Any exhibitionists out there?

You have previously replied to a post I made describing my wife is always in good girl mode when we discuss nude beaches/clubs we’ve been to ….” My body is for only my husband to see” and yet there’s no effort to try to minimize exposure of tits or pussy when we’re at these places.

Along the lines of your wife’s love of risky sex, my “good girl” has initiated:
1) sex against a hotel window w lights on at night
2) years ago in our pool during the daytime. We had a fence, but it wasn’t *that* high ….lol. Neighbor had windows that could give a clear view. We weren’t completely naked….but our activities were pretty obvious
3) on a hotel suite’ s living room floor. There was a large window that looked onto a walkway and beyond that people could look onto the view of the courtyard. We only had sheers pulled and lights were on. I could hear people walking outside our window while I’m eating her pussy and she’s sucking my cock. I doubt it was the view of the courtyard that attracted passerbyer’s attention. Not too long ago she brought up how nice the hotel was.
4) fairly recently, we were on vacation in another country w a room that opened onto the beach. We opened the slider and only closed the sheers. Every morning, workers tidied up the beach. One amazing morning, she wanted sex as the workers were doing their thing. The worker moved close to our slider/sheers as we were going at it. My wife didn’t hold back. The worker lingered till we finished.

like you, I have other examples. The pattern for her is that sex where she might be seen or is definitely seen makes her very horny. However, she needs the excuse of “oh, I didn’t think anyone could see” or “you mean they can see through those curtains! (sheers!).

I think her feigning lack of knowing she is seen allows her to keep a “good girl” self image. It’s a little tougher to pretend no one will see her naked at a nude beach/club. It’s an intentional premeditated showing of the goods….really tough to reconcile with that “good girl” self image. I wish she could be honest with herself and me. But it could be worse….a wife that never wanted risky sex or was only naked in a pitch black room would be a huge disappointment! I just need to come up with more ways we can exercise the exhibitionist streak and play into the false idea that no one can see her/us.

Any suggestions from the group?

 

I think you're doing fine. Setting up scenarios that you have described which allows her to drop her guard seems to work. You have a bunch of other scenarios available by using your imagination or letting her set the pace. As long as she feels she isn't being seen she is more secure having risky sex that way. Keep doing what you've been doing and enjoy her exhibitionist nature.

 

Yes! I’ll admit to being exhibitionistic, but a couple years ago I turned down her wishes to F*** in a cabana while on vacation at a Caribbean resort. True, there were very opaque curtains on 3 sides that could be closed. But the wind often made them part. If the wind didn’t disturb them, the waiter assigned to our cabana would! He came by frequently to check if you wanted drink or food. He was someone who looked forward to a good tip and paid a lot of attention to the four cabanas for which he was responsible . The resort was not Hedo! I didn’t want to violate the resort’s rules on PDA and get kicked out or arrested. So I vetoed the idea. The compromise we reached was me pleasuring her by playing with her pussy. I did it without removing her suit and tried to be as discreet as possible. As I mentioned, three sides of the cabana were curtained but the fourth was open to the Caribbean. There was a weed salesman in a tiny boat probably 20 ft away that had a great view of my wife’s hips and legs spasm as she orgasmed.

later, my wife said she didn’t know he was there. lol….going to have to call BS on that one! He was either in our view or gone just for a short time for a sale and then back for the entire time we were in the cabana.

On one hand, neither her pussy nor her boobs were exposed. OTOH, a stranger got to watch her orgasm…and she definitely wasn’t motionless! It is funny that my wife says that she doesn’t enjoy going to a nudist club…. “My body is only for my husband to see.” We go, but she says she just does it because I like it. But someone watching her get fingered and orgasm is ok???!!??? LMAO!

I know the percentage of women in the US who have tried a nude beach is small (7% I think). But the percentage who have let a stranger watch them get fingered and orgasm must be much smaller!

 

It was only when I was younger.

 

I have enjoyed being at a nude beaches, I’ve been watched by both men and women. It’s especially a turn on when a husband and wife are looking at me. I’d love to hear their conversation. I jacked off at an adult video arcade that didn’t have doors on the booths and a crowd of several men watched as I stroked my cock.

 

The good girl syndrome is common, I think, I’ve discussed this with a number of online friends, over the years. I think that women interested, but “shy” about exposure are grateful to find a partner who can help them be less responsible for showing the “bad girl” side of their true selves. Sometimes it involves a few drinks, often a venue away from home, a dark night, or other nude women around ( although I’ve found my wife much more willing to be wild when no other women are around, but guys may be close by…)

 

My “good girl” was the one who first suggested we go to HedoII, although neither of us realized what we were getting into!

 

It’s a shame some gals are burdened with the goal of being “ a good girl” despite what they would like to do or show sexually. Do you have any good experiences you can relay?

 

lol, it was over the top, for us! Although it was certainly possible to stay ion parts of the resort that were on the ‘prude’ side, there were still nightly events, like the Toga Night. I rem3mber sitting across a dining room table from a woman who had one lovely breast exposed…

 

lol, yes! In Key west, after a few cocktails at our favorite bar, I asked her to go into the bathroom and come back with her bra and panties in her bag. She was really reluctant until she realized it was just me and 3 or 4 guys at the bar, no women. Came back commando. I think she didn’t want other women to think she was a slut….

 

Also, packing for a vacation and ‘forgetting’ to bring any bras…she couldn’t just say, “ I want my boobs out for you to see and I don’t care if anyone else sees them!”

 

I wish my wife drank….it’d free up that naughty side that I know is there but suppressed. Some years go we had just moved into a house w a pool. We were having one of our first swims one afternoon when she reached down and fished my dick out and had me f*** her in the pool. We did have a privacy fence….but also neighbors with windows higher than our fence. This is the sort of thing she’ll do when horny. (Many examples.). But if she’s not horny, she would say a woman getting f***ed in broad daylight where her neighbors could watch is a slut.
Enjoyed the experience you shared. Feel free to message if you have more stories you would care to share

 

Exactly! Mine will do the most outrageous things at times, then swear she never behaved like that!

 

Or wife will say “I only did that because you wanted to”. Hmmm….then why does she cum so hard after naughty things???

 

Right! Why so wet!

 

Getting a little attention is sexy, but you don’t want to get thrown out of a place or cause a riot! We went to Vegas once and my wife was braless in a cute dress that had one of those crossover-front thingies, and I wondered why the waiter at a restaurant was so helpful in pointing out wines and food on her menu, while standing behind her. I eventually got up and hit the restroom, and when I returned, I stood where he had been, and found that when she leaned forward at all, her top gaped open and I could see all the way to her navel, both breasts and both nipples entirely exposed to me ( and to him!) Very exciting!