How To Discreetly Hook Up With Another Married Guy

Sometimes you can get a sense right away - small talk about wives usually works! Good luck

 

I was in the optometrist office getting my eyes checked. It was just me and him in the dark as he checked my eyes. It became apparent he is gay as he started to lisp his words. He’s an attractive man, but I couldn’t bring myself to initiate anything sexual in our small talk.
I wish I had, it’s not like I would have to see him again if I were to be turned down.

 

Well, you probably won't believe me but I'm doing it for already 2 years. I hook up with a married guy since my husband started working 24/7 and I barely see him at home. To make everything discreetly I just have a second phone number Mightycall which works only when I turn it on. That's what helps me keep our relations secret.

 

garden grove here

 

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I’m a newly bi curious senior from Dutchess County NY. I’m searching but it’s not so easy to find another bi curious married guy who’s discreet, safe and sane. But I’m going to continue looking regardless.

 

That's just where I'm at. Sexless marriage, she is OK if I do oral with a bi guy. I've done it before, 12 years ago but unlike most, I'm in Australia and unlike most I don't want to proceed to anal. That narrows it down a lot.

 

I miss having another married guy as a regular. Most guys online seem to be flakes or just out to collect pics.

 

Comics rating with a guy about a lack of sex is a good start. Found a few that way

 

Is it just me who reads that as ridiculous?
It reads to me as though the guy must be gay because he had a lisp.

 

IT IS TOTALLY RIDICULOUS!

 

Back when Craigs List personals section was still around I connected with at least 35 married guys stuck in sexless marriages either searching for blowjobs or wanting to mutually suck cock in my area. It blew my mind how many were in my area wanting to suck dick. Being that I was in an all but sexless marriage at the time and found the many pleasures of sucking other guys cocks from time to time my area had an array of guys to choose from. We made quick chat, one or two replies with a cock photo attached and within the hour we were sucking each other off. I was connecting with guys having some of the sexiest cocks, big 7"-10" cocks and could not understand why their wives were not taking total ownership of that sexy piece of meat. Their refusal to pleasure it opened the door for me to pleasure it orally many times as I rarely ever turned down his request email for either just a blowjob or a mutual sucking session.

 

I guess I’m not sure what is being viewed here as being ridicules. When I went into the examination room with the optometrist his speech pattern did not include a lisp. As the exam proceeded it started to become more apparent. Is it that much of a stretch that he was the one initiating or communicating being gay? Not a judgment from me, merely an observation.

 

I get all of that. And I didn’t take it any farther than wondering and possibly hoping. In my mind very similar to you with a guy that came to your house to measure for countertops. Two professional men in their workplace. Ultimately neither of us acted on an attraction.
I would have thought by now given my history here most of you would not see me as judgmental. Quite the opposite I would hope. I in no way indicated that I was disparaging the man because of a lisp. Again, quite the opposite. I hoped, and thought he might have thought I was attractive too.

 

what part of Australia

 

south of Brisbane

 

be happy to help if you were even 100 miles from me.. CA/OR border area

why don't people put 'generalized' locations in generalized requests?