When the Bi Option presented itself. Did you go for it or back off

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by topper, May 9, 2019.

  1. John1971

    John1971 Senior Member

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    I wish the opportunity would present itself....
     
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  2. averageguy6

    averageguy6 Average Ordinary Guy

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    Well John1971 I used cregslist, but you can't do that now. There is another site I have been contacted through FetLife
     
  3. Sean James

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    My bi option came the summer before I started high school. I went to my buddy John's house and he was there. I guess he had a thing for young athletic hairless types. I did have 2 encounters before that, but didnt make me want it again. This guy though, was a much older, more experienced, and full on gay man. After a couple failed attempts I let it happen. I dont know what it was. He wasnt attractive and he was a rather hefty guy. I think it may have been they way he went after it when he realized I was giving it to him. He slid my bottoms down and then he went down. He was pounding it down his throat. I was freaking, but also getting turned on. When I tensed he grabbed my hips and as I watched him swallow my cum...I knew I wouldnt be the same. I got stories
     
  4. Cumbrewer

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    In college a guy from another dorm room hit on me more than once. Early on I just ignored it. Then he phoned me and fully described what he wanted. I resisted stating I wasn't that way, meaning into guys or him. Truth be told eventhough I was into women I found some men hot including him. Looking back I wish I would have pursued it. Part of college life is experimenting with new things. I was too much in denial and it was in the mid 80s when coming out bi or gay was complicated by the AIDS epidemic. I'm convinced now that had I pursued guys back then I would have been sucking cock (and more) for decades now. I'm just now starting to explore some 30 years later. My advice now is when you first know it, blow it!
     
  5. LowHangers

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    Yep, I was the same way. However, for the last 20+ years I've been making up for lost time as my wife and I have a bisexual couple we spend time with at least monthly and we all experience sex with each other.
     
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  6. Cumbrewer

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    It is said better late than never...
     
  7. John1971

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    Never have has the opportunity present itself, sadly. But there are a few guys I know who, if it turned out they were bi or gay and interested, I'd let fuck me in a heartbeat. A couple of them I'd even suck and swallow.
     
  8. Sartorial

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    Always wanted to try it and did so for the first time this year
     
  9. Topher1972

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    It took me a while to work up the nerve but after talking to a guy online for a couple months, I met him at his place and dove right in.
     
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    I wish I could find someone who wanted to chat like that and kinda get to know one another. I certainly think it would help me with my nerves also.
     
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  11. Topher1972

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    I’d be happy to chat with and get to know you. I’ll help however I can.
     
  12. Lovnflman

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    I had my MM experiences in HS-college. Got a gf and never looked back. I love women's bodies. Now all these years later that little red 'bi' devil has been whispering in one ear, while the white angelic one is whispering in the other. We live in a smallish town with lots of family and friends. Can't exactly go around throwing out feelers. Ideally I'd like to have a friendship relationship with a married bi top guy with mutual interests outside of sexual. It would make it easier explaining to my wife why we hang around together so much, and why I'm not pestering her for sex.
     
  13. LowHangers

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    My wife and I have a regular bisexual couple we spend a good bit of play time with and I still ask my wife for sex. Having three sex partners doesn't stop me from asking her for some.
     
  14. Lovnflman

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    You're one of the few lucky ones.
     
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  15. Topher1972

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    I haven’t done the kayak island hopping in quite some time as I’ve moved away from the special area. I now kayak the gulf further north and am always on the lookout for a half naked male kayaker. My wife knows I’m bi and is ok with it but chooses not to indulge in the lifestyle. She knows Im careful and won’t bring home any diseases.
     
  16. Beatngu

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    I helped my ex boyfriend have a first time experience. Watching him submit, moan, tap out drove me crazy
     
  17. Topher1972

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    Wow, so cool. Not many women are into bi guys. I sauté you!
     
  18. Beatngu

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    It's a small community.. I love it personally..
     
  19. Topher1972

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    You’re a damn good woman. I wish more women were that open minded
     
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  20. Beatngu

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    I wish men were more open to it
     

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