try getting a vibrator and start it on the low setting on the clit.. or get your boyfriend to just spend time lying between your legs and gently licking the clit.. get him to increase the pressure after a little while.
Sometimes you have to give a guy a map to find where you want him to go. But the journey can be fun. Good luck.
I like when a woman guides me to the places she wants me to go. Verbally please, unless you want me licking the X on the map.
I we tried and I can’t stand the vibration we found the clit but I just can’t Handle it being touched
I hope so we tried 3 different times and I keep getting upset and make him stop Am I a bad girl friend?
Hey love as a fellow heavy set woman. Let me tell you masturbation is going to be your best friend. You need to be relaxed and explore your body the more comfortable you are with yourself the better it will be with your boyfriend. Your body is perfect it just need to be explored.
I have tried at least 10 times but it just feels so weird I get this weird feeling and that’s when I stop
Ok I officially give up I’ve watched porn videos I’ve tried so many times to masterbate I used vibrators and dildos I just can’t get into it idk y
You need to experiment, try different things. Hand held shower massage. Tell yourself its normal to masturbate. From childhood some have be told it's wrong, but its natural.
Here's the reality: not every woman likes clit stimulation, and some really don't like it and much prefer other forms of stimulation, whether direct vaginal penetration or anal penetration only. Sometimes women just have very sensitive clits to the point that stimulation is more painful or uncomfortable than pleasurable and they never get over that. That's not a bad thing, it's just who and how they are, and they find other things to try instead. Try nipple stimulation, external anal stimulation, anal penetration, etc. You'll find things that you like.
