission. So I've a number of questions for men and women on this forum.

Men:

1. Do you (or have you ever) used women's undies to masturbate?
2. If so, were they panties, bra, stockings, slips?
3. Do you have a preference for the type of underwear such as a bra, or a specific type of panty?
4. If you masturbate with panties are they 'used' or clean?
5. Have you ever purchased used underwear for this purpose?
6. How did you use them to masturbate with or sniff them whilst wanking? Did you use them as your masturbated or as preliminary? Did you stroke yourself with them or stroke yourself and cum onto them
7. Whose undies were they?
8. Do you/did you use the underwear without the owners' permission?
9. If they knew, did they agree to you masturbating with their intimates
10. Do you/have you ever masturbated with your own underwear and/or does your underwear play a role in your masturbation?

Women:

1. Were you aware that men like to smell a woman's panties and that many men use a woman's undies as an aid to masturbation?
2. What is your response to this, is it okay or do you think it is gross
3. If a partner asked if he could smell your panties and/or use them to masturbate would you be okay for him to do so?
4. Have you ever given a partner your undies for this purpose?
5. Has a partner ever used your undies during sex with him?
6. Has your partner ever used your undies for masturbation without telling you or asking you?

 

The question of ethics and masturbation and several posts I've read since joining this forum raises the popular practice of masturbating with women's undies. Some of the posts bother me because guys admit (often boastfully) to masturbating with or into the underwear of women without their knowledge or permission. So I've a number of questions for men and women on this forum.

Men:

1. Do you (or have you ever) used women's undies to masturbate? Yes, of course
2. If so, were they panties, bra, stockings, slips? Panties (knickers here in the UK)
3. Do you have a preference for the type of underwear such as a bra, or a specific type of panty? No but nylon or satin if using then to stroke my cock
4. If you masturbate with panties are they 'used' or clean? Both
5. Have you ever purchased used underwear for this purpose? No
6. How did you use them to masturbate with or sniff them whilst wanking? I have smelled them as I masturbated and used them to stroke myself with. Did you use them as you masturbated or as preliminary? Both, sometimes to get aroused and ready, sometimes to masturbate with or cum into Did you stroke yourself with them or stroke yourself and cum onto them Both. From what I have read online a lot of guys like to masturbate and cum onto them which I have never done
7. Whose undies were they? My partners
8. Do you/did you use the underwear without the owners' permission? Both with and without
9. If they knew, did they agree to you masturbating with their intimates Yes
10. Do you/have you ever masturbated with your own underwear and/or does your underwear play a role in your masturbation? Inevitably Yes because you are not always naked when you masturbate or start to masturbate. Sometimes I remove my underwear a some point during masturbation or continue wearing them whilst I do. This may mean that I stroke myself through my briefs, stroke myself with my hand inside them,stroke with my penis out of the opening or ith my underwear pulled down below my penis or around my thighs.

Women:

1. Were you aware that men like to smell a woman's panties and that many men use a woman's undies as an aid to masturbation?
2. What is your response to this, is it okay or do you think it is gross
3. If a partner asked if he could smell your panties and/or use them to masturbate would you be okay for him to do so?
4. Have you ever given a partner your undies for this purpose?
5. Has a partner ever used your undies during sex with him?
6. Has your partner ever used your undies for masturbation without telling you or asking you?

Note - buying used underwear to wank with and using/stealing found underwear is pathetic and completely unacceptable. Masturbation is healthy and normal but can easily move into the perverse. I imagine most women would be horrified to find some creep had been sniffing their worn pants or wankng into them.

