An awful lot of younger guys are into getting layed and eating pussy is just an avenue to leading there. Older guys love the journey as much as the destination. I know I love between a woman’s legs caressing her thighs and ass with my hands as my mouth and tongue kiss, suck and flick her clit. Her hands on the back of my head alternating between caressing and pushing her thrusting hips to meet my tongue. By then her desire and fulfillment is my goal. I’ll know when she wants my cock in her. A couple of orally generated orgasms is a great precursor. By the time I’m in her shes ready for a ride.
You probably didn’t meet other older guys that have good working erections, or heard of. Maybe those guys can do something really good with some help; from the partner and/or a little pill. If their health allow the pill.
As I got older I wanted to keep the spark there and not have boredom set in. I typically have spent quite a time licking her out before my cock takes over. Hearing her strained sighs and whispered encouragement tells me I've hit the spot.
My wife says you can't beat experience. Young guys just don't do it well, but the two best "lickers" were me (because I learned what she liked" and a 65 year old Russian when she was 39.
Older guys learn how to have sex better through experience. When young we're dumb and just wanna cum. When old, we do as we're told. That's the key. She may not tell us explicitly but we have learned to listen to her body, take our time, and be gentle. That's all it really is. Older men know more about sex and life in general.
Because older people was raised to please there partners. The new generation only think of themselves.
The only true Domme I ever experienced initiated me by ordering me to strip and masturbate all the way to orgasm on the cold polished concrete floor of her living room, while she sat fully clothed in a chair studying my behavior. It took a while for me to let go of my inhibitions enough to forget about her cooly observing me like a scientist and just focus on the sensations that would lead to a very strong orgasm on that cold concrete floor. She then ordered me to clean up my mess, get dressed, and leave her house. I had no idea if I would ever see her again. A week later she called me on a Friday evening. She simply said, "Come to my place. I'm hungry". When I arrived shortly after dark, she was wearing a very humble and soft off-white pullover gown, not at all what I would expect from a Domme. Without a word, she led me into her living room, sat on the same chair she was sitting on the week before, lifted her gown, and spread her legs to reveal her bushy vulva. I knew exactly what I was to do, so with my knees on that cold floor, and with me fully clothed this time, I brought my face to her awaiting pelvis, paying very close attention to her breathing and vocalizations. This was a very long process, so eventually I put my jacket under my knees as a cushion. She was in charge, and I was to follow her instructions, even though those instructions were given in sighs and with signals she sent with her hands on my head. Months later, in an uncharacteristically candid moment, she told me that when she saw how I could set aside all distractions and arouse myself to a strong orgasm, she decided I could possibly do the same thing for her.
I absolutely love to have an older lover. They really know what they are doing and will spend so much time. I would love to feel that right now.
We older men are not so concerned with our performance as much as pleasing her! It is a simple enough concept to always want the woman to cum first and most of us like to make the experience last so we slow down, let our imagination guide us, and concentrate on her!
I licked out my first girlfriend as much as I could and it paid off. She fucked hard when she got excited so, my job was to get her hot to trot, and I was more than happy to give her a tonguing.
There may be some truth to this, although most older men have the finesse to take the approach and control their erections for when it matters the most with always taking the experience and patience to deliver the ultimate orgasm. ;-)
Younger guys just don’t have the experience of having had sex much. At that point they’re just fixated on “getting some”, and not really paying attention to the woman like they should. Now as we get older, we’ve had a lot more experience and we’ve had a lot of time to learn what our women like, and we love to please them and make them feel good so they keep wanting to come back for more.