I so badly want to let my wife know i'm bi but i know she wont take it well. Im pretty sure she knows i have bi leanings. Added to this i belong to a faith that doesnt accept lgbtq2i people.
I know it is hard, but some things are better left unsaid. Treat you M2M encounters like any other activity you’d have with your men friends, whether it be golf, or playing cards or riding motorcycles, it’s an activity you enjoy. Leave it at that
Would love to be able to be open with my wife about my bi side. But I'm pretty sure it would change her feelings for me irrevocably, and not for the better, so won't happen. But in an ideal world she'd know and we could both see others on the side.
No I came clean w everything and it was Some very bad times for a long time thing are still not the same
Came clean before I got married to my wife. We have shared a couple men. Not recently but she knows I’ll occasionally get a blowjob from a guy. I’ll let her know. She’s bi too. So it’s a win win for me.
My wife created bi in me. She wanted to peg me for so long and I said no. Then one night I let her. I phukkin loved it. She got all weird and quit doing it. Won't do it. Now I fantasize about having a real cock but I know it won't ever happen.
She maybe quit pegging you because you didn’t move on to adding a third to your relationship. Maybe ?
I came clean to my wife and told her everything. She's actually happy that I told her since she kinda figured it out. She encourages me to keep going and she accepts me for who I am.
My wife knows. While she is alive I believe coming out publicly would draw more unwanted questions, eyebrows, attention and embarrassment she'd rather avoid, if we were to split, or she were to pass before me, I would consider having a more hinted or implied bi footprint either with some friends and or on social media, but for now, closeted to all but wife, sister(gay), and best man of my wedding (now a woman). I want to live unapologetically bisexual, but society isn't quite ready for that. I will add that it is always a tremendous weight to get off ones shoulders, if its a secret to someone you know, like a family or friend.
I thought my wife would not be attracted to me anymore when I told her I am bi I was so wrong and am very glad I told her.
Its good to come out....... Being able to love the same gender is so beautiful in todays aweful world....
Rob, if they "don't accept LGBTQ people", by definition, you don't belong. I hope you find space where you do belong; and a tribe who loves you for who you are; not for the arbitrary labels Society stamps on our foreheads.
