When the Bi Option presented itself. Did you go for it or back off

Damn straight. I think there’s a lot more guys out there that are or at least are curious about it but just won’t admit it. It’s a shame society is full of so many closed minded people that condemn bisexuality, forcing so many of us into the closet.

 

You are so right. At the same time one's sexuality is their preference and for myself I really have no need or desire to make my preferences known to the public. My wife and our bisexual couple are my lovers whom know and others outside our relationship really don't need to know. What we all enjoy together (M/F-M/M-F/F-M/M/F-M/F/F) behind closed doors is our business.

 

The wife and I tried swinging a few years ago, the wife wanted to be with a woman and I was curious about being with a guy. She had some great sex with other girls, but when my chance came along, the guy just didn't really do it for me, either physically or in personality. So I decided to wait and I'm still waiting, still curious too...

 

My first guy was a real weirdo. I had mutual oral sex with him anyway. He, being as strange he was almost turned me off to being with men but a few days later, the urge returned stronger than ever. With him, I was at least thankful for the experience. The person, not just the parts dose make a big difference in the pleasure level.

 

When the wife had her first bi experience, she didn't want any guys there, just her and the girl. She said if things went good I could join in later ( which I did ) but she was nervous about her first time and wanted privacy. I think that's why I backed off on my first chance, I wasn't ready to play to a crowd and the guy really didn't do it for me on any level. He really wanted to suck me off though, if I could do it over I'd let him....

 

My first chance was when me and my wife were in bed with this same guy and his wife, the girls had been playing with whipped cream and he grabbed the can and covered my cock and balls with it and gave me this look that said "can I ......? " but even before I could say yes or no, his wife dove in and licked me off and the chance never came up again..

 

And yeah, there has to be SOME level of attraction, physical or personality wise...

 

Two months ago I had prepared for my first time since my teen years. We had visitors staying with us. The husband and I had many times been nude together, swapped pics and conversed about sexual things. We never really talked of sex with each other yet I could feel the vibe was there for both of us. During their visit we went to our local nude resort through the week. One night him and I went together and our wives stayed home. Before leaving the resort, him and i showered in the double shower which had semi privacy. As i watched him showering I got erect and when he noticed mine he did too. We talked about our size comparison and took a picture of our erections by each other. We were both at that point but knew it wasn't the place. I suggested we leave and possibly take it back up at the house in our outdoor shower. He agreed. Unfortunately, the oppurtunity never arose again. Never got the privacy needed. Since the visit there has too been a riff going on over something unrelated between us so I doubt the opportunity will ever arise again.

 

You should have just dropped to your knees and taken his cock into your mouth.

 

Bummer. Never give up, never surrender. If you still have urges and feel it, there’s plenty of fish in the sea.

 

Damn the way you put it really describes how I went. I had a good friend in high school that came out as bi and I had someone tell me he had a crush on me, I was naive and didn't think about it because I figures we should just be friends and I didn't bring it up, well fast forward a bit and realized i let a huge opportunity slip by but it's made me really curious about having fun with another guy especially knowing how close I was

 

Thanks for the responses but as I said, the place this happened definitely was not condusive to doing anything sexual without recourse. Basically expelled from the resort and others if caught. My intent was there in the proper place. As far as other fish in the sea.... Im not really on the prowl for just anyone. I was hoping this individual because of the friendship bond we have and hoping things would be most comfortable for us as first timers. As adults anyway.

 

dame its my fantasy

 

I had a very similar experience when I separated from my wife. A buddy who was divorced invited me over the night my wife and I split up. We talked for a long while that night and he asked if I wanted to stay the night. I said, "Yeah, I'll just crash on the couch." He said, "Nah. Let's get a shower and get in bed. I'm gonna make everything better." That was the start of about a 4 year unofficial gay relationship

 

When a bi opportunity came to me I went with it and loved it.

 

It seems that there are more women into it, than I had imagined.

 

Perhaps as women age they become accepting to m/m sex as have us men as we aged. I know my wife has.

 

Love to hear those stories!

 

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I answered an ad on CL from a guy that just wanted to masturbate me naked he would stay clothed, when I arrived we talked and headed to his bedroom. He was me get undressed and I just laid back while he played with my cock. We talked about everything he had a ED issue and could get erect. He asked if I minded if he got naked, "go for it" we played he sucked my cock as i did his but he never got erect. He masturbated me to ejaculation I cleaned up and back to work. Since then a few encounters one was a regular but I moved. Now the search