When a camgirl loves you..

Yep. Agree.

I say this out of kindness and trying to help OP, but if you have an easy time attracting and dating women, why are you getting so easily swept up with a few text messages etc?

 

He's just some dude that could never love anyone, just like all of the people he sleeps with. Real love is about what you can give to another person, not what you can get. And no matter how much you desire a person, if you can't offer them anything, you let them go.

It's amazing how clueless a guy who is so successful with women can be. Seriously, you're a pilot who makes a decent living, owns several properties, and you're indulging in cam whores? Have you no sense of self worth? Either you're selling yourself short or you're not. If you weren't so busy being a smooth ladies man, maybe you could indulge someone who really loves you for who you are. You've probably even met girls like that and brushed them aside, too busy being Mr. Cool Ice.

You're going to end up an old lonely man with some disgusting cam whore you can't even relate to, because she's a complete idiot who doesn't even believe in love. And then you'll get a divorce. And when you're sixty you'll finally settle for something "less," which will be a woman who actually loves you. And hopefully you won't hack her to death with an axe in her sleep.

 

Its not wrong to want that, wether you are a man or a woman. But if these people are getting together they should not fool themselves or eachother about it: money and the winking luxurous lifestyle is an important factor, likely more important at this point than the soulmate argument.

 

I think he explained the situation well: he only? indulges in camgirls on lonely business trips but has steadily getting more personal with one he now feels he's developing more significant feelings for, and of course he thinks she for him in return. Shit happens. Well, I think he let it happen. You don't get this personal (communicating via personal accounts etc) with a camgirl by accident.
Now, maybe she really wants to live with him (who knows) and maybe its purely mutual soulmate love (i don't think so). We can't say that with certainty. I think if they gonna meet up to see how they click 'irl' he shouldn't pay for the plane ticket: a good indicator if she really feels he is her soulmate or not

 

Yea, I think if it becomes a real life dating situation, not just texts and pics, then it might be worth seeing where it leads.

 

She makes 2600$ per week and gets to keep half, its not small potatoes..
B thats not important and not my point.

I did say I feel sorry for her that Im reacting this way.. ts not the stripping that got me hooked, but our conversations after..
And yes Im very well aware its their job.. no faul intended..
Im just saying once feelings are in play it becomes complicated..

 

Walk away, before you get hurt.

 

Dont forget she practicly asked me nót to tip her anymore cause it feels weird..
Thats where things changed for me..

 

You do know you are being played.
Come on.

 

I do go out as much as possible, and do hook up with women that way, but I dont go out every night, Im jetlagged almost all the time.. quiet evenings are dull in the hotelroom..hense camsites... but its inevitqble to start talking to these girls, things happen..
This is a first timer for me to.. it was never my intention..

 

In the back of my head a voice tells me this yes..
Maybe I got to naive this time.. as I said this never happend to me

 

This.

I can hear her ''manager'' telling her now...''tell them you're falling in love with them, etc..''

Unless she's willing to meet and have a real relationship, I'd just let it go.

 

Just take it as a bit of fun.
Never serious.

 

Well, listen to that voice.
We are all saying the same thing.
You will meet a lovely genuine lady one day.

 

Their fault? Jealous rage?
Where did I say any of thise things..
If its anyone fault its mine..

 

Its not important for you. But the thing is its likely an important factor for her to claim you're her soulmate. This is the crux of the whole topic.

edit: if money or an upgrade in lifestyle wasn't any point of debate hardly anyone here would have told you to not go on with it or at least be on your guard. Maybe she merely fancies getting into a western country. Maybe its real love, but yeah, hot russian camgirl going for a wealthy wanker (no offense intended, just putting it bluntly); you do the math.

 

Read this!
Memoir of a Cam Girl

 

That sounds like a good plan to me. Well at least not in the early stages.

 

Omg! Wow, that’s crazy!