Does kissing make gay sex more erotic

After discreet limited "oral only" experiences, I met a guy on an adult encounter site, as he reached out asking if I were bi..Being we both had our profiles as "straight" and the fact I was very discreet, I was reluctant to admit that I had experience, but after chatting we confessed to mutual admiration for each other's packages lol We chatted a few times and finally decided we both wanted to meet/play...Another week of chatting and we gathered the nerves to meet as our cravings were driving us mad..He met me at my building, my roommate happened to be away so it was a window of hosting opportunity, came up, we smoked, put some gay porn on the laptop and let things flow..Long story short (too late I know) We are locked in a frot, and he said something, and I looked up and we immediately locked in a tongue on tongue slathering hot masculine kiss, we were both shocked and so turned on we couldn't stop..It was electric..Words cannot describe it..Unfortunately the few guys I've kissed since have been lackluster, but I know with the right man what it can be...I still love and date women as well but I'll admit, its something I NEVER thought I'd be into but being naked with another naked man in your lap locked in an alpha masculine kiss is something I crave again..

 

There seems to be an overwhelming amount of support for guys kissing each other during sex! What I get is as long as you're with a good kisser it takes the sexual enjoyment to a deeper level. And I'm all for that! And I also get those who are willing and able to kiss tend to be better lovers overall.
As for kissing making the experience gay or more gay, I am willing to embrace the gay and cross all fine lines deep into gay territory if it means greater enjoyment being together with a same sex lover.

 

My first time kissing another guy was not my first time with another guy. I was fucked, and gave head and swallowed, but still had not kissed a guy. I met up once for what I thought would be a bj swap. He grabbed me strongly and kind of forced a kiss on me before we started. I resisted a bit then gave in. My dick got hard faster than it ever had before! It was so erotic for me. I always said I didn't want to kiss another guy, but I was so glad he did that to me. The next time I was being fucked, I made sure it was missionary so I could kiss him. WOW....it definitely adds to the experience.

 

That sounds hot but i never kiss another guy when being with a guy ! Just love sucking his cock and him mine!

 

I find kissing before, during and after sex a real turn on. I was married 10 years and still date women. However I lust for a man to be sexual with as well so I consider myself to be bisexual. With that said you must know deep down that having sex with another man is a homosexual act. Whether you identify you sexual actives as homosexual, queer, fag, faggot, gay or bisexual is a term that you feel most comfortable using.

 

If I could suck my own dick I would not have an overriding desire to have sex or suck another mans dick.

 

It has been almost four years since I posted this. Since then I have embraced kissing as a welcome addition to all of the activities (sucking, licking,fucking) that we engage in. It is really erotic and a Hugh turn on. I especially enjoy cum soaked French kissing.

 

I love kissing as part of sex. Doesn't mean I'm in love. It's a lustful act wrestling tongues during the heat of hot sex.

 

Amen!

 

Very true it is a homosexual act. I will admit that I like homosexual sex

 

Probably, if your into it. I will suck my friends cock and let him suck mine, but kissing is out. I dont like guys

 

I'm glad you have an answer, if you are into it you are into it. If you started out just having sex because that was the turn on so be it.
That's how I feel but haven't tried. I'm not attracted to tmen in a sense but might try some stuff.
I'm not a passionate kisser anyway.

Agreed, just because we get turned on by some things it doesn't mean we want to make out but everyone loves a BJ and some people like sucking cocks.

I haven't tried but I am only interested in testing the waters , happy to skip kissing and try sex.
Trying sex with a hay guy doesn't make you gay, it's experimenting and trying it because it turns you on. Maybe it's a Gay act but maybe you never repeat it or date men.

I want to try some sexual acts but unlikely I'm ever going to identify as Gay, I will accept it for what it is if I let a guy fuck me it's up to me if I want to identify as Gay or pursue the lifestyle.

Anyone want to fuck a straight guy

 

Yes…

 

I did let a guy kiss me once well it was more then once....lol and it was intense for him especially when he sucked my tongue as if it was my cock.......he did kiss my whole body and must admit it did feel good at parts of my body! .............lol

 

For the first 20 years I was bicurious and most of my fantasies which over time evolved into pretty intense guy/guy sex but kissing was always a no go in fantasy. Then one day I saw porn where guys were in the missionary position and kissing and I’ve been turned on to the idea every since but the one time I was actually with a guy I never even thought about it because it was a quick hookup and it was only oral. I definitely think though that in the right scenario it’s really hot and an addition to sex with a guy.

 

Yes, it does. Never even wanted to, but had been blowing a guy a few months. He used to like to sit and chat a bit after we finished, usually on the couch in their family room. Started by kissing my chest and neck. Then one day his mouth is on mine. I pulled back at first, but then got into it. Hot, open mouth kisses. He got hard again and I ended up blowing him again. First time we'd ever done it twice. It felt so intense, even passionate.

 

I been with guys who don't want to kiss and accept it, but I can't reconcile being ok with a guys cock in my mouth and not willing to kiss him. I find the whole experience much more erotic when it includes foreplay like kissing and making out.

 

it will and shld be part of it, sex w/o a kiss isn't really sex

 

Good for you! I'm so happy that you found the joys of kissing and the intimacy that brings. I love it myself, but only when the guy is a good kisser. Yes, I believe it makes the sex we are having more gay. But that is what I am looking for now, ever since finally inserting my cock into another man's ass for the first time 8 years ago. Before that, for 21 years it was just about a guy's cock. But rimming and finally fucking let me finally embrace, accept, and love that gay part of myself. So it's no longer just about the genitals, I'm looking for more all around intimacy with a guy, and that includes sensual kissing, even sucking each other's tongues. Sex with guys is now so much more all around enjoyable, with the right guy. It took me a LONG time to accept my bisexuality, despite sucking more than 200 cocks. Now I love that feeling of gayness. I still haven't had romantic feelings for a guy, but I'm open to that if it happens. But just making physical love with another man in every way is now wonderful.

 

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Have you ever been fucked? What is it like?

I'm just hoping for random hookups to explore M2M sex, nothing serious, try some sucking and fucking give and receive to say I've tried it. Welllbat least to myself to satisfy myself I tried it for the experience.