Is there any point in giving a blowjob if guy doesn't cum?

One fwb started giving oral and there was no turning back, she was the one to ask me to stand in front of her and let her have it. Often, but never to completion. It felt so good and while I never finished that way for a good while I didn’t complain about the attention which she loved giving. However I felt myself ooze precum so she still ended up tasting me

No complaining here

 

Having said what I said earlier, the "rule" was that if you sucked a guy's dick and he didn't cum, it was (a) a bad blowjob and (b) your fault that he didn't cum and the only way it wasn't your fault was if you were sucking his dick to get him hard so he could fuck you. I would learn that there are a lot of reason why you can suck a guy and he can't cum and it's not really the cocksucker's fault but I wasn't going to let a lack of cum stop me from enjoying sucking on his dick and, oh, yeah, I wasn't doing it to make him happy so if he didn't cum, not my problem. Honestly, I have failed to get a guy to cum - just not that often. The question I had to ask myself was, "Did you have fun sucking him?" and the answer was always, "Yeah, I did!" and, to and for me, that was the whole point in giving a blowjob with or without cum.

 

I just don't comprehend the the whole 'he can't cum from a blowjob' .... half the time I'm trying not to cum....just yet....

 

Lots of factors involved including nervousness, stress, over- and under stimulation; some guys will jerk off before meeting a guy for a blowjob and his body is deep into a recovery period that won't stop him from getting hard but can make sure he's not going to cum any time soon... or not at all. I've seen guys not cum because of the expectation and anticipation that they're going to get their dick sucked and trying to make it happen instead of just relaxing and allowing it to happen.

And some guys can develop a mental block about cumming from a blowjob and, yes, a lot of guys have told me that because females would suck them and tell them that they'd better not cum in their mouth, they got conditioned not to and the block remains in place even though the guy - and someone like me - is encouraging him to cum and... they can't.

I personally get caught in between not trying to cum and wanting to cum; I'm being sucked, it's feeling incredible, and I don't want to cum... but I want to. Then I do.

 

When I was in my 30's some many years ago, I remember a guy's ad I replied to on Craigs List searching for a cock sucker who swallows. He supplied a very sexy photo of his rather thick flaccid cock which had me licking my lips upon viewing it. I said to myself "I'd love to suck a load out of that sexy cock", so I replied to his ad telling him of my interest to satisfy his need for a cock sucker that would swallow his load. We exchanged a few emails before he supplied his address and about an hour later, I was ringing his front doorbell. He greeted me at the door and invited me into his living room where he immediately removed his pants and underwear and sat in the middle of the couch. I got on my knees between his legs and began caressing his legs and inner thighs while licking his thick flaccid cock. I lifted my head and said, "I smell and taste pussy" to which he replied, "I just had sex with my wife about two hours ago before she left for work". OK, let's see if I can make you cum again. I proceeded to orally worship his cock and balls for the next hour as his moaning was quite intense at this point as I waited for a nice warm load but nothing. He started to apologize for not being able to do so as I asked if he minded if I stroked myself while sucking on him. He said, "Go for it", so I stood up and remove my pants as my raging hard 8" sprung out. I get back down on my knees and continue sucking on his cock while stroking myself, within 30 minutes I'm about to blow so I stood up and shot my load all over his cock and proceeded to eat my own cum off his raging hard cock as I continued to suck on him for another 30 minutes and still no load. I'm now exhausted having been sucking on his cock for 90 minutes as he once again was apologizing for not being able to do so. I assured him that there was no need to do so as I enjoyed myself and tried my best to suck him off to orgasm. I told him it was OK, maybe next time he'll be able to cum. I never did get a second chance to suck a load out of him but as I stated earlier, I had an enjoyable time sucking on him even though he was unable to cum.

 

I like to be fucked before fucking, as well as suck but not taste

 

The guy will like it regardless of the orgasm. We just love the attention.

If you are worn out, we get it. But, you're effort is appreciated.

 

His cum is the "cherry on top;" the rush is getting him there, to use your mouth, lips, tongue, and even your hands to take him from flaccid to hard and back to soft again. The feel of him in your mouth; how he's tasting; what you're hearing coming from him as you work his dick over because this is what you love to do and if you do everything right, he's going to cum. And if he doesn't? You still got to suck cock; you got one more chance to work on and perfect your artistry as a cocksucker.

I don't just suck cock for the cum; I do it for the joy and fun of being able to do it and I'm totally fucking shameless about being the best cocksucker I know how to be. And, if I've learned nothing sucking cock, it's that it's better to try and fail to get him to cum... than to never try to get him to cum. I'm... a different cocksucker; I don't suck dick to make the other guy happy and if he's not happy even though I got him to cum, well, okay... but I got to suck that dick and I took your cum, so I had fun.

Because if it's not going to be fun for me, there's no point in giving the blowjob.

 

Once I began sucking cock, I found it to one of the most entertaining things within my life. I realized I was better at doing so than many of the other women that sucked me off over the years. I never stopped a woman from sucking my cock as it was what any man wants but as they were sucking my cock, I found myself respectfully giving instructions as to the proper way to suck a man's cock. How can one not suck a man's cock properly to pleasure him? Ladies, you do a good job but why is it I've gotten better from other guys? You ladies need to understand that sucking a man's cock when done right will make him do damn near anything you please. Whether he orgasms or not you must give it your all and suck on that cock like there is no tomorrow.

 

Yep totally agree at 75 my orgasms are all dry but I still enjoy them.

 

It is still very enjoyable

 

Enjoyable....to say the least.....I think they are the very best....

 

Right there with you man very enjoyable

 

Taking a hot load in your mouth is awesome!

 

Luv a woman who enjoys sucking cock. I'm up for it if I can.

 

I have had the pleasure of shooting my cum every where except the mouth. So far only in my masturbation sessions it’s likely not going to happen at my age 75.

 

I only met two women who let me cum in their mouth and I'm in my 50s but I have to say I do love it when I get to do it

 

Ah a BBW-lover. Nothing better than big tits and a big belly. After I enjoy the nipples I move right to the belly area.

 

Definitely agree there

 

I had a FB that always said he had difficulty cumming. I was the only one to get him to blow his load, a few times, in many years. And, only while fucking me. But, I would suck his cock before, during and after our sexual trysts. He really enjoyed when I sucked his cock. And, that's all that matters.