 

1. Do you (or have you ever) used women's undies to masturbate? …Many times
2. If so, were they panties, bra, stockings, slips? ….Panties and pantyhose
3. Do you have a preference for the type of underwear such as a bra, or a specific type of panty? …..No
4. If you masturbate with panties are they 'used' or clean?…. Both
5. Have you ever purchased used underwear for this purpose? ….Yes
6. How did you use them to masturbate with or sniff them whilst wanking? Did you use them as your masturbated or as preliminary? Did you stroke yourself with them or stroke yourself and cum onto them ….all the above
7. Whose undies were they? ….Two of my friends Moms when I was younger and my wife’s cousin
8. Do you/did you use the underwear without the owners' permission? ….Yes
9. If they knew, did they agree to you masturbating with their intimates ……they didn’t know, my one friends Mom knew I wanted to fuck her
10. Do you/have you ever masturbated with your own underwear and/or does your underwear play a role in your masturbation?……. No

 

Why should we take note?

I think your bold type judgment is quite far off and based on your own prejudice and perception.
For example, you wrote:
1. buying used underwear to wank with and using/stealing found underwear is pathetic and completely unacceptable
Stealing is unacceptable because it's against the law.
However, buying used underwear for masturbatory purposes is a choice and decision between she, whose panties they are and he, who's considering paying for them.
You have responded to the survey, that you use used knickers/panties for your masturbation so I wonder what is your issue.
Are you embarrassed with yourself for short-changing your partner because you use your partner and her knickers but you don't pay her?

2. Masturbation is healthy and normal
I agree with you but there is many who wouldn't.

3. I imagine most women would be horrified
It seems a lot of women make considerable sums of money from selling their used underwear, which suggests to me that many are not horrified.
I'm not sure of any statistical work that would clarify between "most being horrifed" and "many being very content".
So, why should we take 'NOTE'?

[supplement]
fwiw, I'm not into such sniffing.
I become annoyed when it seems someone tries to push their opinion down other peoples throat, by making opinion-based statements.

 

Women:

1. Were you aware that men like to smell a woman's panties and that many men use a woman's undies as an aid to masturbation?
   Yes
2. What is your response to this, is it okay or do you think it is gross
   Yes, I'm not really in a position to judge, if they are into it I don't see what's wrong with it
3. If a partner asked if he could smell your panties and/or use them to masturbate would you be okay for him to do so?
   Yes
4. Have you ever given a partner your undies for this purpose?
   No
5. Has a partner ever used your undies during sex with him?
   Yes
6. Has your partner ever used your undies for masturbation without telling you or asking you?
   Not that I know of, but I would be turned on

 

I done it a few times it's totally harmless I just like the aroma

 

All of THIS.

 

am male and i use the leg of a pair of very thin high Lycra content ladies tan or nude tights or pantyhose.Gather up one leg and roll down your semi hard penis.Pull the panty of the tights over your balls very tightly.Use the other leg of the tights to tie tightly around the top of your right leg.Use a cock ring over your by now rock hard penis.Leave about 6 inches from the head of your hard cock of loose leg of the tights.Gently pull the toe section with one thumb and one finger.With the other hand with your thumb and finger down at the base of your hard penis.Pinch the tights leg and gently move the denier knit up and down your penis.I find this VERY sexually pleasurable concentrating on the tip of your penis.I enjoy staring at my penis moving backwards and forwards inside the leg of the tights.This is incredibly stimulating.I enjoy these feelings for approx half hour or so.At this point i fantasise of ascending and descending in an ultra high speed elevator or lift.After half hour of this i feel myself building up for climax.Very gently moving up and down with the nylon as i look at my hard penis and concentrate.As i orgasm and climax a huge jet of semen shoots out of my penis tip directly into the tights leg.Fully sexually satisfying.After i take the tights off and the semen soaked leg goes in my mouth to taste and swallow.Pure Bliss.

