Why do you choose top or bottom?

For many, it is a choice since they're not sure what they want to do outside of sucking dick. I get that some guys can be predisposed to be a bottom, but I know that I did have to choose which thing I liked the most: Fucking or being fucked and I chose... both even though I would eventually learn that I loved to suck dick more than I liked fucking or being fucked...

 

I'm a bottom. I HAVE topped, but I love the feeling of being submissive, of making a man cum, of him taking me, getting hard, sucking his cock to completion, or better yet, being fucked to completion. Just an absolute thrill..

 

All this talk makes me want to try anal again. I only did it with one friend. It hurt way too much to receive, but topping was fine. It was both our first time and he moaned like a slut the whole time, which was pretty hot. I don't know what I was expecting if anything, but it felt pretty good, and I didn't think I'd stop ejaculating.

Taking a huge cock looks amazing, but there's no way I could do it.

 

That part!!

 

You would be surprised how much you can take when you're in that zone.

 

Never been with a guy, but I can definitely be a bottom. The pleasure of being taken from behind, hands on my waist, taking every thrust. It's a rush. I enjoy the feeling of being filled. The comments about my body. Being submissive would be different. To see and experience it from a female perspective.

 

Oh, you'd definitely learn what's like to "be the girl" but I'm curious: If you've never been with a guy, how you know that you could definitely be a bottom? I ask your forgiveness for asking but this is something I've been trying to make sense out of for quite a few years and more so when I had to learn what I liked and didn't by having a whole lot of sex with a whole lot of guys. Today, I read a lot of guys saying that they've not been with a man - but they are damned near 100% certain that they would not only be a bottom but a submissive one and, well, how do you know this?

 

I should not answer for Moustache man but I think it's like deciding as a teen what your preference is. Some know they are gay and are ready to date the same sex because they know they are attracted to them.

Straight or Curious people are thinking on it and think they are ready to try same sex sex.

Some might realise it's not for them. Some may feel guilty or some might be relieved to have tried and know if they did or did not want to try again.

As a guy who likes ass play and thinks being fucked in the ass may bring pleasure I think I'm ready. I wish my wife would peg me. I wish use toys in my ass regularly not rarely as it currently is.

I think I would let a guy fuck me if I trusted him and he took it easy. I probably think I would like a repeat performance and to try other stuff but I haven't been able to get a discreet encounter yet.

But I'm not looking for a relationship, domination or a sub role. I want to experiment for the physical pleasure.

 

WIC, you hit it on the mark. The only difference is, my girl has pegged me before with a strapon. So, I've had the role reversed on me before. I have experienced a time when I was embarrassed after using a toy on myself, but faded due to the fact that I LOVE anal pleasure. The idea of being submissive has never crossed my mind, but I realized alone with my sex machine...whew it felt good. So, based on my solo experience, being pegged, and overall comfort of anal pleasure makes me believe that I'm ready. My girl also is on board with me experiencing a MMF threesome. So her support on this definitely helps. Don't get me wrong, I'm also not looking for a relationship, per-se. However, a FWB that would come by once in a while and have fun with the both of us...or just me .

 

Also let me say that over time, I feel I can be both a sub and dom bottom. Like 80/20. I watch plenty of gay and bi porn with a affinity for thick asses to chubby bodies (similar to mine) and the thought of fucking one turns me on as well. Watching their toes curl and moan out of pleasure because of me.

 

Perfect, I hope you can arrange that mmf. Of course this means that your gf actually wants to watch you being fucked by another man

Terrible, just terrible. Actually I think it's a turn on that she wants to play and encourage bi play. Be sure to involved her to cause pussy is great and I think a bit of cock on the side would be nice.

 

Definitely. I LOVE pussy. That will never change. The feel and taste of it is invigorating. For her to understand my curiosity and indulge in my urges is beautiful since in my past relationships, I kept it to myself in fear of being side eyed or having my sexuality questioned. I hope to find a FWB that we can hang out with, chill, travel, and have fun with.

 

Just read a bunch of your stories. Awesome reading. I’m a total virgin as far as guys go. Always knew I had it in me ( or literally wish I did) to be with a guy. When my vibrator tells me it needs to take a break…..well, I guess I’m ready. I would go both ways for sure, but Prostate surgery makes it difficult. But I am so BOTTOMS UP and look forward to my 1st adventure. No doubt…no hesitation. I really want it. For you, my future friend, I’m going to give you a ride you won’t forget. Ask my toys! Thanks for your tales of pleasure….many exciting thoughts going thru my mind from them! Just a side note for guys going thru Prostate issues….surgery eliminates ability to Cum. I thought everything was over. Much to my surprise, you still have orgasms. For me, they were even more intense. What a treat to find that out! And, by the way, I can’t describe how anxious I am to fill my mouth with delicious Cum!!

 

Ok, so not to take away from the flow of this but curiosity got the better of me. So, prostate surgery prevents you from ejaculating (semen coming out) but you can still have orgasms? The sensation of one, I mean, w/o the actual ejaculation? Genuine curiosity here.

 

Yeah, it totally shocked me. The surgery removes all the tubes needed to produce and transport Semen. I thought that ejaculation and orgasms were tied together. My wife showed me how wrong that assumption was. First time she went down on me I had an incredible orgasm. Was over the top amazed and thrilled. Been the same since. Turns out, she never enjoyed Cum and was more than happy. That kinda tripped me a bit but whatever. I don’t think that way. I tasted my own Cum on occasion (wish I had slurped it all down now!) and I enjoyed it a lot. I think that, just because I can’t Cum, doesn’t mean that I can’t lend some helpful lips and tongue to other guys! Man, I can’t wait for that to happen!

 

PS ….the orgasms feel like you are cumming your brains out! I ask my wife “Didn’t I just Cum “ Sure felt like it. Hope that eases the worries of anybody that has to consider going thru Prostate issues.

 

I totally agree with ya, MM2020! Don’t know which would be my first choice. The thought of sitting on a throbbing hard dick and fucking every drop of Cum out of him or opening myself up completely to him and let his dick do whatever he wants to…..tough choice!! Dom or Sub?
I always think about what I would like the 1st adventure to be like. This might sound a bit overly brave, but I think having 2 maybe 3 guys show me how to have a good time. Always sucking and getting fucked up the ass for hours. And having a willing female with us to video the whole thing. She would probably want some,too. I could totally imagine licking up every last drop of Cum dripping from her dripping pussy! What a show that would be to watch over and over again later.My first time and definitely not my last!!

 

Thanks for the clarification.

 

My first choice is always to sub. It feels good. Just like you said, the thought of letting them have their way in your ass is exciting. I'm getting turned on just thinking about it.

 

Funny how that works….me too! I think that sitting on top and being able to slowly slide his dick in and out and speed up when you want to would make it all last longer and him Cum really strong. I can’t wait to go Bottom Up either….Just thinking about it is such a turn on right now! I wonder how much you can feel the hotness of the Cum spurting into your ass…….and the spasms of his dick as he Cums?