Straight or Bi?

I've just always hated labels. I have never pictured myself kissing another man but I have had a cock in my mouth and I've been in another man. I also use toys to pleasure myself. But that being said most if not all of my thoughts are about women. So I don't label myself I just am who I am

 

Agree strongly !!

 

My fb is bi. She is 5’6 135 jet black hair 34b and toned. She is divorced and 59. Fantastic is bed and sucks a great cock. She has had countless men and women and a great personality as well. She knows I am married and do have a fwb and other fbs. She is a flirt and cock and pussy tease. I find it a turn on when she tells me she needs it meaning my cock.

 

With my wife I was conditionally bi when she would bring a guy home, great times. After she passed things changed.
Not into an emotional thing with guys, just getting off

 

The OP may not be bisexual. One thing I noted in his post is that he is not interested in the male body. That also goes for most female bodies too. He is interested only in the trill of bringing it, the body, to orgasm. I cannot find a label that describes this orientation.

 

For me it was convenient to explore Bi, because I have no sex in my marriage at all. She let me go play but was never happy if it was a woman. I tried a few but found I had stage fright and couldn't perform well. I have always admired cocks but never find men attractive. I told her I'd like to find a guy to get relief with and she's fine with it. I am glad I explored bi activities, oral and masturbation with one or two just to get off with someone horny, with no messy relationship thing going on, just raw lust. Little cock, big cock it was all just as much fun. If I develop a friendly rapore with the guy, sucking his cock is such raw lust.

 

Friendly cock: i like your approach, wish i had your freedom

 

Why do you concern yourself with the pigeon-holes others want to put you in?

Be yourself!

In my opinion, there is absolutely no connection between being bisexual and a guy liking to play with cock.
In my opinion, a gay guy can play with pussy, in an exploratory way. That doesn't make him (or mean he is) straight.
A hetero guy can play with cock in an exploratory way which doesn't mean he's bi or gay.
It really doesn't and if other guys insist it makes him gay, it's they who are insecure about their own sexuality.

Unless there is cerebral connection it's nothing other than physical play.

I'm straight but I'd like to know, out of curiosity, what it's like to see another guy cumming; to feel him as he cums and to feel what it's like for him to wake me cum.
Nothing more than physical and educational.

 

I'm curious about those who liked this post because it says so much, nobody really knows what was being 'liked'.

Play with cock. Play with pussy. be man or woman or other. (Other is a stretch for me, to be truthful).

Be yourself; that's the only thing of importance. Forget branding. Forget branding in this subject and in your shopping too.

 

You had me at 59! That description of her has made me want to meet her!!

 

I hear you. My very first sexual play encounter way back was a friend and I pulled each other. I never even knew the terms bi or gay then. He had a veiny stiff 8.5 or so inches. It felt hot and throbbed as I moved his foreskin up and back for several minutes. He cupped his hand and caught his sperm as it shot out. I still love the feel and sight of it. I then held my clothes open, enjoyed the feeling and watched as he pulled me until I came. I did nothing more at all until I was 50 but it left me with a fascination for cocks.

 

I honestly don’t give a lot of thought to labels other than to communicate what I like sexually. Women are attractive to me, all of them. As said above their curves and lines are a work of art. With men it is more of a sexual desire thing. Sure I can kiss a man as a preamble to sex and get turned on by it. And it’s not that I don’t enjoy the company of some men, there are those that I do. I guess there are intricacies in my sexuality that are tough to pigeon hole. My sexuality has been a continuum, it has and continues to evolve over time. When I first started to exchange blowjobs with guys I never though I would want to be penetrated buy a man. And here I am several years later having enjoyed that.

 

So are you saying that if someone has a big cock and they're either bi or gay that they "must" be a top?
I'm 7"c and fairly thick (which isn't exactly small), yet I'm a bottom with guys and that will never change. I've never had the desire to top another guy as I'm a total bottom

 

I can only say that I have fucked two guys, one was while his wife watched and a little later I fucked her. I have never really been satisfied in guys much happier with women

 

Your the man, that must have been an unforgettable event !!

 

When I was fucking him I gave him a hand job his wife was loving it

 

This is not necessarily true. Although I'm not gay, I am a bisexual bottom guy. I'm not "small" by any means at 7"c and fairly thick.
My wife's boyfriend however is considerably larger than me (he's almost 9"and really THICK). After watching and hearing all about how good his dick is, I would gladly bottom for him too if the opportunity ever presented itself

 

I would say if you enjoy pleasuring guys, then at minimum you're bisexual

 

I don't find men attractive like I do women. I will say that I'm damn near addicted to sucking dick and am quickly becoming a fan of being bent over and fucked. But if i'm out at walmart getting groceries, I DO NOT check out men. I consider myself bisexual.

 

Just because a gay or bisexual guy has a "big" (or huge) cock DOESN'T mean he has to be a top with other men.
I'm 7"c and fairly thick, yet I'm a total bottom with guys.
Would I prefer the man I'm bottoming for to have a bigger cock than me? Yes, most likely, but I'd gladly bottom for a guy with a smaller cock than me if there was mutual attraction.
My own cock size is totally irrelevant in the fact that I'm a total bottom with men.