Random confessions

Sometimes things just dont work out and no one is really to blame..or both parties are to blame and therefore in the best interest of both involved to look forward instead of casting blame backwards.

Its really the most freeing feeling when you can let go of all blame after the end of a relationship. I hope you find that soon!

 

Hell if I know how to let go of blame. According to my wife I've been nothing but bad so that's an awful lot of blame to be rid of

 

Well, I don't know about everyone else, but at least in my case, the reason for that is because I'm still not confessing to everything I've done in life. I don't really feel the need to reveal those aspects of me when they aren't the core elements that define who I really am as a person. If I revealed too much, I'd make you look like a saint in today's societal standards. But I will say that those standards are wrong.

Society doesn't know you, and yet you automatically get placed into a certain category the moment you offer a part of what you're about. If society sees you helping a random old lady on the street, then to the public you're seen as a hero, even if you live the rest of your life successfully hiding the fact that you're a serious killer who manages to kill close to a hundred people until you die of old age. Conversely, you can be the genuinely sweet person who really do care about others, but if society sees a side of you that it doesn't agree with only for a fraction of time, then you're labelled as a threat to mankind deserving of most severe punishment.

Confession is not to be taken lightly. I like confessing about the things that doesn't affect me and the way I live my life.

 

I go barefoot around the neighborhood but not much out in public. Talking with people in chat here, I want to try it more often but afraid to break rules

 

I never quite understand the rules of this site, but I think that other than the obvious ones (such as not promoting terrorism and pedophilia), it is all about how you respond to other members and not personally insulting people. I do know that the rules equally apply to personal messages, so this may be how some people have ended up banned.

I am not very fond of the chat room, since by the time that I have made a cup of tea and replied, the message that I am replying to has vanished off the top of the screen and someone else thinks that I am replying to them.
Jane sometimes accuses me of being rude to people, simply because I think before I speak and do not spend time on a lot of inane chatting about nothing.

 

lol Oops, no...I meant the rules of society, like if you go to public places, and they don’t allow customers to go barefoot, I wouldn’t want to break those rules.

 

Ha-ha. When we are in Ireland, no one bothers whether we wear shoes or not, but if I walked around the part of London where we live barefoot, it would not be long before Christina would get a call to give me a ride in her police car and deliver me to the funny farm.
Just thinking about seeing someone of my age barefoot in Wimbledon makes me laugh, particularly if they were wearing a suit while carrying a briefcase and umbrella. I suppose I could tell everyone that I was auditioning for a Charley Chaplin film. .

 

I have had 40 years of being blamed for everything. It is even my fault when it is raining.

 

Confession: As much as i enjoy my life alone, deep down there is a part that longs for companionship. Though i often feel that the fantasy would be far better than the reality of it. I'm too use to being alone and often fear being in a toxic relationship that's difficult to get out of.

 

Yea, I get that. Relationships can be beautiful but there’s some sacrifice involved. With the right person, it doesn’t feel bad though. I’ve dated a lot of assholes before getting married last year and realized that when you flow with the right person, it’s just so different. Just keep your heart open to the possibilities

 

Allergies are really bad this year. I blow my nose into my hands pretty much every time I take a shower these days.

Sometimes I have to wash snot off my boobs after.

Your move...

 

I agree. With a person you feel is right for you, you are more willing to make the scarifies necessary. You feel they are worth it. This was the case a while back but things went astray.

That's good you found the right person. Hopefully you two can continue to maintain a healthy and strong relationship.

 

I Confess......

I had more work to do at my job, but wanted to leave so I could enjoy the nice weather.

So I left most of it for the next person.

 

Oh my, that sounds terrible



I confess that I'm on a conference call right now, AND on here. Watttt?

 

i do that too

the worst is when you later find a crusty snot dried up in your chest hair or legs

 

I wish I was a cast member of, or at least famous enough to be the host of, Saturday Night Live.

 

I'm lonely, and I have been for so long, even in relationships, I think I've forgotten how to meet people. I definitely don't remember how to do the dating thing, and I'm so oblivious to flirting, I'd have to be told outright 'hey. I'm flirting with you' because I can't see much in me that anyone would actually desire... it's mostly a 'ok, so what do you want out of me' reaction when someone's being friendly...because that's what i've been for too long, and I'm not sure how to change it anymore.

 

Make it happen, cap'n

 

I used the neighbor's wheelbarrow for rubbish removal without asking permission.

I put it back in the same spot looking the same way I found it.

 

Me too! I've also entertained the idea of joining a local improv group which is probably the closest i'll ever get to anything like SNL

Mad TV was always my jam too, I do a great Stuart and Mrs. Swan and that chick whose cat's name is CiCi, cant think of her character's name