Women with a Sex drive bigger than a Man's....

There was a brief period in our married life when I was under tremendous pressure at work to solve a difficult problem, and I could not get in the mood for sex. At the same time, my wife was undergoing all kinds of flirting and sexual talk in her job. As a result, when the weekend came, she was ready for sex and I wasn't. Fortunately, that only lasted a few months, but it was definitely a time when her sex drive was stronger than mine.

 

No you're fine. I'm told my libido is higher than my bfs too, which is why I have a lot more sex than him but it's normal, welcome to the club lol.

 

Nothing freaky about a woman having a higher libido than a man.
I don’t think it’s gender related

 

Actually sex drive level is gender related. Men produce higher amounts of testosterone, the sex hormone. Women have less testosterone but more estrogen. Both genders have a certain amount of both hormones and depending on how much testosterone is produced in the body regulates the sex drive. So women who produce higher amounts of testosterone have a higher sex drive. But overall men produce more of the sex hormone which makes them higher in the need for sex.

 

My wife's libido cycle is one quick orgasm every 14 days. Been like that for 20 years. I had an on-line married female friend who liked to masturbate to orgasm at least twice a day. I think I was just fantasy fodder for her but I really did enjoy helping her getting off so it was win - win.

 

My ex wife hit a sexual peak, 3 yrs ago at age 40, that could compare to a guy's in his early 20's. She looks at porn all day on her phone and is into some things now that I tried for years to get her into

 

That’s awesome. I hope mine gets like that. I think she will, in our 20’s we had some good times.

 

That's unusual but not unheard of. My spouse did the same as she began menopause. She had so much want it was rather difficult to keep up. Some women when reaching menopause tend to crave sex more because the fear of pregnancy has passed.

 

Well in my case we decided to split 3 yrs ago. She immediately found her next love (boyfriend) and it seems thats when the peak began. THEN...9 months later...guess what happened ???

 

If you have a scratch you have to itch it. Find a good itches who knows how to scratch.

 

Yeah it's awesome...only problem is we split up when the peak started so some other guy has been getting the benefits lol. Well, I still get them on the side from her too...shhhh

 

Who are you having a lot more sex with if not your bf?

 

I have other partners He knows, dw

 

So you're saying you know an itcher for your scratches?

 

Trust me baby,I'm pretty sure your sexual appetite isn't as big as mine.But I understand your situation,I too always feel like a pervert or something constantly wanting to have sex and blowjob's,so to answer your question, for me yeah .

Rust

 

You your appetite is higher than A man's, not all men. You just have to find THE right man. I know my ex and I were very compatible on the sex end. We continually had sex daily if we were able. All she had to do was drop her panties, and like a dog, I was down on it. Licking and sticking for all I was worth. All I had to do was tell her to show me a picture. That ment drop her panties, bend a little, spread her lips and it was on.

 

That would be nice!!

 

I had several partners in my life and always thought that men by definition have stronger desires.
Until I got a new neighbour for a while some years ago.
Her desires were definitely much stronger than mine. And she looked great.
We had great sex together for several months, most often triggered by her.
One time, she even called me in office whether I can visit her immidiately. Of course I did
Another time we were out for some simple dining. At some point she became nervous and wanted to leave immidiately.
We didn't reach home. She unwrapped me while driving and it happened then all in car.
Unfortunately she was a difficult person regarding some other aspects (not money). Not sure whether that's linked to her intense desires.
Some day she oriented towards other men and I met somebody else, more reliable, to whom I'm married now.
But it remains an exciting memory

 

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Humans are humans. I have discovered thru my life that women's sex drives are about the same as mens. Many women are just stuck in the so called social constraints of how they should act. And acting out how they feel about sex would single them out and label them as a slut or whore. The women I have known (well many of them) say they don't give a fuck what others think, they will do what they want when they want it.

 

I have only once ever met somebody that could keep up with me in bed and that didn't end well, but not because of that. Rather I think she just wasn't ready emotionally to take it to the next level, and I don't blame her for that. In any case, these days (I'm 40 now), it's pretty much nothing, ever. And that's more frustrating than anything but I digress... I would have been over the moon to have found a woman that loves it as much as I do and stuck around. And I don't think it's weird at all for a woman to have a higher sex drive.

I just think a lot of men are super insecure and believe a woman like that would probably not be satisfied with them alone. And to be honest, as an individual with the same proclivities, were I in such a relationship, I'd be happy to invite others, just for fun lol! I hear stories like this about dudes that don't like it as much as their woman and it blows my mind. I always think, well she's too good for you, send her my way! Haha!

 

I've had women that we'd fuck for an hour and then I would cum, and 5 minutes later she's ask, "want to go again?" That's insane.