Wife Sharing - what type are you into?

I try to keep things exciting for hubby! I know what they Both Like! ❤

 

My wife used to. They WERE exciting times. What I'd give to go back and do it all again.
SC......do you like sweet tea?

 

Tea, sweetened with Southern Comfort! ❤

 

Are their likes much different? Do you have to significantly change up your game?

 

I like a wife I can trust that her husband knows she is with me not just sneaking around.....I don't want to be shot! Life is just to short as it is.........."Well"

 

I am not sure if I have a title. I am probably a stag, or maybe a cuck. I am 75 years old and am married to a 45 year old hot wife. I think she is anyway. But when we started datingf I was a weight lifter in the gym, with a goal of benching 405 LBS, thats 4 bells on each end of the bar on my 70th birthday. So My testosterone levels were through the roof and could have sex three or four times a day. Well on my 70th birthday I did not make the 405, I think it was 385 for 1 rep. Well in my disappointment I stopped going to the gym, and ofcourse my T levels started dropping and I no longer had the sexual desire as before although we still had sex 6 or 7 times a week but then I noticed Id loose my erection about 5 minutes into the act, I had talked with my wife about going into the lifestyle before but now I am not able to perform as well as before so I was reluctant, So my wife suggested a threesome and we loved it. I also found out I was bisexual and love that too. but anyway. we like to have a guy that we know come over and my wife tells me to pull out his dick and suck it up for her then we both eat her pussy and I suck him some more and so does my wife, then he will moont her dogge with me underneath to lick his balls and her clit while he fucks her. I know now I like sucking dick as much as eating pussy. But have no desire to meet a man alone to do it or do I want him to kiss me or anything like that, just the cock. I also love eating the cum out of her pussy and cleaning his cock/ So I am not sure whether I am a cocksucker, bisexual, pussy loving stag or cuck. but Id rather think all though I do get a little submissive to please ger I am very much an alpha male

 

Sounds more like a hotwife thing but sure, what's wrong if you're the whole cabinet of pigeon holes? lol
Not wanting to kiss him or meet a guy on his own, I suggest, means you're not bi. Nothing wrong with enjoying sucking a cock but it doesn't make you bi, any more than test-driving a car means you own it.

 

To the question. If you had to put a label on us ( and I don’t like labels) it would be “Lifestyler’s”. That said, we are non judgemental. We love being with consensual non monogamous couples, for the enhancement of sex pleasure. This is our sexual niche.
I do not share my wife… She gives herself freely She doesn’t share me… I give myself freely.

 

I think your relationship leans towards being poly. One limited to swinging and no emotional attachment beyond the sexual interludes.

I had a fuck buddy years ago who used me for sex because her husband wasn't interested as much as she was. He knew she was having sex with me but didn't know me personally. I think their relationship was on of a hot wife with me as the bull. Don't know for sure as I never asked what they did together sexually. It was just her and me having sex until she invited her GF to join us one day. After that we had a few threesomes and I met the GF a couple of times solo. It all ended when my FB and he husband moved away.

 

nothing wrong with that

 

Accept for the fact we do everything together. She nor I ever play apart. She is a beauty, but does want the label of a hot wife. Hence, we play together and play together.

 

We had a friend that lived with us for a couple years and some nights I would go to bed with him first and then go climb on top of hubby!
We had a Great arrangement!

 

We used to Rodeo and after the show there was this one Cowboy that was single and I would sometimes go to his trailer after the party had died down!
The thrill of others maybe knowing was a Huge Turn on!

 

We now live in very conservative Costa Rica so we are looking for a guy that will play with both of us and be our friend and actually to do things with us. My wife went to one of our neighbors house to do some hobbt crafting with a woman and her husband came over and eventually the conversation turned to sex, long story short, I ended up sucking his cock. I think he is worrued Ill tell my wife and my wife will tell her. I hate hiding things from her so not sure if i should tell her, If she finds out some other way she will regard it as cheating

 

if you have an open marriage then keep it open but keep your activities confidential. The way to keep it open is to be honest with your spouse. Case in point. My in-laws were swingers years ago. Without my FIL's knowledge or consent my MIL had sex with a co-worker. She neglected to inform FIL of the tryst even after. FIL found out so he decided to get some revenge sex. That led to a long separation and almost destroyed their family unit. They did reconcile but the damage to the family was done. You two may not have a family but keeping activities like this from each other can drive a wedge between you two. Own up to the fun you had with the neighbor and insure your spouse keeps the info between you, her, and him.

 

I did exactly that. In fact after I told her she went to our security cameras and viewed the entire thing and she thought it was hot. She wants to keep it a secret and have me invite him over again when she has gone to the store and do it again so we can watch it together again. She and I had great sex together after watching him blow his load down my throat on camera. She promises to never tell his wife, but we may eventually tell him and have wife just stay and watch

 

I am like you. No desire to see a guy alone, kiss him or alike but I LOVE licking his cum out of my gf's pussy, guiding his cock into her, lick his cock as it enters her and sometimes sucking him beforehand to feel him hard before he fucks her.

Twice I have sucked him to orgasm as he flipped out of her and both were exciting for all of us. There was a bit of submission in this which we all enjoyed.

 

Just a couple of further thoughts on this. I can see this becoming more than sex between you and him. Possibly a threesome or foursome, full swap, or other swinger activity depending upon his wifes disposition on recreational sex. You might have your wife drop subtle hints to his wife as the friendship goes while you enjoy having sex with him for a while. Just be prepared to end it if this becomes too risky with his wifes knowledge. Also it might be prudent to inform your new found penis owner of the recordings in a manner that is not alarming to him. That could be another issue you don't want to arise.

 

I am in Las Vegas. Would you like to get in touch?

 

Most women would love an arrangement like that. And if all are happy, all the better.