Have you ever been in a threesome?

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  1. Lovnflman

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    YES.....MFMs Several with the same close friend. Sadly will never have a FMF.
     
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  2. Toecutter

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    Yes and greatly recommended
     
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  3. Python 8

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    But it can be a real workout . Not enough to make me not participate if the opportunity arises again though .
     
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  4. Goander

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    Yes. Twice with the same couple.
     
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  5. HollyMG

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    Yes with my wife and a pre operative MTF transsexual,this was a year ago
     
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  6. Scharff

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    Why is two better than three? Too much going on? I've never been interested in being in a threesome with another buy until lately but it would be fun to see the difference between two girls or two guys.
     
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  7. jimandjan

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    There are threesomes, and then there are threesomes. We never had many threesomes, but it was hard to find ones, where every body was comfortable. Our best one was where we talked it over before hand. and all agreed.
     
  8. Ray Roberts

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  9. Ray Roberts

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    I have been lucky enough to be involved in a few MFM's however, only one FMF which was with a fairly new girlfriend who asked if she could bring a friend next time, I had met the recent girlfriend at a dance which she attended with her friend, both nurses and living in a nurses home. She stayed with me in my country cottage over two weekends and it was after the second weekend that she asked if she could bring her friend. They were both Irish and different in body shape, both were great dancers! Grace was tall and skinny, Kitty, the friend, was small and possessed a pair of huge Tit's so I readily agreed. What a busy time I had trying to keep up with these two nymph's a great and memorable time was had by all, I was absolutely knackered, but the drained-out feeling was a pleasant one. The relationship didn't last long but Grace did produce a baby who she insisted was mine!
    My next experience was after a move to London and through a swingers magazine I joined a couple, however the supposed MFM turned to be a desire of the husband to watch another stud fucking his wife. I found this strange as he didn't participate in any way and remained clothed. They invited me to join another lover of hers for a MFM but I decided not to do this, but I did hitch-up with other couples, but all were much the same experience with hubby playing a watching role only.
    Moving on after two failed marriages I hooked up with an Asian girl 10 years younger than me. I was still interested in more than just vanilla sex so we joined a couple swingers scene, however this was largely unsuccessful as my new partner got extremely jealous of my actions with the other wives or at least the female partners and we always ended up arguing on the way home! We stayed together and now 44 years later we remain together. After two children and now living in a new country I brought up the subject of trying a MFM by advertising for a hung stud. I put an advert in a swingers magazine which had a variety of mixes, with a picture of her nude in silhouette, seeking male studs, we had a huge response of nearly 200! I picked the guys with the biggest dicks, well I wanted something different and my wife wanted nothing to do with the selection. I reduced the possible's to five and then picked the facially ugliest to have as our chosen third. Well I was pretty certain of our relationship but I wasn't going to take any chances!
    He turned out to be a great third he was good at oral, massage and always willing to please my wife in any way, he showered her with gifts and always turned up when asked. He had a 9" thick cock say no more! we met about a dozen times over eighteen months as he lived 350 k away from us but visited our town on business, he was married but never spoke about his family to us. In that time we tried most things that a threesome could do with a MFM grouping. This was easily the most erotic liaison I have ever been involved with, my wife played out all my fantasies and often took the lead when things stalled and I have to say she amazed me at how easily she took his size being such a small lady herself. Most of our sessions meant we the men took turns and dumped at least three times over a four hour time span.He moved oversea's Bugger! I had a pile of video's and pictures which I used to watch, better than any professional porn! A few years ago my wife had a clear out of junk and she included all my pile of sexy pic's, all ended up on a bonfire, she was always worried about disclosure and more importantly the kids finding out what Mum and Dad got up too. Such a pity.
    So all you guys who criticise MFM I say don't knock it until you have tried it, ours was more a "Wife sharing" arrangement than a "Cuckold" one but all none vanilla sex has a place in relationships and to be a loving partner one has to accept the reality that other guys may have better equipment than yourself to please your partner.
     
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  10. BigBlackSack01

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    Yup, 3 times. All MMF.
     
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    Paragraphs are a reader's best friend. Without them, we are looking at a wall of words.
     
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  12. Ray Roberts

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    Is this comment directed at me? I think 5 para's in a page of writing is adequate. People who try to gain admiration from critiquing others submissions need to think twice. This is an everyman's forum and not an English lesson!
    Showing some tolerance for others writing style is something you might consider before pressing the send button.
    I have long since passed the stage of being told what to do. "Yes Sir" is history and I will continue to live with my inadequacies.
     
  13. ~Zen~

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    Don't worry, some of us can't even spell properly, especially from a cell phone.

    Thanks for sharing your experiences!
     
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  14. jimandjan

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    We have heard some good stories from other couples how they got into swinging. I like this.
     
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  15. BigBlackSack01

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    Yes, twice - both MMF
     
  16. Scharff

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    As much fun as 4 sounds, it seems like a whole bunch of work!
     
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  17. MikeBD

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    I was in one with a former girlfriend and her female friend. They both interacted too. It actually happened the day before I met my wife. that said, it was more then 25 years ago. With my wife, we tried to set up a threesome on different occasions, but we never made it to the end for different reasons each time.
     
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  18. SR9

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    Once but I don’t know if you would count it haha.

    It was years ago, before I was married. I was on vacation and booked a couple of very specific escorts
     
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  19. Scharff

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    It's funny how complicated it can get. So my newer FWB is very active sexually. She has a nasty boyfriend but she has sex with him a lot. She sees an older man and she helps him masturbate. She sees a cop once in a while. She sees me. Prob a few others here and there. I know she has given oral to a couple of men she just met over the summer for the fun of it. She gladly gives details and wants me to share details when I hook up with my other FWB or if I get an adult massage or if I meet a new girl and get some. We have a mutual friend who would love to join us. That she doesn't want. She would take a stranger in bed before a friend and she doesn't really want me to do her friend by myself. A little jealousy maybe. More like she is afraid of ruining the relationships. Or straining them. But she did say that if we found the right girl and she didn't know her, but like her, she'd be open to a threesome. Neither one of us has ever formally done three. Hope it works out.
     
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  20. Ray Roberts

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    You hit the nail on the head COMPLICATED ! say no more, wink, wink
     
  21. Norfolkjames

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    A few years back with my ex and a female work colleague. Had a couple of sessions just to see. Best sex I've had.
     
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