sex is getting worse, can it be fixed?

Man, there are a million of these threads

Help, we've been together/married for 6 months or more, shes gotten bored silly of me climbing on top of her and grunting for 2 minutes and I cant work out why

 

Concubines...The Bible has all the answers. And it's holy and all good in God's eye.

 

any advice would be appreciated.[/QUOTHeres a suggestion,ever think she’s having an affair and no longer interested in you? Sure sounds she’s got someone else and you trying to make it work she can’t split or even tell you! She wants out but don’t want to hurt you to bad?? Look into if not I’d be surprised want better sex? Get a stimulate like meth you’ll be fucking nonstop with her or someone else and if your not with anyone be beating that bad boy off all day long and whatching porn trying all new things,try it,girls love it! And as for GF,sorry someone had to tell you,it’s what you have thought of b4 but tuned it out,it happens and it’s not u fault or Hers it’s just life!‍♂️

Never heard anything so mad... take meth and you be fucking all day? Lol still isn't going to make her want it from a guy she obviously doesn't want to be with... guys always think it's about them.. lol, maybe he already takes meth..

 

I feel sad at these threads. It's like people get married without even knowing their spouse very well. I dunno.

 

Exactly... my bet he kisses her, jumps on, pumps away while she cant even breath under his weight and garlic breath, and before she has a chance to get going, he is done, farting and turning over to snore... and that's why she has given up and just let's him get on with it... she is done with him..
Say it like it is lol

 

L.glo, I recommend that you stay away from meth

Was there something that happened?

 

First and foremost, you cannot marry this woman.
Sex is a requirement in a marriage, unless BOTH for whatever reason are ok without it.
I was in a sexless marriage for far too long. And for several years before we stopped altogether it was mechanical, awkward and she would many times ask me to hurry up and finish. Finally I just stopped.
I never thought I would be a man who would cheat on his marriage, but I did. Twice.
This was many years ago, and I hold no blame on myself. It is unreasonable to expect someone to live without sex, especially when I was in my 30's.
In the end, we divorced.
I have since remarried to a great gal who enjoys our sex a lot. I cannot tell you how much difference it makes in my whole outlook and happiness.
DO NOT MARRY HER.

 

Yes really.
1) I was not going to abandon my two kids.
2) Even upon the advice of counsel advising me I would most likely win a custody case for several reasons, I could not find it within myself to take both of my children away from her, losing both her husband and both children is not something I could do. So I stayed until the kids finished college. I would do the same thing again. And again. I sacrificed 10 years of my own happiness to raise my kids. And that proved overwhelmingly to be the right decision as both of mu kids are solid adults doing well both in their careers and life.
I put me second.
But yes, absolutely I twice gave in to weakness. I am human. And again it is unreasonable to expect someone in their 30s-40s to live without sex/affection.

 

Which by the way, is why I am telling this young man he cannot pursue the relationship. THe chances of it working successfully are very, very remote.

 

My guess is that's part of the problem. What are you doing to her to make her feel disgusted by you ? that I guess is the problem.

 

I would buy her flowers to remind her that you're interested. Take her out to dinner, or if money is an issue cook (which i think you've said you already do). Light candles if you have to. Let her know you mean business!

If nothing works, let it be her problem. It's not worth stressing over for too long.

 

^^^^...I Just Looked At It.....AND....."SPAM" Is The First Word That Comes To Mind.....



Cheers Glen.

 

Maybe she isn't attracted to you anymore. People grow apart sometimes. People change. The type of people they are attracted to, can change.

Are you being kind to her? Taking good care if her? Being respectful?

Sex is a privilege. It's not a right. It's not a women's job to ensure your needs get met.

What else do you value about this woman and your relationship with her?

 

In my case my wife knows I have a hungry sex drive and over the last few months it as got worse. She told if you have sex with someone l don't want to know, but please don't leave me.

 

She's just young...or knows more than you think.

 

Replying to a 'one post wonder', who has not been online since he posted this question 4 months ago.

We have all done it.

 

yep

 

I have just noticed that you are quite a new member. I am glad that you are joining in and enjoying chatting to us mixed bunch.
Is your avatar dog yours, he looks like ours, a rottweiler collie cross.