 

1. Do you (or have you ever) used women's undies to masturbate? Yes
2. If so, were they panties, bra, stockings, slips? Panties
3. Do you have a preference for the type of underwear such as a bra, or a specific type of panty? Silky feeling
4. If you masturbate with panties are they 'used' or clean? Clean
5. Have you ever purchased used underwear for this purpose? No
6. How did you use them to masturbate with or sniff them whilst wanking? Did you use them as your masturbated or as preliminary? Did you stroke yourself with them or stroke yourself and cum onto them? I put them on and rubbed my cock from outside until I came
7. Whose undies were they? Don’t know. In both cases they were pairs I found in a hotel room where I was staying
8. Do you/did you use the underwear without the owners' permission? Without, since they presumably didn’t know they had left them behind
9. If they knew, did they agree to you masturbating with their intimates n/a
10. Do you/have you ever masturbated with your own underwear and/or does your underwear play a role in your masturbation? I have, but not since I was young

 

Love pantyhose, got off in some about week ago, just grinding in till unloaded. When younger used moms or grams to hump carpet, rug, pillow or whatever.

 

Men:

1. Do you (or have you ever) used women's undies to masturbate? Yes, but not in a very long time.
2. If so, were they panties, bra, stockings, slips? Panties.
3. Do you have a preference for the type of underwear such as a bra, or a specific type of panty? Tiny bikinis or thongs.
4. If you masturbate with panties are they 'used' or clean? They were clean.
5. Have you ever purchased used underwear for this purpose? No.
6. How did you use them to masturbate with or sniff them whilst wanking? Did you use them as your masturbated or as preliminary? Did you stroke yourself with them or stroke yourself and cum onto them. ...no sniffing, stroke but not cum on them.
7. Whose undies were they? Sister's then wife's.
8. Do you/did you use the underwear without the owners' permission? Of course. Why would I ask permission for that???
9. If they knew, did they agree to you masturbating with their intimates
10. Do you/have you ever masturbated with your own underwear and/or does your underwear play a role in your masturbation? Yes, and yes. I have only "sexy" underwear. Wearing a string bikini or thong keeps sex in the back (or front) of my mind all day. I don't wear anything else

 

The question of ethics and masturbation and several posts I've read since joining this forum raises the popular practice of masturbating with women's undies. Some of the posts bother me because guys admit (often boastfully) to masturbating with or into the underwear of women without their knowledge or permission. So I've a number of questions for men and women on this forum.

Given the role lingerie plays in porn and the fact that you can purchase supposedly worn panties online it is clear that underwear especially knickers [aka panties] play a common and potent role in male sexuality. This is possibly especially so for us older men who grew up in a time when erotica consisted of little more than women showing their panties and whose initial masturbation was to pictures from clothing catalogues. Pantie fetishism is also inevitable given that they cover the buttocks and vulva! This is okay so long as it does not become excessive or intrusive.

My answers:

1. Do you (or have you ever) used women's undies to masturbate? Yes This Qs needs clarification. Is it using panties to masturbate with, wearing women's underwear whilst masturbating, choosing porn based upon panties/underwear, touching and/or smelling panties. Because of my age and early masturbatory experiences I have a fondness for vintage panties and stockings erotica. I have used my partners panties to masturbate with but strictly with her knowledge and permission [both with her and alone] and, similarly, have smelled them as a stimulus both during sex and masturbation
2. If so, were they panties, bra, stockings, slips? Panties
3. Do you have a preference for the type of underwear such as a bra, or a specific type of panty? Not really except if using them to caress myself in which case silky fabrics are preferable. If we are talking erotica then probably old-style high waist and sheer
4. If you masturbate with panties are they 'used' or clean? Both
5. Have you ever purchased used underwear for this purpose? No
6. How did you use them to masturbate with or sniff them whilst wanking? Did you use them as your masturbated or as preliminary? Did you stroke yourself with them or stroke yourself and cum onto them All of these
7. Whose undies were they? Once only when I was 14 with a pair belonging to a friend of my sister but only once and only handling them whilst I did. Otherwise only my wife's
8. Do you/did you use the underwear without the owners' permission? Obviously without in that one teenage case, but with my wife's knowledge and endorsement
9. If they knew, did they agree to you masturbating with their intimates Yes. She would leave a pair of freshly discarded panties if she was away
10. Do you/have you ever masturbated with your own underwear and/or does your underwear play a role in your masturbation? Yes particularly as a youth

