Yes, very true. But I also thinks it helps to MAKE a connection where there might not be one already.
Angela - Now I'm weak in the knees. I'm thinking of a tropical island, after dark, with warm breezes. Stars out, moon up, and candles all around on a private terrace. Champagne in a bucket of ice. Connect. Connect. Connect. Connect...………………….
If that's the setting, most likely we already have a connection. I'm thinking of a dark road, comfortable car front seat, soft music, a hard cock, and an everlasting explosion of the savory treat.
For me it feels as if I have finished what I started, it gives me a sense of completeness, and I also know that for many, but not all, men it is a real thrill for them when a woman swallows.
It certainly gives me a thrill and a sense of completeness, when ejaculating into a lady's mouth and for watching her swallow. Especially if she's naked, down on her knees and fondling my balls, while doing so. Interested?
So my wife and I messed around with another couple one night and it ended with my wife sucking the other husband and his wife sucking me. My wife swallows, his doesn’t but my wife and I didn’t know that. So right before the guy was about to cum he told my wife to stop real quick because he was about to cum, but like a champ she just kept going. At the point I was ready to go too but his wife stopped and pulled away so I sat there just hanging. I had my wife take over and finish me off. Later the other wife said she can’t do it, she said she wishes she could but whenever her husband cums in her mouth she seriously throws up. Her husband later told me without his wife present that I was a very lucky guy, and it really made me think about the fact that there’s a lot of women who refuse to swallow which is totally fine. I’m just happy to have lucked out on it.
To me, if a lady wants to take a guy's cum in her mouth, it's her ultimate acceptance of him. Without words, it's like she's saying "I want ALL OF YOU, including your most inner essence." I've read articles by women who say they can't feel a guy's cum in their vagina like they can when he explodes in their mouth. Not the pulsing part - but the cum explosion itself. And that's what the women in the article said they LOVE. They said they love all the sensations of the guy getting harder, pulsing and throbbing, and then exploding. It's VERY endearing to me, and probably most guys, when a woman welcomes the cum in her mouth. It's a deliberate action she takes to pleasure the guy because she wants to. I like it when I explode in her mouth and she lets some of it dribble down my shaft as she keeps licking up & down to get it all and clean me. "What honey?? You want me to use my fingernails to dig a swimming pool in the back yard?? YES DEAR !!! "
And some women don't enjoy watching college football games. You have to be selective in who you choose to date!
Give me a lady who's an oral expert and loves cum! A woman who's very willing and craving for a smooth, clean cock to tease & pleasure. I'll make sure she's licked into spasms, - quivering, and shaking.
I think it’s a bit of both. I know men love it but it turns me on too. Sometimes I spit, sometimes swallow.