Boyfriend says toys = cheating

Discussion in 'Sex Toys' started by Deathpotion5, Jul 15, 2014.

  1. Bocci

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    Hmm. I suppose if the toy is being used as a substitute for, and is displacing, your partner for sexual activity, then perhaps they could perceive it as “cheating”. If it’s an enhancement or addition to your regular activities with your partner then maybe you could kindly explain and demonstrate that to them.
    Another one of my many blessings: when my wife wants the type of release she gets from her “rabbit-type” vibrator, it means I’m getting one hell of a show and an amazing BJ at the same time.
     
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  2. CoupleXX

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    Our home made noodle has made her scream, orgasm literally 10 us minutes and. Learned to love cervical orgasms. Mmmmmm. Me too
     
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  5. CoupleXX

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    Plus nothing hotter than seeing oversized (foam) toy disappear I. A tiny stretched hole. Mmmm
     
  6. CoupleXX

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    Usually only 6"-7". Generally the thicker a tool is typically can't go as deep. Sometimes we keep trying thou. Lol
     
  7. CoupleXX

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    You like looks of it?
     
  8. Pard71

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    Didn't realize the original date on the original post.
    Pick of the girl in panties with the dildo looks hot though.
     
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  9. Justfun4

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    I have bought every toy my wife has. I love her to use them and especially love to use them on her!!!
     
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    Similar to ^^^^^^^ I’ve had 4 LTRs starting way back in college continuing to this day. I purchased several toys for each. The first 3 would use them alone, let me watch, or I’d use them on them. Wife now says she’s NEVER masturbated either with or without toys. But she had no problem with me using them on her, and her using them on me.
     
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  11. Princess Autumn

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    Not cheating at all…. Would only be cheating if you were having your neighbor use the toy on you while you were giving him head. Now that would be cheating.
     
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  12. TimNu

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    This is an old thread and the OP never reported how it worked out, but I have grave concerns about anyone whose logic is so warped that they think masturbating with a toy is cheating. Apparently, according to her, he was otherwise a great guy, but I could never, ever trust his judgement on anything. I’m still shaking my head.
     
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  13. Andy Schumer

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    I can’t resist twisting this one for a giggle
    Since you and I are not neighbours it would not be cheating
     
  14. hitman73

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    He's a knob head. He just needs to chill out. There's nothing wrong with what you're doing.
     
  15. jimandjan

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    If it's a huge dildo, just don't give it a name same as former lover.
     
  16. topper

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    She should name it like old bf. Maybe it will wake this idiot up when she sticks it in his ass.
     
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  17. KDaddy23

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    Toys = cheating? What kind of backward assed shit is that? I guess he said that masturbation was evil, too... idiot.
     
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  18. Jenna1995

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    Masturbating with a toy (especially big dildos) is training or a backup plan when the weather is too bad to meet up!
     
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  19. Tonynewyork6969

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    I have bought and incorporated into our activities various toys for my partners. My fwb enjoys a rabbit and dildo and anal beads. My fb enjoys a multitude of toys and I just bought her a clitoral stimulator which looks like a tulip and has various speeds. She loves it and uses it at all speeds! She is bi and has a gym bag of toys. The more variety we introduce results in a much more enhanced experience and with others as well it makes them more satisfied and comfortable and at the end of the day more sex with me!
     
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    Definitely not cheating and keep enjoying
     
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