Is there any point in giving a blowjob if guy doesn't cum?

Only if you are in need of cum, Otherwise it still feels awesome to have your cock sucked and played with , cum or no cum.

 

Only if you think it is and if you do, then you're not getting the full enjoyment out of sucking cock.

 

Totally in

Totally in agreement with you feels wonderful to have your cock sucked with or without cum.

 

I lick the way you Think!

 

Not at all a waste of time. I blew a guy that could not get hard, but could see and feel by his body movements how he liked it anyway. Of course he would have loved to cum and I might have been even happier (for him as well as for myself) if I could have made him cum, but it was certainly no a failed date. We enjoyed it both a lot. I had a great orgasm without a cumshot, because I don't have a prostate anymore after cancer, but fortunately still get hard. And for the feeling it makes no diffrrence.

 

So, without ejaculating, do you still have as long of a refractory period, or can you go again, like pre-puberty's dry orgasms ?

 

It's exactly the same as a normal orgasm, but without the cum. In a way it's even convenient. No mess to clean up . But other times I miss it. Mess is part of the fun.

 

And if you meet someone who doesn’t like CIM, problem solved

 

Had a routine with a FB years ago. Started off hugging, kissing, and undressing each other. Then while I sucked her nipples she stroked my cock. Next to the bed and 69. She usually came on my face. I didn't but would get really hard. Time for repositioning she might go CG or it was straight to mish. Either way I finished in her pussy which is what she wanted most times. Never in her mouth. But as far as a waste of time? No. A BJ is a great prelude to serious fucking and a nice part of hot and steamy sex.

 

Wife does not like it to cum in he mouth says its not were it belongs. Me I just like a BJ no matter if she decides to finish or not.

 

you appreciate what you get
There’s a way to finish a bj without cum in mouth if your wife will be open to try something

 

It’s not a waste of time at all if I don’t cum from a blowjob. It can take a while for me to cum from one sometimes. It doesn’t mean that I’m not enjoying it. Sometimes the journey getting there is very pleasurable and there is no hurry.

 

not to mention, that sometimes I like to just take time to enjoy it...it's not always all about the final destination...edging, even stopping a few times to make it last longer...as long as she'll let me anyway..

 

Not necessarily. Did you both enjoy it?

 

I love a good blow job but one thing I can never do is cum from it for some bizarre reason, never happens

 

I'm guessing that you mean that it's a waste of time if he doesn't have an orgasm??
I have never sucked another man's cock, but if I did I would definitely want to get the complete experience!!! I would want him to have an orgasm! I would want to feel his cock twitching and contracting in my mouth. I would want to feel his cum squirting into my mouth. I would want to experience the taste of his cum as I swallowed it!!
That's the fun of giving a blowjob!!!!

 

agree, I want to feel everything especially feel him cum, taste it & swallow, I want the love juice

 

I've given a few guys an hour-long blowjob to not get a load of cum, it's disappointing but I still enjoyed myself.

 

Cum or no cum it’s still awesome !

 

The cum is... a plus. It's the intimacy; the taboo and sheer nastiness of taking another guy's prick in your mouth. It's the act of sucking on it and getting into having him in your mouth and getting all of your senses engaged as you use your mouth, lips, tongue and hands to bring him to the edge of the abyss and... kick him right into it. If he cums, fine but if he doesn't, well, sometimes it doesn't happen and any time I couldn't get a guy to cum, instead of being pissed off about it or getting down on myself, the question became, "Did I have fun trying?"

I did. I loved having him in my mouth; loved thumbing my nose at the taboo and daring to be intimate with a man and in a way that only women are expected to be as well as gay men and knowing that I'm not female and I'm not gay, but his dick feels good in my mouth and if I do things just right, I'll get his seed to swallow and, if not, there's always a next time... or the next guy. I like to say that I'm an old school cocksucker; none of that facial shit or face/throat fucking and edging is out of the question and so is taking your cock away from me so you can jerk off. Once I have your cock in my mouth, I'm not letting go of it until you cum in my mouth or you can't cum or one of us calls it quits and it's not going to be me.

Doesn't matter if you cum a little or a "holy shit" lot; you came, you did it in my mouth, life is good and too short not to enjoy this taboo pleasure and the most important thing being a cocksucker taught me was that if I'm not having fun sucking you, there's no point in continuing to suck you. That's why some guys say I'm a selfish cocksucker because I don't do it to make them happy - I do it to make myself happy and he's along for the ride...

So, it's not always about the cum but what it feels like to you as you work to get him to cum and if he doesn't, well, um, did you have fun trying?

 

I agree, I enjoy sucking cock and his load of cum is a bonus for my job well done. If he is unable to cum, it doesn't mean I didn't do a good job as I gave him my all and enjoyed doing so.