 

Man, married 67. Started masturbating at around 5 years old

Men:

1. Do you (or have you ever) used women's undies to masturbate? Yes
2. If so, were they panties, bra, stockings, slips? All of these
3. Do you have a preference for the type of underwear such as a bra, or a specific type of panty? Not really
4. If you masturbate with panties are they 'used' or clean? Both
5. Have you ever purchased used underwear for this purpose? Yes
6. How did you use them to masturbate with or sniff them whilst wanking? Sniff if they’re dirty. Did you use them as your masturbated or as preliminary? While I masturbated Did you stroke yourself with them or stroke yourself and cum onto them .. I’ve done both
7. Whose undies were they? My mom’s, a couple of my friends mom’s, my wife and a cousin of my wife and panties that I bought from different women
8. Do you/did you use the underwear without the owners' permission? lol. Yes except the ones I bought
9. If they knew, did they agree to you masturbating with their intimates none of them knew except the women I bought them from
10. Do you/have you ever masturbated with your own underwear and/or does your underwear play a role in your masturbation? No

 

Do you (or have you ever) used women's undies to masturbate?
Yes.

If so, were they panties, bra, stockings, slips? Panties and Slips.

Do you have a preference for the type of underwear such as a bra, or a specific type of panty?
White cotton panties.

If you masturbate with panties are they 'used' or clean?
Used.

Have you ever purchased used underwear for this purpose?
Yes.

How did you use them to masturbate with or sniff them whilst wanking?
Sniff and lick while wanking.

Did you use them as your masturbated or as preliminary?
While I masturbated.

Did you stroke yourself with them or stroke yourself and cum onto them ..
Both.

Whose undies were they?
Panties that I bought from different women.

Do you/did you use the underwear without the owners' permission?
No.

If they knew, did they agree to you masturbating with their intimates
The ones I bought, yes.

Do you/have you ever masturbated with your own underwear and/or does your underwear play a role in your masturbation?
No.

 

I been jacking off on my girlfriends 20 year old daughter panties and putting them back in the drawer and she doesn't know that my cum is all up on her little pussy I also smell her used panties when I jack off and it is the best pussy scent I have ever experienced I can't stop thinking about her and she has been very flirty with me and walking around the house with a tshirt and thong panties when her mom is gone .. she is absolutely beautiful and sexy as fuck and I would love to at least eat it and taste her juice is she wanting some daddy dick or am I wishing

 

1. Yes
2. Panties, tights and a bra
3. Usually thongs as my wife wears them
4. Always worn
5 No
6. I sniff them lick the dried vaginal slime. I can jerk them off
7. My wife`s Or before my sister`s
8. It's a secret if not during sex.
9. I think yes
10. I can jerk off in my underwear or through my clothes

 

1. Do you (or have you ever) used women's undies to masturbate? Yes regularly
2. If so, were they panties, bra, stockings, slips? Panties
3. Do you have a preference for the type of underwear such as a bra, or a specific type of panty? Lacey ones
4. If you masturbate with panties are they 'used' or clean? Both depends, usually used
5. Have you ever purchased used underwear for this purpose? No
6. How did you use them to masturbate with or sniff them whilst wanking? Did you use them as your masturbated or as preliminary? Did you stroke yourself with them or stroke yourself and cum onto them? I wrap them around my erect penis so that the cover the head, and wank with them and cum in them
7. Whose undies were they? My partners though in the past I have used my mum's as a teen, and with a friend a womens panties from her bathroom when we were working there
8. Do you/did you use the underwear without the owners' permission? If it's my partners yes she lets me, the others no
9. If they knew, did they agree to you masturbating with their intimates yes they did, she often watches me.
10. Do you/have you ever masturbated with your own underwear and/or does your underwear play a role in your masturbation? I have wanked in my own panties that I wear, and in school I did wank and cum in my underwear several times

 

I would with women's panties for sure

 

Do you often?