Would you cheat with a married woman?

No, because I would not want the same happening in my marriage.
However, she had threesomes so being a decent guys would go a long way to getting an invitation.
Betrayal of trust is one of the worst things you can do to another persons heart

 

Never, no exceptions.

 

This is EXACTLY how I feel about it.

 

If you don't, someone else will is the way I always looked at it, so why deny myself.

 

I already mentioned I met some married women. One I met as single but she could be attached but I didn't care.
For me, it's not about the fact a woman is married or attached. It's more about the fact is that she wants sex and pleasures,.
I get to give her what she desires and needs, I get my needs met too.
Yes, a woman deprived at home is great company. I have to admit some single women too. Recently single and wanting sex, hot and fun.

 

I honestly don't see any problem being "the other guy or gal". Either spouse A is not satisfying spouse B either physically or emotionally, or Spouse B is just a cheater and nothing is going to change that. In my younger single days I was having a sexual affair with a co-worker who was engaged. Co-workers knew the guy she was engaged to before I ever started working there. She was the one who hit on me. Everybody at work knew we were fucking. Her mom, who also worked there, knew we were fucking. I got on great with her mom. He was the kind of guy who used to open her mail and all that bullshit. BEFORE I came along. I couldn't tell you if she cheated on him with somebody before me. My understanding is that she wasn't happy with his bullshit so I was a fun distraction. She ended up marrying somebody else.

 

When you catch 2 women in long term relationships cheating on you and feel the pain then you just might think about the guy she is cheating on. But then again maybe not.

 

It would be impossible for us to "cheat" in the traditional sense as we are in an open marriage. At the end of the day, I love my wife and whatever activity she is engaging in to make her happy, I am happy. If she was fucking a guy and the sex was meh, I would encourage her to find another man. It is not just the turn on factor. If I am thinking about my wife, naked in bed with another man and she is crying out in ecstasy because he is giving her the fuck of her life, then she deserves that awesome feeling. My wife and I sleep together every night.

 

I hear you. I too am in such a relationship but she would tell me first and I would tell her before acting with another person in sex. That's what we agreed to. But my previous relationships were more traditional and cheating was taboo.

 

Have several times, and they were hitting on me, never had to seek them. Was having sex with a girl one night. Out no where she says; If Kyle could see me now. I asked would Kyle was, and she said her husband.

 

1000% yes. I don't see the issue with it frankly.

 

Yes indeed.
So much fun.
And he has no idea what his loving wife is up to while he is a continent away...

 

In the swinging swapping world most couples give each other a hall pass. Technically it’s not cheating if they all know. I seen it at our favorite resort. One woman we know very well has a hall pass from her husband to go be with whoever she choose. And she does. He does as well.

 

I have been side ass several times. Usually the husband gets used to a sexy wife and stops paying attention to her.

 

From my experience the husbands are often controlling or have just stopped caring. In both cases I wasn't the first person, other than their husband they'd been with. They are also still happily married. The sex is very intense and I think there is a good deal of getting back at their husband, even if they never know.

 

This is exactly how it was with the woman I was with. Exactly.

 

She is horny!

 

In my younger days I fucked a few married / attached women .
My thinking at the time was I wasn’t doing anything wrong .
I’m single what they do is upto them .

Once I got a bit older obviously I realised that wasn’t the case and my thought changed on the subject

 

One thing is for sure and if not for you, then they'll find another, so not like there wouldn't be any infidelity taking place if not for you.
And the same for the one who services these wives and for finding a willing participant.
Funny how it's so easy for finding a wife to fuck and for not being so easy in finding someone's GF for play.
Least ways, it was always that way with me.
Funny how that works, eh?

 

Cay and I hook up with married women quite often. Look I have bad new for some people, your girl gets horny too and if you don’t give her the attention that she needs, she’ll get it from someone else and you’ll never know. We both have tender profiles and we are up front and honest with the women that we chat with before we meet, I let them know that I have a bi wife and Cay tells them that she has a husband that joins in. Lots of middle age soccer moms fantasize about having their clit licked buy another woman while being fucked doggy style. Besides life is short, it’s ok to have at least one affair and keep it your own secret too the grave.