Jumping back to being "On Topic", my situation with my wife of 40 years is Stag/Vixen. Which basically is MFM. (Note: if the F is in the middle of a MFM, it's a hetero experience. If one of the M's is in the middle it's a bi thing between the two men). We tried the traditional Swinging (MFFM with the women going bi) but because of the rural area we live in, it was hard to find couples we didn't know. We had to keep the secret because of our jobs. I suggested to the wife a 3some with another guy. She agreed as long as she picked the guy from who I would vet. This meant several e-mail correspondence with the other male. If he was patient and sent clothed pics of himself for the wife to view, he generally made the cut. The wife was/is choosy. No hanging bellies, no massive tattoos, and she preferred a male outside her own ethnicity and no condoms. This Stag/Vixen arrangement worked well from the beginning. The other male (Buck) knew his role as having intercourse with the wife, eventually climaxing inside her. As Stag I knew this would happen and I would complete my role by reclaiming my wife by immediately coupling with her and depositing my own seed in her. In effect replacing the Bucks seed. The psychological side of this is that I see my wife as so sexually desirable that she can get two men to cum inside her. One a complete stranger and the other her husband.
Agreed, the visual. It like watching a porn video. Witnessing her doing something extremely naughty. Watching her willingly spread for and take another man's cum.
Like my wife she calls the shots.....I don't mind it a bit. As for keeping it a secret well that's pretty hard to do! Some of our closes friends hit on my wife right away and my wife being a very picky women brushed them off right away!
My wife in her fifties often gets hit on by much younger guys then her some in their early thirties and she brushes them off but there are times she can't resist and gives them what they want and enjoying it also!.....and why not......
If sharing her with a guy, I'm now into a guy with a massive cock which she loves anyway. As for looks im not bothered. She prefers a decent handsome face and a muscular guy who can chuck her about the bed a bit. As for a woman, it is never my choice. I take it when my wife gets the feeling, lol.
I wouldn't be into the whole cuckold thing. I just want my wife to fuck whomever she wants (men or women). She was only with one more man before me and hasn't been with a woman yet. I'm not even concerned about watching or joining in, just knowing she is enjoying herself is good enough. Of course if got some hot bi guy to play with I would want some of that action.
I would say we fit in somewhere between cuckold and hot wife. This suits us fine and we both enjoy our playtime.
While we were having our MFMs my wife knew she could have sex with anyone she wanted. I talked to our friend about meeting her at a beach half way between our states for a weekend......just the two of them. He was all for it, and when I suggested it to my wife she didn't say no, just that she'd think about it. She eventually said no, and both me and our friend were really disappointed. He eventually wrote her a very detailed romantic email, describing all the things they could be doing together. I think it peaked her interest more, but she still declined. Since we've been married, he's the only other guy she's been with. I wish she'd add to her list!
I'm with you in his one. Ie the stag Buck thing. I love seeing the other guy fucking and cumming in her and then having sex with her immediately afterwards. The best thing ever.
I love that feeling as I slide in , feeling her open and slippery from his semen and her pussy opened up deep inside, knowing that's where he came. Just the best.
When it does finally happen, it will full swap foursome for us. Same room. We want to be together and watch the excitement build. I’m not just sharing her, we are sharing each other with another couple.