How severe do you like it?

i'm starting to worry, glen. have you been checked for narcolepsy?

 

fucken alpha

 

I love it, but probably not as hard as most. Hard enough for redness bu that's about it

 

Hi,

I think for me it depends on the mood, of both me and the person spanking, how recently I have been spanked hard and how horny I am. For instance, if I have been spanked 3-4 evenings in a row, by the last night I am so horny I can take a really hard spanking and really enjoy it on a sexual level. I do enjoy a hard spanking (paddle, cane, loopy cane, paddle with holes) without the long lead up but its more psychological than sexual I think (although nearly always leads to sex) Whilst not tried it yet I love the idea of a cold caning, with no warm up. then over the knee for a long hard paddling to tears.

 

For me just hard enough that it really stings. But no broken skin - that would be too hard.

 

I love it hard and long with all implements and all on bare!

 

I find that after a long hard flat hand spanking,my butt can't feel the pain after a while but it still feels great. After a few changes of implements it is usually a heavy strap or tawse that makes me feel it again. Anyone else find that happens to them too?

 

I have definitely found a hard hand spanking, which initially feels like pain, tends to dissipate and starts to feel good.

 

My first spanking was when I was 27. It was a guy who advertised as a professional spanker and CP giver. I phoned him,went to his house and I got it hard too. Spanked with hand,slipper,belt,paddle and two canes on bare butt. I loved it! He wanked me off after and that was my first time with a guy. I'm 65 now!!!

 

I like it hard so I’m really sore for a few days

 

Till my butt cheeks glow...

 

Should that not read "Till Her butt cheeks glow " .

Your normally dishing it out

Luv your Avi Picture

 

That's true. .I'm the spanker in our relationship. But, I do miss being on the receiving end, too. .

 

You'll have to have a naughty Elf moment over Christmas and get your partner switching roles . It is Christmas after all .

 

Shes very submissive which is alright, but there are times I wish she had a dominant side.

 

So is my partner . However in roleplays she sometimes switches role . She did lay into my arse once with a riding crop when she played the role of a Cop . that's the only time I have ever used my safeword. That uniform is so sexy though .Just maybe we will do it again sometime .

 

A great feeling and gets my engine running!

 

Do you like giving or receiving a good spanking?

 

Receiving by hand only.

 

That works.